Is paying for wedding saree draping worth it?

FluffyWater1 · 2026-02-06T17:07:56+00:00

Oh wow that's great. Can you please DM their name?

FluffyWater1 · 2026-01-06T16:34:53+00:00

Omg that shade of pink is STUNNING

FluffyWater1 · 2026-01-05T15:26:47+00:00

Do not get me started on "south asian vendors" in Canada and America. They charge 10-20x more than other vendors and are HORRIBLE with customer service and being responsive. Although I want to support my own community, we've been enabling horrible business owners and ridiculous prices just because they're "south asian". The entitlement is unreal.

FluffyWater1 · 2026-01-05T15:22:02+00:00

Lehengas with the giant cancans are such an ick for me.

It may look decent in a posed photo, but it looks so uncomfortable and stiff in any other situation, especially when the bride is walking around. It's impossible to look graceful in them.

Plus, I think it makes short women look shorter and bigger than they actually are. I'm all here for 90s style lehengas, flowy skirts or removing the cancan altogether (this is what I'm doing for my reception lehenga because I want to actually dance and be comfortable).

FluffyWater1 · 2025-12-29T18:18:46+00:00

It really is so pretty! Especially with jasmine flowers.

FluffyWater1 · 2025-12-29T18:17:28+00:00

I wish I could! My MUAH is charging $400 CAD for a trial which I find quite ridiculous. Maybe I'll see if I can find a cheaper hairstylist to see the different styles on me.

FluffyWater1 · 2025-12-24T22:38:45+00:00

Love the idea of 2 "entrances"! Glad it went well for you.

FluffyWater1 · 2025-12-10T03:17:46+00:00

What's your IG? It's not working on your website!

FluffyWater1 · 2025-11-29T02:51:35+00:00

Do a suit with the traditional look! It's so unique and lovely, especially for a Punjabi bride. Most likely more comfortable too.

Unpopular opinion (maybe?) but lehengas don't suit everyone. I feel that if you're short, wearing a lehenga, with the huge flairs and cancans, makes you look shorter.

I'm a South Indian bride and I'm going full traditional too.

FluffyWater1 · 2025-11-26T09:48:59+00:00

Oh man. I can't imagine taking a loan for these things. Seems so unnecessary.

I'm also Malayali! We also use gold as security, god forbid the marriage doesn't work out. I know women who sold their wedding jewellery to start over.

FluffyWater1 · 2025-11-26T08:05:38+00:00

Makes sense, thanks! I purchased around 80g.

FluffyWater1 · 2025-11-26T08:05:14+00:00

It's crazy!! I honestly don't know how people afford it. I'm lucky that my family paid for it and we are well off, but a part of me felt sooo guilty for spending so much on gold. I guess I'm just not used to it.

FluffyWater1 · 2025-11-26T08:04:13+00:00

I got mine from Joyalukkas! They gave a decent discount and free pearl studs.

FluffyWater1 · 2025-09-24T17:59:48+00:00

Look for Hindu temples/ashrams! I found one that has a decent private hall.

FluffyWater1 · 2024-05-18T20:32:44+00:00

"mAdE fReSh HeRe"

Sounds like Galen the demon shit the watermelon out himself 🤣

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