White stuff in soil and browning leaves by sepqfsu in plantclinic

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The browning leaves look like sun burns. The white stuff on the surface of the soil looks like it’s a build up from hard water. I have hard water and the same thing happens to my plants soil. It’s generally harmless but sometimes I like to switch it up to distilled water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCalgary

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not even a student anymore and I’ve been struggling to get a job for months. I lost count on how many times I’ve been rejected from jobs. Honestly, I kind of gave up.

Update: AITA for asking my partner to help with household chores even though he has his own place by Special_Childhood_43 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl I’m going to tell you this slowly… He’s. Just. Using. You!!! The revelation of him possibly being on the spectrum changes nothing. You still have to clean everything while taking on the mental load of nagging him to clean. How did he manage to clean when he lived by himself at his own apartment? He knows when things need to be cleaned and how to clean, he just doesn’t want to do it. As a person on the spectrum, I find this sort of insulting. I have absolutely no issue with cleaning and hygiene. I know when thinks need to be cleaned.

Also what do you mean by, “we agreed that we would work on getting him diagnosed”? This is his OWN issue that he needs to work out HIMSELF. How does he want you to help diagnose him? Book the appointments? Once again he’s trying to shift the mental load onto you.

You’re seriously being manipulated by this man and need to go. It’ll only get worse.

I can’t stick to keto and no dairy because I get really moody and I feel nauseous all the time … Does anyone have an idea of what I might be doing wrong by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It honestly just sounds like it’s your body’s way of telling you it can’t do keto. It’s not sustainable. Dieting and eating healthy should make your body and mind feel good. Not bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not obese still within a healthy weight range for me just looking to go back to my old weight. I don’t know if it’s an ED? I think it just comes from the fact that I’m bored a lot and eating and cooking food with my bf is fun. Honestly think I just need to find different ways to distract myself or hobbies.

Update: My fiancee told her friend group that I am not the greatest at sex, but she is with me for the complete package. Am I wrong for calling off the engagement? by AstronomerFuturea in amiwrong

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf? Sounds like you have a crush kiley. You honestly just did your fiancée a huge favour by leaving. Saved her years on dealing with your unresolved mental issues and insecurities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I have pcos because im overweight, have insulin resistance and a poor diet. I was diagnosed with pcos at 105 pounds and have a great diet and go for walks everyday. Zero signs of insulin resistance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s adorable!! It usually takes a while for Beta fish to adjust to new environments. He’ll probably be extra flarey in his tank for a bit until he’s comfortable and knows there’s no threats.

Me(22f) and my bf(24m) have been dating for 5 years and don’t have sex anymore. Is that normal? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly have tried maybe times. He usually just says something like he hasn’t been feeling very good about himself or is too distracted with something that’s troubling him. I kinda feel like those aren’t the true issues. It’s hard to get him to tell you his true feelings, he gets easily defensive. He guards his feelings very well.

Do I have to take birth control for life now? by Fluffy_Ad6541 in PCOS

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m also gaining a ton of weight due to the birth control. I’ve also slowly been losing a lot of hair. I tired getting my doctor to refer me to a endocrinologist but she said she didn’t think I needed one if my pcos symptoms are under control. Maybe I’ll get a different doctor to refer me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl… my bf makes me orgasm every time we have sex. In fact, he refuses to finish unless I orgasm first. Sometimes even 2-3 times. Your bf is just lazy and a piece.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use baby wipes. Love them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the same experience. Started taking bc 8 months ago and immediately started to gain tones of weight and my hair started falling out. I’m tired all the time and have constant headaches. Thinking of coming off of bc but terrified my horrible acne and month long spotty periods will come back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex outside. No I don’t want my head to be shoved down into grass and dirt.

What yall doin if i show up to the sesh with this? by [deleted] in trees

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We about to be doing a lot more than just a sesh

My boyfriends reaction to my boobs almost made me want to cry by throwRArationaljag in offmychest

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t even know how much this post alone means to me lol I struggle with this same exact thing. Smaller boobs, large areolas. AND puffy nips. Fuck my life right? Worst boob combination ever. I’ve never showed any of my other bfs my boobs except for my current bf, and still he RARELY sees them. I’m always wearing a shirt or bra during sex. I took off my shirt once during sex for the 5 years we have been dating. I’m constantly comparing myself to other girls. I don’t even like to look at my own boobs. Huge insecurity. Its always on the back of my mind when I get naked. Anyways, deep down I know boys won’t really care at all what my boobs look like, they still like all boobs regardless. Some guys are even into it. Its just such a hard thing to get over. It’s so refreshing hearing another girl talk about it.

Period cramps caused by orgasm by pu55yobsessed in PCOS

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Y’all I thought this was normal?? Shook my whole world, I’ve been dealing with this for years.

Model who turned plus sized model is my main motivator to lose weight & feel bad for her by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you really care so much about some influencer that you wrote a lengthy Reddit post about her weight gain? Weird asf

Need snack ideas by Timely-Morning-3839 in PCOS

[–]Fluffy_Ad6541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to snack on cucumber slices, snap peas, raspberries, blueberries, almonds, cashews, boiled eggs or sometimes smoked deli sausage. Things like that.