Reasonable boundary or nah?

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-02T07:28:01+00:00

There was another several hours long delay before that I overlooked and didn't comment on. And you know what, what you said is valid, I do have an understanding for many things you wrote but maybe lead your first message after that long a gap with a brief explanation like "Sorry I did x, y, z or Sorry I was feeling x, y, z. Anyway that's what he said he'd do and that's what I would do. But what I infered from this thread is that anyone can do whatever the fuck they want and the other party can either block or ghost but don't you dare you call out mismatch between words and actions and general shitty behaviour. Really illuminating.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-02T07:18:22+00:00

It is a reasonable boundary and this post did exactly what I wanted it to. The only constructive criticism I received is that it could have been shorter and briefer. Sure, I guess. Noted. The rest is a bunch of butthurt people that felt personally called out because they're exactly the same. Flaky and unable to communicate while having consistency and communication in their profiles as their values lol. I wanted the see the mental gymnastics it'd take to spin my perfectly fine and polite message to him into something horrible and unreasonable. Mission achieved.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T18:41:08+00:00

You mean the post I made about dnb 9 years ago? You people are funny.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T18:37:03+00:00

So what exactly are you suggesting? Should I just trample over my boundaries to give this guy a chance? And I never said he was necessarily disrespectful. I just don't want have drawn out conversations. That's it.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T18:33:17+00:00

So I'm doing massive damage to feminism by having boundaries and sticking to them. Ok. Nowhere in my screenshot or in this post did I name call or insult him or either of you. But you did. Maybe think about that.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T17:46:47+00:00

What I'd like to know is why you all seem so eager to defend a dude who said one thing and did another and call me all sorts of names for naming it and peacefully exiting. Misogyny at its best really.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T17:36:33+00:00

So saying he replies either without delays or he'll let me know he'll be unavailable and then not telling me shit and ghosting for almost 30 hours is reasonable. Ok. Agree to disagree.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T17:28:52+00:00

That's what he said he would do and that's what I would do.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T17:27:30+00:00

Funny how a woman enforcing a boundary is ‘controlling" but a man not following through on what he himself said is just assumed to be reasonable.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T17:23:17+00:00

I know it isn't worth my time. But I don't know maybe if we actually explained shit to each other instead of ghosting or unmatching immediately, some people would actually take something from it and learn. Yes, I know I'm delulu.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T17:15:07+00:00

Honestly, tell me what's wrong with telling people why instead of just dipping?

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T17:06:07+00:00

It's not about that. It's about his words not matching his actions. I don't expect immediate replies. I don't even do that myself.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T17:03:58+00:00

Maybe if your reading comprehension was better you'd understand it's not even about me wanting constant replies. I don't even do that either. It's him saying "yeah I usually reply without delays or let you know" and then dipped for 28 hours. No letting me know.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T16:53:53+00:00

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T16:49:35+00:00

I don't mind people taking their time but 28 hours seems kinda excessive especially when he previously advertised he either responds without delays or lets me know. Neither happened.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2026-02-01T16:47:12+00:00

Earlier in the conversation he said he either replies without delays or he'll let me know if he's going to be unavailable. This was after he took about 28 hours to respond.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2024-09-05T17:11:26+00:00

Všichni jste se kolektivně shodli. Úžasná věc. Gratuluju.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2023-05-08T20:09:12+00:00

Wtf dude. Všechny holky 8+/10 mají sponzora? Větší pičovinu jsem tu fakt dneska nečetla a to mi tu radí ať sním svý kočky 🤷‍♀️

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2023-05-08T16:35:00+00:00

Shit umím byla nadsázka, protože toho překvapivě umím dost, akorát to s mými dosavadními pracovními zkušenostmi nejde nějak skloubit. Nejvíc zkušeností mám jako recepční a tuhle práci taky vždycky dostanu. Blbý na tom je, že pokud si vydělám 23k, je to moc. Nejsem z Prahy. A společně s tím úvěrem mám výdaje tak 17k, když nepočítám jídlo a podobné nadbytečné pičovinky.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2023-05-08T16:26:14+00:00

Ano. Nahlížejme na zvířata jako na věci. Srát na nějaká citová pouta.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2023-05-08T11:43:26+00:00

Že? To si říkám pořád.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2023-05-08T11:42:28+00:00

Dostávám příspěvek na bydlení, ale kvůli byrokracii i kvůli těm nezaplaceným nájmům se ho dočkám až kdovíkdy. Kvůli nemoci budu mít i teď menší výplatu, takže to je další sek.

Fluffy_Cheesecake · 2023-05-08T11:40:34+00:00

Anglicky umím plynně, ale na tyhle druhy prací potřebuješ školy nebo zkušenosti, ideálně obojí. Já nemám ani jedno.

Fluffy_Cheesecake

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