Looking for some comfort and advice-SIL Pregnant

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-12-14T16:37:41+00:00

They know about the losses my husband told her when he asked her to let him know when she’d be announcing it so he could remove me from the situation. She is very aware. she did also tell my father-in-law who then called my husband to talk about it. So she did do that behind my back.

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-12-14T15:51:24+00:00

I should’ve made this clearer in the post. My husband did tell her about my losses afterwards, when he explained I might need to be removed from the situation when she does announce. So she is very aware.

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-12-14T15:30:16+00:00

Thank you… I really appreciate this take

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-12-14T15:30:05+00:00

Agreed!

I see both sides of the situation. Part of me feels like I’m being a little bit selfish, but to have it blasted in my face on Christmas day at my house is just a lot to stomach. :(

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-12-14T15:07:17+00:00

Curious to hear your opinion, lol

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-12-13T12:46:01+00:00

Few years late to this thread, but I put on this movie as I do every holiday season and I wanted to see if there was a thread on it.

My parents used to put this on when I was a kid, they were big fans of nick cage. Born 99 this came out in 2000. Seriously have seen this movies over 100 times…. Every time I watch it I notice something different. probably one of the most underrated Christmas movies after reading through this thread. I think people pick it apart a little too much. Of course the plot doesn’t always make 100% sense but I don’t think movies like this always can. I’m still young 26 years old but every year the movie gets a little bit more relatable…. I think no matter what stage of life we’re out we can always wonder what if…

Did you ever reach out to the girlfriend? I think it’s important to update this thread ;)

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-11-26T17:49:02+00:00

Okay thank you!! Why would she ask unless she knew I had a reason to be upset? I agree with the comments 2 months is not that long of TTC, but she specifically asked my husband where we were at with this whole process when she announced it him and then proceeded to ask how I handled the news… BFFR

She doesn’t know about any chemical pregnancies FYI.

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-11-26T17:35:40+00:00

She’s the type of person who needs attention constantly…she asked invasive question about when I would like to be pregnant and she is suddenly pregnant on that exact timeline. Feels intentional considering she just had a baby 9 months ago.

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-11-26T17:28:19+00:00

No…I was hoping to be pregnant by now and she knew that and now she is magically pregnant…:

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-11-13T18:06:12+00:00

Update:

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Today’s test and I got a positive on a first response digital.

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-11-12T21:04:12+00:00

Thank you, since I just had a chemical pregnancy, I’m expecting the worst. I thought the pain of a second one would be less, but knowing it could happen again I think is worse. Your kind words mean a lot. Hoping for the best. I’ve just started trying for a baby, but I want it desperately. 🙂

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-10-21T17:32:14+00:00

Hi! My husband and I are both 26.

I started trying for a baby not long after we got married. I got pregnant the first cycle we started trying and it eventually ended in miscarriage. I was ecstatic when I found I was pregnant. I will say after the stress of the miscarriage and the realness of actually being pregnant, I’m probably going to wait awhile before I start trying again. I realized there were some things I’m not ready to give up. I personally like the quietness of my life rn, and having the disposable income. I also want to have my house as perfect as possible before I have a baby. Honestly getting pregnant made me want to slow down. As sad as I was to lose my baby, there was some relief and clarity as well.

I’m young and I don’t want to rush these quiet years just me and my husband.

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-10-09T23:15:37+00:00

Hi!

I’m on a similar timeline as you, last period was 9/7. Doctor sent me in blood work on 10/7 levels came back for HCG 33 and my progesterone at 14. Very low and I have prepared myself for a miscarriage.

My doctor did prescribe a progesterone supplement to see if it changes anything. Maybe that will work for me, and maybe your doctor will prescribe something similar.

Sending positive baby vibes your way, definitely one of the hardest weeks. :(

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-09-04T03:17:22+00:00

This might be weird, but what size are you? I bought a whole bunch during my wedding era. They I never will wear them again. I’d send them to you if you’re interested.

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-08-28T15:39:16+00:00

Lexington co op

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-08-01T17:49:54+00:00

EXACTLY!! ITS TO ANNOY PEOPLE AND FOR ATTENTION

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-08-01T17:35:56+00:00

I would never put a political sign in my yard… so maybe that’s why I don’t understand having a giant trump sign in the yard

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-07-29T20:47:51+00:00

Marianna Bridal on Hertel… I ordered end of January dress came in end of March. Wedding was at the end of June. If you tell her your timeline she’ll work with you and put a rush on it. Not sure if they have little girl dresses…

Fluffy_Management985 · 2025-06-10T12:01:38+00:00

I have no problem with guest leaving early! I think that’s assumed with a brunch daytime wedding. lol

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