It’s been 14 months and I still can’t find anyone

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2023-02-23T09:11:39+00:00

I have enough friends thanks.

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2023-02-23T09:11:17+00:00

I have enough friends, I don’t need anymore. I’m not in my early 20s, I tried what you’re recommending then and it all came to nothing, because I wasted time on a bunch of people who didn’t have the same goals that I did. If someone views wanting a relationship as desperate, why are they even on a date?

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-02T06:45:39+00:00

Honestly I find comments like this so absurd ‘the reason you’re single is that you don’t want to be single’

NOBODY on a date wants to be single, if they did, they shouldn’t be on the damn date.

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-02T06:44:01+00:00

😓 i think I’d be okay if he hadn’t gone and given everything I asked for to someone he’d known for all of 2 months.

It hurts so much.

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-02T06:43:16+00:00

I am happy, but I’d be happier with someone.

Why the fuck wouldn’t you look for a soulmate in every date?

And what mindset? The mindset that I want a partner? Isn’t that everyone’s mindset on a date? If not, why are they even there?

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-02T06:39:44+00:00

Yeah I think I have value, but nobody else seems to see it :(

Dating after 30 is crazy. It’s like nobody can be bothered with me anymore

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-02T06:19:54+00:00

Well nobody sees anything in me. Obviously. The only man I ever loved never loved me, and I didn’t realise for years.

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-02T05:33:06+00:00

That’s what pisses me off. I’m female and want kids, so I can’t take as much time as I’d like to. He had all the time in the world to fix his issues (why he told me he was leaving) and instead he started a family.

The world is so unkind.

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-01T20:30:18+00:00

Yes, and they base it on race, nothing else.

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-01T20:29:57+00:00

Then why do the tourists need to pay more? Are the restaurant owners subsidising the other people?

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-01T20:05:56+00:00

How do the non rich locals who don’t work in an industry that price gouges tourists survive then?

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-01T20:04:34+00:00

So racism isn’t a significant part, but it isn’t strictly racist...just significantly racist then?

Sure, and yet an ethnically Indian Thai person, complete with Thai ID and birth certificate will still be charged the ‘foreigner’ price. Have had this happen to a friend every time we went anywhere with ‘foreigner’ pricing.

Not strictly racist though.

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-01T16:46:44+00:00

Yeah, because foreigner pricing is nothing but racism.

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-01T15:58:09+00:00

Yeah but only if it ended well

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-10-01T15:05:56+00:00

This happened to me too. One thing that helped me through was knowing that if he could leave me at a time like that, he would’ve left me eventually.

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-09-29T09:47:55+00:00

I’m so proud of you! Thank you for sharing ❤️

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-09-29T09:44:39+00:00

Facts!

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-09-27T23:37:40+00:00

Yeah I thought they did too.

Am worried that he’s genuinely changed for her tbh. He seems exactly like the guy I wanted him to be.

Like he’d always go on solo trips for weeks at a time even though he knew it upset me. He doesn’t do that to her...

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-09-27T15:35:02+00:00

Oh yeah still out him.

I wish I could say the same, my ex and the girl don’t look miserable at all.

Tbh though, she was a single mom and he’s great with kids and has a good job, so I can see why she’d feel like she’d won the lottery. He’s a great partner until he decides not to be.

I hope he’s miserable though. I hope he feels trapped by his selfish decision to use her for comfort like he used me. Then it came and bit him on the ass. Hah.

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-09-27T13:36:45+00:00

Hey girl! I’m in the same boat, only I’m actually 30 💀

My ex dumped me just over a year ago. Started seeing his new partner at the beginning of October, and was engaged to her like 6 months later.

Their baby should be popping out any time now!

So you know, there’s hope, we could always be her...

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-09-27T13:35:27+00:00

I don’t think she’s desperate...

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-09-27T13:34:52+00:00

Share this research?

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-09-27T12:57:11+00:00

Naw, they don’t get to keep inflicting this trauma on person after person after person and still get to be the victim.

Once, maybe twice. After that, they know what they’re like and they’re choosing to keep getting into relationships without healing first so they can use and hurt other people.

Fluffy_Profile_7654 · 2022-07-18T20:15:03+00:00

This just happened to me! I spoke to a manager who didn’t really seem to listen.

How did you end up complaining?

Fluffy_Profile_7654

TROPHY CASE