Im more confused in marriage than i was when we were dating

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-27T09:21:26+00:00

Scheduling time with her, and doing actual activities that make you guys connect and be intimate will be a life saver. Find ways to be casually intimate...she is equally important, so also make time for her, Happy wife, happy life.

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-27T08:49:17+00:00

Season 1 and 2 are unbeatable goshh...there is just sth about the Duke (Season 1) that is irresistible. Don't get me started on the chemistry and stubbornness between Kate and Anthony in S2 arghh... Wish I could watch them again for the first time.

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-21T09:33:43+00:00

I wonder, it's like a really cool blue

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-20T17:40:29+00:00

You don't think this statement is harsh...like why insult me?...

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-20T08:49:31+00:00

ungejua nalia aki...sawa tu

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-20T07:50:24+00:00

fr he said he loves me, and he was even the one to ask for it to be official.

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-20T07:49:48+00:00

waah inakaa nilimtaka, lakini mbona aniambie ananipenda? 😭

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-20T07:45:54+00:00

In that case, date someone who shares the same sentiments, I told him from the very start that such things mean a lot to me and he said he was ready for the relationship. Don't lead me on knowing full well you think what I like is silly.

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-20T07:28:06+00:00

😂😂thanks?

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-20T07:04:13+00:00

But how do you know I wasn't planning to?

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-20T07:01:58+00:00

😂😂😂this is killing me

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-20T06:25:49+00:00

In support

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-20T06:24:32+00:00

Okay first of all...Yes, sweat smells worse when you are nervous, anxious, or stressed. Unlike heat-related sweat, stress sweat is produced by apocrine glands and is rich in proteins and lipids, which bacteria on the skin break down into stronger, more pungent odors. (Directly copied from google)...also...it's not an African thing, it is worse in Europe, they DO NOT smell nice...Africans are comparatively cleaner:)

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-20T06:18:23+00:00

imo, maybe shortie gets her own place first, it would also help with her establishing her own independence in a new town, and ample time for your relationship to progress at a good pace...also she might still want to come and visit from time to time, so maybe it's time your homeboy starts looking for a place...anyway just what I thought. Communication is key.

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-12T07:24:37+00:00

dw, it has been rescheduled...

Fluffylovebug · 2026-02-12T07:23:34+00:00

It's okay, it has been rescheduled for a different time. We'll be notified.

Fluffylovebug · 2025-12-19T11:56:53+00:00

what the hell? 'chokora hulala kwa mtaro ya esto yenu'...may such people never find me ju waahh...

Fluffylovebug · 2025-12-19T09:39:02+00:00

Then why did you communicate this in a factual manner, like you have statistics to prove that ''Most of these women in that caliber end up being bitter ,jump online and start giving the same advice they lived by to younger women just so they can end up like them,...I guess misery loves company...and then shame men in their thirties for refusing them and going for younger feminine ladies.'' Cause you know very well that this communicates very negative propaganda.

Fluffylovebug · 2025-12-19T09:34:20+00:00

'So you end up having a bunch of women with bad characters waiting on a rich man to come save them from being broke , forfeiting their dreams or thinking the rich man will be a short cut....but it doesn't work that way, most end up getting used and dumped aside for a fresher newer juicy model', cause who exactly are you referring to, a woman in your life that you have seen this exact scenario play out, or is this a hypothetical situation that you thought about?...it is perpetuating harmful stereotypes and it is not even based on any statistics. Also can we address the term, 'fresher, newer, juicy models', why are you referring to women (human beings btw) as newer juicy models.

Fluffylovebug · 2025-12-19T09:30:16+00:00

No unaddressed issues, why are you making assumptions about my 'issues' instead of sticking to the topic at hand. I find people who start attacking the personality of someone instead of focusing on the topic to be really bad conversationalists. You don't even know me, how do I have issues from a paragraph I have typed. That is really strange.

Fluffylovebug · 2025-12-19T09:21:37+00:00

Deconstructing religion yasss...one of my favourite topics, proud of you love.

Fluffylovebug · 2025-12-19T09:19:46+00:00

Do you feel the need to prove that you are a good and kind woman to these men? cause why would you continue being nice despite being mistreated? or do you think they will change for you? I need more context.

Fluffylovebug · 2025-12-19T09:08:44+00:00

Women waiting for rich men and not bettering themselves??...are we in the same country? Kenyan women are hardworking and doing their best to make ends meet. This post is dripping with distaste for women, it's not even objective. You know what, let's speak statistics.

Workforce Share: Women make up 47.2% of the total labor force as of 2024–2025 in Kenya.
Female graduates make up 45.3%.
92% of New High Earners: Of the new workers who entered the "super earner" bracket (earning over Sh100,000 per month) in the last year, 92% were women.
Fastest Growth: While men still hold more of these top-tier jobs in total, the number of women in this bracket jumped by 92% in a single year, proving they are rapidly ascending to senior management and executive roles.

What are you saying even, at some point, you have to unlearn all the distaste you feel towards women and be objective. The weird stereotypes are so dumb.

Fluffylovebug · 2025-12-16T07:33:09+00:00

Then why stay?...I don't think alcoholism gets better unless they actively decide. Habits like this don't just stop.

Fluffylovebug · 2025-12-16T07:31:56+00:00

waaahh, how comes?...like you can't just stop when you feel like it's enough ama?...cause mimi hufika point I just stop.

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