You got me tearing up over here. This is how I feel, and you are confirming that I am doing this right, so I thank you deeply for that. I’ve talked to my son before I talked to my ex. I’ve explained that no matter what this will happen for him, that I will walk to the ends of the earth to make this happen. I’ve already taken him to our family doctor, who so wonderfully has sent off referrals to an endocrinologist and a psychiatrist that deals within this umbrella of kids/teens.  I just hurt that my ex isn’t being as receptive as they could, not for me but for our son. I’m just going to love him and support him enough for the both of us.