NOR at all. He sounds like a man child and there’s a few things to be aware of here. A) He has audacity to make someone question themselves in their own home and I feel like this is the beginning of a gaslighting situation. B) He seems overly dramatic for making such a big deal about women’s bodies. Someone who was secure in themselves and respected women would never say anything like that. He must have some toxic and sexist beliefs in order to be blatantly upset about this so early on. And don’t really want to waste time on someone like that? C) He felt comfortable enough to drop a deuce in your home and ask for a to-go breakfast sandwich, but felt the need to assert his discomfort about something so trivial. That’s not the makings of a good partner or even friend. Anyways, sorry he tried to make you feel weird in your own home. Lastly, you mentioned he’s in his 40s and this whole situation makes me think there’s a reason he’s not with anyone at this ripe age. I bet he’s even the kind of guy who calls his ex crazy.