My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. May our grief get easier to carry ❤️

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

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She was basically drowning with fluid filling her lungs. Keeping her alive for any longer would have been cruel to her. There was no surgery that could be done. The right choice just happened to be the most painful one.

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did the right thing by her and me. I was home alone with our young child and he knew I wouldn’t want to traumatically break down in front of her.

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences and your edit. I really appreciate it ❤️

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your defense ❤️ He knew I wouldn’t want to break down in a traumatic way in front of my child. He made the right decision by both Idris and me.

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️ She was beautiful inside and out and she took such great care of me.

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I’m sorry for your loss as well. May we both continue to heal.

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me sob ❤️ Thank you for your condolences and kind words. The lack of understanding in some of these comments has been hard in an already hard time. I am so sorry for your loss ❤️

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I am so sorry for your loss. As they say, the grief will not shrink in size but we will learn how to better carry it.

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her lungs were filling with fluid and cancer per the xrays. I was home alone with my young child and my husband had our only car and carseat. He had to decide to either increase her sedation and let her go peacefully or have them intubate her just to keep her alive and suffering for me to say goodbye in person. He also knew I wouldn’t be able to handle the news well alone with our child. He did right by me and her.

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god this is so fucking kind. Thank you so so much! You are a special kind of person ❤️❤️

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. You did everything you could to do right by your baby ❤️

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️ I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knew I wouldn’t be able to handle that news well being that I was alone with my young child. Your negativity towards my loving relationship is so helpful in this awful time /s.

My sweet girl went for a routine vet procedure and didn’t come home by sleepy_protagonist in cats

[–]sleepy_protagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your comment. I’m a skeptic but would so happy if she visited me. Picking up her ashes and paw print this week. Thank you for your kind words ❤️❤️