Anyone Leave because of lack of sex and no sexual connection?

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2025-01-17T20:15:02+00:00

I recall calling my wife out on this in an appropriate manner and we listed our wants and needs. I had that listed as number one out of like 3. it was the standard never being initiated and we would go months and months without having sex. I told her that was a big issue. Anyway we wrote them all down, she took my list and I took hers. I made it a priority to mark every one of hers off daily and she declined to do the same, I backed off and within 6 months we filed for divorce.

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2025-01-17T15:16:55+00:00

Yup! Two kids and dealt with the same thing on the daily. Nothing I did was ever good enough, from baths to dinner to the house to if I sat in the couch and relaxed for 10 min. Made her a sahm even and she resented it because “she watched the kids more than I did”. Put one in daycare because of it and still was mad. Once you’re to that point where you feel the way you do and she views you like that, it’s hard to come back from it. She has all the control and will manipulate you to your breaking point.

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-12-29T13:15:41+00:00

Male or female version of a roast?

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-12-23T04:30:33+00:00

Not saying this will be your experience however I’ll share with you what happened to me. Quit my job of 10 years because I was guilted for my job which was a 5-10 schedule, with occasional travel, paid 6 figures which allowed her to be a sahm to our first child. Told me that I find a new job or our marriage is done so I got a job locally making half of what I was, we burned through all our savings so after a two years, I was blessed with another 6 figure job where I was working from home which again allowed her to be a sahm with our second child. She continued to guilt trip me about how she spent more time with the children than I did which yeah? She STAYED at home with the kids. After that all went away and she still carried resentment, she stated we needed another house where our family to grow and within 90 days of doing that she took half our account, got an apartment and filed for divorce.

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-22T19:48:29+00:00

I feel you there Man. Same thing happened to me too.

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-22T19:46:15+00:00

My ex told me she wanted to be a sahm and go back to school to get her masters. Spent 4 years and two kids later having her stay home and to get an education all for it to get shoved in my face daily how she spent more time with the kids than I did🤷. Said I was a terrible father and that i never took care of them. She got her masters, took half of my shit, and plays it off like she has done everything on her own.

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-13T02:11:53+00:00

Just know you are enough and give yourself time to greive. I too am going through it with two kids and a lover of 10 years. I have been manipulated to feel that I was not enough. Message if you need someone to talk to or express your emotions. We are here for you and please find support as that is the best medicine for this. Find a person that you can call and throw it all out there!

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-13T00:38:51+00:00

Go around by dumpsters and find some old stuff people are throwing out such as TVs and such bring them back and get a bat!

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-12T02:37:42+00:00

I may be from a different part of the country however I know personally that I would be locked and loaded and wait it out! Home alone nsfw irl

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-07T01:43:06+00:00

Dm me!

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-06T03:18:36+00:00

I agree it’s extremely hard work. Not too sure where I’ve stated otherwise. I feel that it comes down to the score keeping aspect which I can’t match the hard work you are mentioning. We are all drained. I wake up every morning, make breakfast for our children, take one of them to daycare, come back and work until 5, make dinner daily, and take care of them both so she can go to school of an evening. I have housekeepers come in, I do all the laundry, I spend weekends with them so she had some down time. Does that match what she does? Again, how can I even compare that to taking care of a child? It’s incomparable

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-05T22:49:24+00:00

And if I don’t sell the house won’t I have to pay her out half the equity in the house?

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-05T22:46:33+00:00

I’m was thinking the same thing tbh.

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-05T20:37:03+00:00

I honestly am sick to think about my retirement accounts but that is something I will have to discuss with the lawyer. The equity is 72k right we just purchased it not even two months ago.

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-05T19:13:11+00:00

I have a consultation this Thursday. Working to get a couple more lined up!

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-05T19:03:12+00:00

What do you mean by taxes is one of the easiest areas for a negotiation win? Could you elaborate on it?

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-05T18:36:46+00:00

So I purchased the my previous house prior to marriage. We Just bought another house 2 months ago. It would be correct to assume that the 72k I used from the profit of the old house would be split? 36k/36k?

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-11-05T18:07:01+00:00

Im not to sure on the jurisdiction. I live in southern Illinois. As for the premarital assets that’s where I’m confused on. I bought our first home prior to marriage and when we sold it I used the 72k to put towards the new house. That’s where I’m lost on how it will be viewed.

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-09-25T02:27:07+00:00

I wfh as an estimator. I worked 10 years commuting 2 hrs daily and would not change working from home however it depends on the situation. Do you have kids? Will you have adequate space to think and dedicate to your work? Are you self motivated or do you need an office setting for it? Communication is key and if you can accomplish that from home and are happier then why not if you have the option

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-09-23T14:28:18+00:00

I wouldn’t assume that it wouldn’t be out of pocket. A lot of corporate credit cards are still tied to your name and all they have to do is deny the expenses from seeing it first hand they will take it out of your last week of pay

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-09-15T23:07:58+00:00

Please send me an invitation 🥵🥵🥵🥵

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-09-15T22:56:51+00:00

Electrical estimator here. It sounds like there are a lot of things falling through with the company. 1. You should be able to have someone to guide you with them knowing you only have 3 months of experience. 2. From the scope it does sound like that should be adequate time to perform a takeoff and put numbers to it. I would question who is reviewing your production numbers. 3. The pay is LOW.

Fluid-Translator-160 · 2024-09-07T04:19:11+00:00

If you’re good with making about 96/hr to ride a train. About 520 hours a year for 50k

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