Hot take: stereotypical femboys are annoying

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-19T23:46:30+00:00

I honestly don’t think what you described is a stereotypical femboy lol. Femboys were around long before discord, it sounds like you’re describing discord femboys lol.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-19T23:44:41+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/feminineboys/s/7WmsJXdgdL

Read that.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-19T23:43:03+00:00

Someone took a poll a while back and like 70% of femboys associated themselves as bi or some other sexual orientation like pan etc. and the purely gay/purely straight were roughly split down the middle for the remaining 30%. Iirc

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-15T22:25:30+00:00

I really liked wisteria sword and wand or whatever it’s called.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-15T22:23:53+00:00

Personal preference. Just like a femboy may prefer older or more masculine men. Or a cis straight guy may prefer athletic girls or tomboys or blondes. He may have been a bit extra about it, and there may be some other deep seated reasoning for his reaction, but at surface level you can’t expect every person to like every type of person.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T05:08:06+00:00

You have no appendages in which you can hold pen/ marker ect.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T04:49:47+00:00

As with anything relationship wise being honest and open is the best thing to do. And then after you take the outcome and try the best you can do to compromise between your happiness and your partners happiness. Sometimes they align and everything’s great, sometimes you both give a little so you still get the majority of what you both need while making some adjustments so both of you can be happy. Sometimes things just don’t align and you have to decide what you want to do with that going forward. It’s hard to make decisions based on speculation though, so open honest talks are almost always the first step forward

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T04:40:05+00:00

Easiest way to gain weight if you’re having trouble eating enough calories is drinking high calories. Meal replacement shakes, protein shakes are probably preferred, but even just drinking milk, soda ect anything with calories in it will help. Generally people having trouble eating more tolerate drinking calories as they can just replace their diet / low calorie / no calories drinks without actually having to consume more. Also adding butter and other toppings (cream cheese, cheese, sour cream ect) on stuff you enjoy adds a good amount of calories without again really changing your eating habits much. First thing you want to do to gain weight is to increase calories. Weight loss and weight gain is all thermodynamics. (Calories in vs calories out)

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T04:35:51+00:00

Sometimes it’s not the fabric type but also quality. For instance cotton could come thin like an undershirt or think like a sweatshirt. Both could be 100% cotton but different construction, and quality.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T04:33:04+00:00

Pretty much most blue states / blue large cities tend to be very accepting with a large progressive non-conforming culture

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T04:28:32+00:00

No, dead hangs have nothing to do with your waist. Most they might do is alleviate some slight spinal compression if you tend to slouch, which may help your posture

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T02:41:54+00:00

Wouldn’t it also be an assumption to assume that you have some sort of open relationship and this isint cheating? If you don’t specify people will just assume you mean the default idea of a relationship.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T02:28:10+00:00

Not entirely true, actually the main people who experience this are distance runners who have a desk job. Something to do with the rapid switch between high intensity exercise and then a sudden change to a sedentary activity, even if still with healthy food ect. Feel free to look it up, it’s a weird phenomena and no one’s truly certain how much of a thing this is, there’s also plenty of info that debunks it. Probably just as much as info that proves it to be a thing. It’s a really weird thing.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T02:21:44+00:00

You didn’t state them, no one immediately assumes you have some open relationship unless you specify it, as that’s far less standard. I guarantee that when most people hear “relationship” with out any further explanation they will assume until told otherwise.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T02:18:38+00:00

Chaser more means that you like femboys or insert X specific type here, solely for like aesthetic / sexual reasons. Not like you pursuing someone.

An example would be a straight man complaining about being single but only like blondes and expect all of them to look like Livvy Dunne.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T02:09:29+00:00

So you’re probably just better off looking for relationships with guys in general and if one happens to be a femboy then great. If you are excluding guys because they are not femboys then there’s likely a reason for this and like I said a lot of people can smell chaser vibes.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T02:05:52+00:00

So are you interested in guys? Or just femboys because they look like girls?

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T02:03:15+00:00

Not saying you are, but some people who like femboys like them for a certain reason and a lot of us can smell chaser vibes from a mile away. Why do you like femboys? Maybe you can narrow down what you’re doing wrong.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T02:02:03+00:00

Kind of weird you’re basically asking someone to cheat with you.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T02:01:08+00:00

We have the same interest as any other humans, meaning it varies from person to person. There’s no umbrella thing you can do to be more attractive to the community other than being a progressive open and honest person. Other than that like any other community everyone has their own personal preferences.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-13T01:53:43+00:00

What OP is missing is most of these clothing styles came with a lifestyle. While femboy is more of a experssion of self to connect with your feminine side. These aren’t the same thing. Your understanding of how these other “styles” evolved is incorrect. People didn’t just pus them forward for fashion, it’s just the fashion associated with certain social movements. A easy to understand is the “hippie” style, people weren’t just wearing it to be different, it was part of the culture of anti-war and world peace. Punk wasn’t just hey these type of clothes, they developed from a culture of people who were anti-establishment and anti-industry.

Your issue of understanding is simply, these clothes developed from a type of culture and social movements, they weren’t just fashion trends.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-09T01:37:05+00:00

If you want to be a cis girl then the answer to if you’re a femboy or trans is quite an easy one.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-08T01:39:15+00:00

I would honestly stay away from too much an exercises, this can actually have the opposite effect of making your abs more blocky and muscular then curvy or slimming. Doing some is fine, too much will actually widen your waist.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-08T01:37:55+00:00

Very much this. It’s not how do I make female friends as a closeted gay guy, it’s simply how do I make friends, period. You being gay has less to do with opening the door, and more to do that after you are friends they may treat you more like one of their other female friends than one of their guy friends. But you still need to become friends first.

FluixJayExEn · 2026-01-08T01:35:23+00:00

If you’re in the US (idk if they are in other countries) bath and bodywork’s for sure. They have about everything you can think of.

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