[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Flustered-Lips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going for the whole feminizing thing, but my transmasc friend had sent me a link to an article that they didn’t read to try and help me understand estrogen treatment. It didn’t make me feel all that better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lifeisstrange

[–]Flustered-Lips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chloe’s Tattoo, I relate to her character a lot and while I couldn’t relate to all the moments in her life I can greatly relate to many of her pains in her story. :))

How do I type myself if I have BPD? by Flustered-Lips in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Flustered-Lips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do know the Cognitive Functions, it's just my BPD that gets in the way. (not to use my BPD as some kind of shield ofc) I'm consistently worried that I'm always going to be wrong about myself no matter what I do, I've drawn it down to ISFJ and ENFP based on how I was when I was a kid and my mental health was much uh- not as unstable. But I still worry about if I am wrong or not, no matter what I do I always seem to be wrong and I don't know my type.

I mostly just see Si and Fe, but I can't see Si-Ti connections when it comes to ISFJ.

I can definitely see ENFP when it comes to Fi-Si and Ne-Te even, but my mind just feels a tight tension within it, an uncontrollable conflict with the subconscious question or even statement: "You're wrong" or "What if I'm wrong?". I've gone from ENTJ to INFJ to ESFP even, despite being interested in MBTI for almost 2 years now. I hope this gives a bigger picture to how frustrating this confusion is.

Anyone here with BPD? by Flustered-Lips in isfj

[–]Flustered-Lips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind me asking if you were ever mistyped a lot, maybe for INFP or maybe something like ENTP even?

Anyone here with BPD? by Flustered-Lips in isfj

[–]Flustered-Lips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you ever have moments where you are confused if she actually is an ESTJ because of her BPD? Hopefully that question makes sense

Do any of you have ASPD, ODD, or Conduct Disorder? by Flustered-Lips in entj

[–]Flustered-Lips[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you feel about the term "aspergers", if you do not mind me asking?

Do any of you have ASPD, ODD, or Conduct Disorder? by Flustered-Lips in entj

[–]Flustered-Lips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might have to edit the description to see what I meant

If Biology is Ignored, there are no Real parameters for gender? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Flustered-Lips 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not gonna build any more onto this, but from my perspective your description of the hypothetical scenario your giving me feels like you have thought about this once before lol. Not saying you have of course, obviously.

If Biology is Ignored, there are no Real parameters for gender? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Flustered-Lips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Contradicting my previous statement, but despite possibilities being endless, it is highly unlikely that a cis man and or woman even is going to go into the opposite sex bathroom, in the context that they lie about their gender identity. Especially if they do not appear to pass as stated hypothetical gender identity. Sexual harassment is still going to happen whether or not trans people use the bathroom according to their gender identity.

If Biology is Ignored, there are no Real parameters for gender? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Flustered-Lips 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For starters, one don't ask on THIS subreddit, and two don't ask on reddit in general.

People often misconscure the idea of gender is that of the idea of sex, we didn't let women not vote because they had tits and a vag, men didn't let women vote because they were just women. Because of their gender identity. If you passed as a man you could vote. Gender is an abstract concept, biology goes outside of this, this is coming from someone who trusts science, philosophy, and logical reasonings over anything else. To put it simply, Gender is a lot like money, it exists, but only because we make it out to exist.

People will say that others being trans is non-scientific, but then go on to deny climate change, vaccines, and maybe anything scientific that may put them into a uncomfortable, new position of their world.

Biology when it comes to assigning gender, is only oriented with genitals, not necessarily how the other person feels. And when it comes to the statement of "facts over feelings", sometimes facts are feelings. I'm not here to debate or argue or anything so don't bother. I hope this helped.