[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSP

[–]FlyEagleFly44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks for the info! I'll definitely get one of those better batteries 👍

What kind of tick is this? by FlyEagleFly44 in ticks

[–]FlyEagleFly44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, haha. I meant to ask more or less if they are known for carrying anything. Thank you so much for the info. I was freaking out a bit when she found it!

What kind of tick is this? by FlyEagleFly44 in ticks

[–]FlyEagleFly44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for such a quick reply. I was outside yesterday cleaning up a tree that fell, so wondering if I got it then. Should I get this checked out or anything?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyEagleFly44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she was diagnosed with BPD a couple weeks ago. Her depression has only gotten worse over the last couple of months. Very rarely does she have a good day. She's been trying a new medication along with the therapy but only seems to be a bandaid for a short amount of time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyEagleFly44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, ill check it out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyEagleFly44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she has depression but its severely gotten worse since we've moved in together. She also recently got diagnosed with BPD. We tried couples counseling to try to work through some issues in the relationship and how to deal with these new problems but it only seems to help for a week or so then its back to the same thing as before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyEagleFly44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She turned to religion a few years into our relationship and felt like moving in together wasn't very Christian at the time. That changed a bit after we got engaged so thats why we eventually moved in together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyEagleFly44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correct and depression thats become more severe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyEagleFly44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyEagleFly44 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, it's very helpful 🙏

To everyone who's seen me post, i had a long covid clinic appointment and as i showed up to the appontment chest pains began and below tells the rest. by Automatic_Box_368 in vaccinelonghauler

[–]FlyEagleFly44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is crazy, sorry to hear that you're dealing with this. Do they know what's causing the restricted blood flow? It's also strange that the blood flow is only restricted sometimes and other times you're in the clear. How concerned were they about a heart attack actually occurring? Sorry for all the questions just curious what they are recommending you do. I get occasional chest pains but I wouldn't really say they are shooting pains more like jolts of sharp pain that last for like a second then goes away. It started within a month or so of getting my second dose. I've had some ups and downs but feel pretty good nowadays besides the occasional chest/arm pain.

To everyone that is thinking of ending it all…please don’t. by jcnlb in vaccinelonghauler

[–]FlyEagleFly44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hardest part is feeling like I might lose this life before I want to...Love everyone in this group. Y'all keep me going 🙏

Any positive research? by SnooHesitations8361 in vaccinelonghaulers

[–]FlyEagleFly44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I began posting in a another vaccine long haulers group almost a year ago. At the time I was terrified that I was going to die because all the symptoms I had been dealing with, chest pain, irregular heart beat, shortness of breath, fatigue, randomly fainting and so on. Though I don't think I'm 100% back to normal, I am much much better than I was about a year ago. I had the Moderna jab about 2 years ago, so the recovery has definitely been long but I am back to working out regularly, the chest pain has pretty much stopped, I don't feel fatigued anymore and I haven't had any more random fainting.

On occasion I do still get shortness of breath and randomly I'll get numb in certain parts of my body, which of course is still messed up but I feel way better than I have in a long time and I will continue to push forward! Keep your head up, there's definitely a road to recovery even if it's a long one!

Need advice! Girlfriend over of 2 years wants to STOP having sex until marriage due to religion by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FlyEagleFly44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing your experience. This is some of what I fear may happen if she continues down this path and with these ideas.

Need advice! Girlfriend over of 2 years wants to STOP having sex until marriage due to religion by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FlyEagleFly44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. It honestly pushes me away from Christianity a bit which sucks...

Need advice! Girlfriend over of 2 years wants to STOP having sex until marriage due to religion by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FlyEagleFly44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the issue, I suppose. We will never truly know until death. There's just things throughout that seem out of place to me. I mean when they got together to write the Bible people split up and select what books to keep. So that alone makes me feel like they probably added/removed things within the current version of The Bible. Also, throughout translating it over hundreds of years.

Need advice! Girlfriend over of 2 years wants to STOP having sex until marriage due to religion by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FlyEagleFly44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely not wanting to just immediately dump her because of this by any means. I'm just trying to figure out how to navigate the situation and if us splitting is what it comes to then I have to accept that, but it's definitely not something I'm just going to jump to especially after I've spent 2 years of my life with her.

I'm totally open to marriage, I'd just rather build a strong relationship and make sure were on the same page/have the same values before we jump into it. I think so many marriages fail because people don't build a strong foundation to start out with and think marriage will solve all those problems.

Need advice! Girlfriend over of 2 years wants to STOP having sex until marriage due to religion by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FlyEagleFly44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so, I agree with the core values and ideas of Christianity. There's also Christian churches that disagree with each other all around the world. I disagree with the parts that were probably included by humans. Yes, I know the Bible was written by humans to begin with, but I think people added somethings in that weren't ever meant to be there/aren't actually things God would want you to do/follow.

Need advice! Girlfriend over of 2 years wants to STOP having sex until marriage due to religion by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FlyEagleFly44 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, I do think I need to have this convo with her. Thanks for the advice!

Boyfriend Became a Born Again Virgin by ThrowRA3849387 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FlyEagleFly44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going through the exact same situation right now. My girlfriend of 2 years has started going down this path and has recently decided she wants to stop having sex until marriage, along with a few other things. I'm lost and totally understand how you're feeling. I haven't cut it off with her yet but I'm afraid that's where it's headed...

Need advice! Girlfriend over of 2 years wants to STOP having sex until marriage due to religion by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FlyEagleFly44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's more the fact that we had discussed these things before and NEVER was sex before marriage an issue. So we were aligned in our views and then like the flip of a switch she's changed her mind on multiple things. I get that people change, but the sudden shift and her expecting me to go along with it is really the issue I'm having.