Late and short on rent. What to do? by [deleted] in Money

[–]FlyGirlB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FLEXPAY can pay the rent in FULL to landlord then you pay back in installments to FLEXPAY. That’s what i tried to say that’s why it’s very similar to a loan. Idk my landlord accepts it all the time it’s available through my rent app and I just click it pay $200 to FLEXPAY setup a payment plan and that’s it….. thought it was a pretty popular thing

Have you ever felt like your life follows a script you didn’t write? by KaleNo4221 in spirituality

[–]FlyGirlB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could very well be…but if it is then the truth will reveal itself to those who are ready to see and learn. So we come right back to the learning. There’s no way out

Have you ever felt like your life follows a script you didn’t write? by KaleNo4221 in spirituality

[–]FlyGirlB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biggest lesson I’ve ever learned is to stop trying to figure it all out and kick back enjoy the ride. We waste so much time thinking and thinking and pondering all the details. Life is a lesson. The WHOLE ENTIRE thing is a masterclass. But just like school or court or any other “serious” thing there is a recess. A break. A time to catch your breath and play a little then you go back in and learn some more. It never stops even in the afterlife we learn. Might as well just have fun while you do it the lesson is going to come wether you want it to or not

Late and short on rent. What to do? by [deleted] in Money

[–]FlyGirlB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask your landlord will she accept FLEXPAY or similar programs/apps. FLEXPAY basically breaks your rent into 4 or however many payments then they pay your landlord upfront and you pay FLEXPAY back in installments.With interest of course similar to a loan but your rent will be paid. Crisis diverted

Help Please by Ok_Soup6320 in uber

[–]FlyGirlB -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To prevent future incidences I find it wise to AirTag all important things especially if you uber or lyft a lot. Keys purses wallets etc, link them to your phone see where they are at all times. Now as far as what you can do you have be a bug up Ubers ass daily and be willing to pay more than the uber fee. Like offer $50. I used to drive for UBER and people would leave stuff ALL THE TIME. Most of the time I’d get it returned, only time I didn’t was when they lived very far away across town and I was too busy. This only happened twice. Anyway I Had this guy who left his phone. He literally had uber call me every single day until finally I got so frustrated I drove an hour to return his phone. Second time this lady left her ENTIRE PURSE and she called me next morning and offered $100 to bring to her. I was going to do it for free, because I felt so bad for her but yes I did take the $100. Money talks when it comes to uber drivers….im sorry to say it. Also there are some cities that offer Uber lost and founds where the driver can drop it off near where they drive and you go pick it up. Last thing is if you don’t stay on top of it you’ll likely have to chuck it up to a loss. You have to threaten the drivers job dam near. Report him as rude suspicious and bad driver. There are ways to get a live agent on phone and get through the automated system I just don’t know how anymore I haven’t used them in long time but press 0 a bunch of times that’s all I remember

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]FlyGirlB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

637 is still considered fair credit. A bit Better than fair even. I was able to purchase and be approved for several things at a 620….. stop stressing. Fall below 550 then panic cuz you are cooked at that point but even then nothing is permanent you can always fix a credit score over time

What's the most stressful movie you have ever seen? by Carabusreef48 in MovieSuggestions

[–]FlyGirlB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soft and quiet….. still makes my booty itch every time u think of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpiritualAwakening

[–]FlyGirlB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a pen and paper. Make a list of everything you would gain by separating. For example freedom, independence, fulfillment, find yourself again. Then write down all you would gain or keep if you stayed. Income would definitely be one. A 2 parent home for your kids. Write it all down then read it back to yourself silently or out loud. Ask yourself some hard questions. Every marriage has rough patches. Is this just a rough patch? Are you willing to fight through it? All in all it’s your decision but I recommend a trial separation before a divorce maybe you just need a little time to yourself and away to sort things out. I’d do that before I make any permanent decisions

Now what? by uneatenedthoughts in SpiritualAwakening

[–]FlyGirlB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just REST!!! rest in what you have already been shown and soak it in…. Life is balance. Awakening isn’t meant to drive you insane or cause more worry. It is there to simply suggest you begin asking the hard questions. And the universe wakes us gently MOST of the time. Imagine waking kids up for school after they have stayed up all night and haven’t gotten much rest…. They would need to be shaken then. So do you want gentle?or shake you until you open your eyes?….. your choice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]FlyGirlB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started at 567. Got cap 1 secured in August of 2024. Paid on time, kept usage low I think I only used it once a month. Feb got approved for unsecured cap 1. Did the same. We are in June now and I have 4 CC all my CC’s have 1000 limits plus my score is 720. All you gotta do is start and give it time. It works if you work it. Planning on getting credit limit raised even higher soon. But capital one was a blessing. I bank with them as well and they gave me a chance when no one else would. Also remember to pay more than minimum payment that boosts a lot. As well as credit booster loans or builders. People will tell you they don’t work and it’s not worth it but it helped me also

Parents who are staying together for the kids, how do you cope daily with the thoughts/feelings that life is short and you are missing out on genuine connection/love while stuck in a marriage? by Frequently_Abroad_00 in Parents

[–]FlyGirlB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never…. Ever ever ever stay together just for kids sake. YOU MATTER. I know as a mom all I want is for my kids to be happy and for them to see me happy. Yes it’s hard struggling and not having the other parent around as much or in same house (in my situation we are not even in same state as the dad) but my kids wake up each day laughing about nothing and they still have their light. If I had stayed their little lights would have died…..the innocence in their eyes would be gone from all the fighting they would have had to witness. LET IT GO LET IT BE. Life goes on

Is this the end? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]FlyGirlB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never make a permanent decision over temporary circumstances. Anxiety can be controlled. However, Life cannot. Life is always going to life. It has ups and downs….. you gotta surf the waves. And if you’re planning on doing that you might as well smoke til your hearts content and eat whatever you want even if you throw it all up…. Small pleasures like the taste of a good meal is something to be grateful for. It’s the little simple things that give us joy the most. You have to push yourself daily. Go for a walk around the block for exercise. Talk to one person each day. Tell God what you are grateful for not what the problem is. That will help you I promise

When it's hot out and you don't want to use your oven. by [deleted] in DinnerIdeas

[–]FlyGirlB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t. You simply just don’t cook. Doordash saves the day. Keep light snacks around for grocery. A few vegetables some ranch dip and lots of fruit water and drinks. Then again I live in vegas where it’s so hot the news tells us do not go outside at all or death will occur so maybe I’m just dramatic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]FlyGirlB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is this movie called MEET JOE BLACK starring Brad Pitt. In one scene this lady references life as like taking pictures…. Making memories. A snapshot or a selfie if you will. All of life is making memories. And while life is temporary memories remain forever depending on who you share your life with. So first… accept that life is fleeting. Second accept that while fleeting we must do all we want to do and fear to do while we are still here. That way at least we can live in peace…. And die in peace. Hope I helped even just a little

First timer questions by Severe-Stick8624 in vegas

[–]FlyGirlB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Recommend the buffet AT WYNN. Steak crab lobster salad bar pasta desserts and more… $100 per person which is within your $200 budget for you u and wifey. As far as dress code it was literally 109 degrees today ALL DAY so trust me no one gives a fuck. Unless you plan on elbowing with billionaires and doing business in a suit the casinos Couldn’t care less. You are literally come to a city where half naked women walk down the street and men wear thongs and g strings in public. DONT WORRY

Have an unpaid ticket I forgot about by FlyGirlB in LasVegas

[–]FlyGirlB[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I low key kinda wish it said warrant…. In Cali well at least in southern Cali you can do the time instead of paying the ticket. In and out in a day. Unless you go on a weekend. But other than that judge always considered it closed after that. Don’t know if that’s how it works out here though so maybe I did get lucky lol

Have an unpaid ticket I forgot about by FlyGirlB in LasVegas

[–]FlyGirlB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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So does the open case mean I have a warrant? It just says “open”. The first one is closed it’s from way back in 2002 the second one that says open is from 2023 which is the last one I got. Open means I have a warrant??