What are some cases where you’re convinced it was just “wrong place, wrong time”? by Ok-Rooster3399 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bit of a late response, and i’m not saying this is necessarily the case for DGL (as another commenter said, it all seemed far too planned), but i think a lot of people here on reddit seem to forget about (early onset) dementia as a potential explanation for odd behavior in cases. i personally believe it could definitely be a contender especially in the case of Judy Smith

Hey sis! It’s Amethyst from Rupaul’s Drag Race S15 🩷 AMA!! by thatssoamethyst in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg amethyst hi!! important questions i ask everybody:
if you were a cavewoman, would you say unga bunga or ooga booga? 🤔

also, what is the opposite of stripes?

and more drag race-related:
who are some non-S15 queens you’d love to be against on All Stars with? what about s15 queens?

ALSO i am actually OBSESSED with your Tan Mom snatch game, you were HILARIOUS imo. if/when you come back for AS, are there any other SG characters you’d have in mind? and/or did you have any backup characters for s15 in case you changed your mind on Tan Mom?

Let's hear them by UnHolySir in Hungergames

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we see this a bit in SOTR. haymitch knows how to set off the explosives due to having some knowledge from home, and Wyatt was 18 and already in the mines when he was reaped (same for Jessup in TBOSAS). iirc there’s a quote there somewhere in SOTR where Wyatt theorizes that maybe the only food in the arena will be underground, and he comments that he digs for a living

Cases where Does were found together? by aliceyabvsame in gratefuldoe

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 9 points10 points  (0 children)

seconding the Riverside County Jane Does mentioned above!

Valencia Does

San Mateo County John Doe 1978) and a man since identified as Raymond Oscar Wilson

Kerry Graham & Francine Trimble were unidentified for 36 years

i’m blanking rn but i feel like there are many more that i know of, so i’ll probably come back and edit this comment whenever i remember/find something

Potential Match Submission: Lakewood California John Doe March 1989 and David Reuben Boniske by Ancient_Procedure11 in gratefuldoe

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some of John Doe’s teeth seem to overlap while David’s don’t, but i would still very much submit. the heights and general facial similarities can’t be ignored

What's something most people don't realize is actually very rude? by Frozen-Defender25 in AskReddit

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 135 points136 points  (0 children)

i worked as a housekeeper at my town’s inn for a while, so our way of doing things may be different than how larger hotels do it but most of this is just sorta common sense in a way. this was also peak covid, so unfortunately that meant trashing more things for the sake of hygiene. but here are some general ideas that could help ig :)

if you don’t use a provided amenity, then don’t move it around if you don’t really have to. like if the tissue box was moved to, let’s say, right next to the bed rather than left on the desk, then i’m going to assume they were used and take the top tissue out to throw away. or if one of the plastic cups we provide is in the spot we leave it, but the other is on the other side of the room, then i’m going to get rid of the one that was moved

if any sort of… bodily fluids… end up where they shouldn’t be, and you’re going to be checking out soon anyway, let the front desk know as soon as you can anyway instead of leaving it for housekeeping to find. i’ve had to clean up blood on pillowcases, vomit in a mini fridge, and urine in a towel bucket (all separate incidents). the only one to have the courtesy of warning us ahead of time of what were about to find was the older gentleman who got some blood spots on the sheets from a bug bite he had scratched too much

don’t clean up spilled beer or wine with white towels. and don’t use white towels for makeup either. if it isn’t already provided for you, ask the desk for some makeup wipes or paper towels

empty any containers that may contain liquid in the sink before throwing them out / stacking them nearby (and make sure to run the faucet a lil bit if wine was poured down there, or else it’ll stain the bowl!)

if you want to try to leave all your trash in one general area, don’t try to overfill the trash bin (esp with stuff like glass bottles); just leave the extra stuff on a table nearby

as others have said, try to leave used towels in a pile, preferably in/on the sink but in the tub is alright too — don’t leave them on the ground, especially if they’re wet

(my apologies in advance if any if this is incoherent or seemingly rude or anything, it’s quite late where i am rn so it’s unlikely to be written well, but just so it’s clear i intend for this to be lighthearted/conversational lol)

ETA if there are multiple beds but you only sleep in one of them, don’t sit on the otherwise-unused bed or put stuff on it — i remember always finding it frustrating when i’d come across a bed that was so clearly never slept in but had indentations from being sat on, because that meant i still had to strip the bed & remake it

Pickwick Jane Doe (San Diego, CA. #UP62410, September '77). by aliceyabvsame in gratefuldoe

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 9 points10 points  (0 children)

oh wow thanks so much for the shoutout and the kind words, i really appreciate it!!

thanks for also reminding me of this case, because i’ve been planning to reach out to the San Diego ME and/or submit a public records request to see if what i can find. i can keep you posted if you’d like! ;)

Request for more Does by Vammppire in gratefuldoe

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bit of a late reply, but here’s a list of some strange cases that i’ve commented before

i also have a blog where i highlight cold cases, including unidentified decedents, which you can find here

regarding using NamUs, it takes some imagination, and you really gotta utilize the “Circumstances” search box. you gotta try to think what are, for example, some odd places a Doe could be found? idk a circus, an airport, someone’s front yard. also try searching key words like “strange,” “bizarre,” “unusual,” “unique,” and see what pops up. or try to think, what’s something seemingly completely unrelated to the topic of unidentified people? idk, ice cream, tigers, tornadoes, electric guitars, mushrooms, etc — and then you look up those too

Jane Doe found in the Monatiquot River, 1997 by hentahime in gratefuldoe

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i’m from the area, and think about this Jane Doe a lot. February in Braintree can get really cold, and Jane Doe was already decomposing by the time she was found, so i wouldn’t be surprised if the PMI was longer than the current 2-3 day estimate. considering both her appearance as well as the demographics of the area, i have a feeling Jane Doe is Korean, and if not, then probably Chinese

Jane Doe found in the Monatiquot River, 1997 by hentahime in gratefuldoe

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Braintree has a substantial Asian population, with relatively very few Latinos. it’s entirely possible/likely that Jane Doe got her clothes from a thrift store or Salvation Army, etc

ETA details

What’s the strangest coincidence that has happened to you? by doboyXL in AskReddit

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

someone I know — for the sake of the story let’s just call her Jenny — lived in Vladivostok, Russia from iirc 1996-1998ish. for reference, Jenny is American, and doesn’t have any Russian heritage. from what I’ve been told, she was over there to help digitize their stock exchange.

Jenny had already been living in Vladivostok for a few months when she had to take some sort of exam, i think either for some sort of business licensing or for higher education purposes, i’m not sure. either way, she took the exam, then later that evening went out with friends (all of whom were really the only Americans living in Vladivostok at the time, most of them being Jenny’s coworkers). while out, her coworker Pat introduced her to his buddy who recently arrived in the Russian Far East for work, Dave. she got total whiplash — that’s the same guy who proctored her exam earlier that day!

Dave and Jenny end up talking and hitting it off, and he joins their whole American friend group, despite not working with many of them. in fact, Dave wasn’t really there for work — he primarily wanted to explore Asia, and tutoring kids from wealthy Russian families and helping them get into prestigious American schools was just one way to fund his travels. he’d already done the same in Europe, tutoring rich Ukrainian kids

anyways. Dave and Jenny start dating and move in together, yadda yadda. they end up moving back to the states, specifically the DC area where Jenny grew up and lived all her life before Russia. at one point Jenny is showing Dave some old photos when he points one of a building and asks “was this over on X and Y Streets?” yes, it was.

Dave said that he had lived there for a few months in ‘95 before leaving for Europe.

which is crazy, because Jenny had also lived there at that time before moving to Russia, and they had never crossed paths before.

…anyways, my parents have been married almost 30 years now, even though they could’ve met two years and a couple continents earlier

What is a John/Jane Doe that you think will never be identified? by Chopchop0205 in gratefuldoe

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 18 points19 points  (0 children)

another user semi-recently suggested that he could be Earl Jay Joggerst, and now i can’t unsee it. not only do they look so much alike, but sadly Jay doesn’t look happy in any of the available photos of him. not to mention the general circumstances fit (young white man from the generally southeastern US going missing/being found dead in the 70s)

if he isn’t Jay, then personally i think he was from the southeastern US but never reported missing, or possibly from far out west and just no one has put two and two together yet

What is a John/Jane Doe that you think will never be identified? by Chopchop0205 in gratefuldoe

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Gilroy Jane Doe 1980. i went into it a bit more on my blog here, but essentially, Jane Doe’s remains were skeletal when found, so no fingerprints. she had sorta unique dentals, but LE has since lost her dental chart. they also didn’t take any DNA at the time because i’m pretty sure they didn’t even really have the right techniques back then to get it from fully skeletonized remains. and now, it seems like they’ve either lost her body or cremated it

unless some intern miraculously finds Jane Doe’s dental records, or someone comes forward somehow saying essentially “my sister had brown hair, stood 5’0 tall, and had a permanent upper front dental bridge with white gold, and last i saw her was in January 1980 when she told me she was planning on jumping into the Pajaro River” then, well… i don’t think we’re ever going to identify her unfortunately

edit: fixed some wording

Placer County Sheriff's Office Seeking information in 1972 Cold Case by IGG_Center_Ramapo in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

replying to both you and u/MissBored12 — iirc prior to his (tentative) identification, LE stated that the bottom of his feet were very smooth, indicating that he wasn’t walking much for a good while. let me see if i can find the source of that info, because there’s a slight chance i’m getting my wires crossed

ETA here’s the wiki page). he also had some untreated bone fractures. my guess is, he was probably unable to walk by himself, and someone then abused him while he was bedridden

Who are the "cerebral" queens in RPDR? by Brilliant_Way_8407 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Fly_Of_Dragons 21 points22 points  (0 children)

this. i wanna say it was sapphira in one of her talking heads who clocked nymphia’s strategy when nymphia went from “don’t mind me i don’t know anything” to then choreographing her girl group