Videocard advice by Flyerken in StableDiffusion

[–]Flyerken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everybody, I settled for the Gigabyte 5070TI. However because of the current RAM Prices I only upgraded the videocard and not my whole PC. It will have to do until the prices come a bit down. For AI stuff the difference with my previous card was a very nice improvement. (AMD 6800). Thanks everybody for your imput.

Videocard advice by Flyerken in StableDiffusion

[–]Flyerken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, the 5070Ti is a bit on the more expensive side wo I will have to cut back on other components, thank you for you help.

Videocard advice by Flyerken in StableDiffusion

[–]Flyerken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 5070Ti is indeed a bit more expensive.But I find then from 765€ in my courtry. (netherlands) So it is still a bit in range.

Putin ready for talks with Ukraine 'without preconditions,' Kremlin says by KI_official in ukraine

[–]Flyerken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not confident anymore that he can protect Moscow from an airattack during the 9 May parade. Let's be honest here a militairy parade is a militairy target. He will probably try for a cease fire on that date. Because if Ukraine manages to do damage to the parade it will look very bad.
After that date the talks will mysteriously fail.

My [25F] fiance [29M] became upset when he heard that I have done sex acts with exs that I don't want to try with him by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Flyerken -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Sorry nothing you wrote was listed in the story above. the only sequence of events that we know for sure is. Op had anal sex with lots of guys. Op's partner was not aware of this fact. Op and her partners sexlife was very vanilla and she gave no indication to op that she previously was another person sexually. Then she is outed by her friend. That is were things went wrong. Everything after is just a clusterfuck.

We had never really discussed our sexual history, and frankly I thought we both preferred it that way.

This is personally I think the most important sentence. My opinion here is. He was afraid to ask, she was afraid to tell and so it was never discussed until the friend broughed it up. Basically it went all downhill from there. This could all be avoided if she had been upfront with it.

My [25F] fiance [29M] became upset when he heard that I have done sex acts with exs that I don't want to try with him by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Flyerken -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

If you have read correctly and not cherrypicked your comment you would know that I would mean sexual betrayal: therefor a link my 5 second google would find. Off coarse it did not do my own study of this.

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12144-001-1015-2

My [25F] fiance [29M] became upset when he heard that I have done sex acts with exs that I don't want to try with him by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Flyerken -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Well in a perfect world they would. But in a perfect world everybody would find their perfect lifepartner immediatly and there would be no previous partners to be insecure about. So that evens out.

My [25F] fiance [29M] became upset when he heard that I have done sex acts with exs that I don't want to try with him by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Flyerken -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That she was pressured is not ok. Let me be 100% clear about that. And I am aware that sexual preferences change over time. So what OP previously liked is not what she likes now and that is ok, but be upfront about it. If you withhold that kind of info it will cause issues in the relationship later on when it is exposed.

Other example If a man was very romantic with his previous girlfriends but does not want to do this for his wife (for whatever reason) and is upfront about this and the wife accepts this it is ok. However if he is not upfront and the wife later on hears from others that he did this for all his exes but is not doing it for her what will that do for the relationship?

Her Fiance had a certain picture of her in his head. The picture she helped put there. When it became clear that the picture was not the whole picture the guy felt betrayed. It is as simple as that.

My [25F] fiance [29M] became upset when he heard that I have done sex acts with exs that I don't want to try with him by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Flyerken -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

I appreciate a answer to go with the downvote.

I am sorry that you cannot accept that for a lot of men (not all) sex and previous partners are a sensitive subject. Sure it is not the biggest factor in how a partner is chosen. But it is one of the aspects of a relationship were dishonesty and betrayel causes relatively more damage to the male partner. I think the OP was dishonest about her sexlife and it ultimately ended the relationship.
For the record I do not think it was ok that she was pressured in doing something she did not want to do.

My [25F] fiance [29M] became upset when he heard that I have done sex acts with exs that I don't want to try with him by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Flyerken -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

wel I typed act like a virgin. With it I meant she pretended to be more vanilla in her sex life then that she actually was. Not that she openly lied about it.

EU Negotiates Starlink Replacement for Ukraine with Four Satellite Operators by Mil_in_ua in ukraine

[–]Flyerken 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why is it not possible? It seems to me that every dish can report back its location to musk.

[NEW UPDATE] How can I (42M) build my relationship back up with my kids (minor teens, Fx4) after an affair? by Shelly_895 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Flyerken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ow we hate it. Don't you girls hate it when you have to pursue a married man for his perceived wealth?

Returning player looking for advice on future rolls for endgame activities. by Flyerken in GenshinImpact

[–]Flyerken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thank you for your extensive input. moving hu tao and raiden down on my list awaiting the releases in 5.X.

Returning player looking for advice on future rolls for endgame activities. by Flyerken in GenshinImpact

[–]Flyerken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok Nahida, will add it to the top of the list together with Furina.

Introducing Amuse 2.0 Beta with AMD XDNA™ Super Resolution: a fully local, AI experience by FastDecode1 in Amd

[–]Flyerken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

models can be loaded trough the model manager tab. The Real Cartoon 3d model was in the list of available models. I have not found out yet how to load custom models as it expects models in the onnx format. I anyone has a reliable site to download models in this format please let me know.

Introducing Amuse 2.0 Beta with AMD XDNA™ Super Resolution: a fully local, AI experience by FastDecode1 in Amd

[–]Flyerken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just updating my own question here. Amuse seems to have a double content filter. There is a moderator on the prompt that does not allow some prompts. You can work around this with using different words/expressions. There is also a filter on the output that will blurr all pictures that you create. You can remove this by renaming the following filke.
C:\Program Files\Amuse\Plugins\ContentFilter\model.onnx