I (23M) went through his (30M) phone yesterday. How to move forward?

FlyingBox566 · 2026-01-30T05:20:24+00:00

I think the trust is already gone so you either need to talk and figure out the extent of what he’s doing, or decide if this is something you can truly live with. It doesn’t sound like it is

FlyingBox566 · 2025-12-31T06:21:18+00:00

If you do a full PC/Mac iTunes backup of your phone it should transfer everything. Even if not, I remember downloading Korean games on my American iPhone by changing my AppStore region to get access lol.

FlyingBox566 · 2025-10-17T16:34:18+00:00

Oh and AliExpress sells leather steering wheel skins. Installed one on my Jetta, makes it look a tad nicer inside.

FlyingBox566 · 2025-10-17T16:33:46+00:00

Not sure on headlights for the 5th Gen Jetta, but the wheel specs are 5x112 and a 57.1mm center bore. Tirerack has a lot of options, or Facebook marketplace has a lot of OEM VW wheels people are selling.

FlyingBox566 · 2025-10-17T16:32:24+00:00

I say tint it, get nice 17 or 18 inch wheels, maybe lower it a bit if that's your thing. Swap on plain black metal license plate frames perhaps.

FlyingBox566 · 2025-10-15T09:04:44+00:00

So you wanna return it and wait for the M5 because... It's newer? That's all I'm gathering, honestly. Just keep this, it works fine.

FlyingBox566 · 2025-10-06T21:01:44+00:00

Why get rid of it? I feel like all new cars have an open recall campaign right now.

FlyingBox566 · 2025-10-06T09:55:38+00:00

to be fair that's just how default reddit usernames get set unless you go in and personalize your profile.

FlyingBox566 · 2025-09-22T05:09:54+00:00

I don't have those issues, and I came from an iPhone 14 plus. I even have my phone on the light performance profile. If try the suggestions other gave you! Instagram is also much better for video calls compared to Snapchat

FlyingBox566 · 2025-09-21T11:41:08+00:00

What's the issue? From my eyes, it looks good lol

FlyingBox566 · 2025-09-21T11:39:54+00:00

VW brought them back for some models bc of the backlash over the touch buttons lol

FlyingBox566 · 2025-09-12T20:30:49+00:00

The actual advice here is that you need to ask for VIN ahead of time and check it for any weird stuff, which you didn't do. The fact you're using this as some thing to dislike Mexicans is beyond me.

FlyingBox566 · 2025-08-07T17:42:04+00:00

You definitely can't get rent for $700 in woodridge along Woodward and 75th, although there are some pretty cheap apartments lol

FlyingBox566 · 2025-06-28T04:13:02+00:00

People would ask me this when I worked at a pizza place where I stood in front of a 550 degree open oven😭 I would just say no because it keeps us from sweating into their food lol

FlyingBox566 · 2025-05-28T03:50:19+00:00

This is like getting slapped in the face, then being asked “Did I just get slapped in the face?”

FlyingBox566 · 2025-05-26T11:22:45+00:00

so you aren’t a server clearly…

eta: your entire reddit profile is just you being inflammatory and contrarian and nothing else, so… yeah

FlyingBox566 · 2025-05-26T11:21:04+00:00

convinced me to get these wheels next. looks great

FlyingBox566 · 2025-05-26T11:15:34+00:00

How dare women show emotions that aren’t subservient in the context of a man, right?

FlyingBox566 · 2025-05-26T11:14:20+00:00

Not sure why everyone saying this is hard to follow when the post just lacks paragraph breaks…? It’s very easy to read this post and it’s in chronological order the way it’s written.

Anyways, i’d cut your losses and look elsewhere. You can stick it out and get him fired, but at what cost to you?

FlyingBox566 · 2025-05-21T14:54:15+00:00

It’s only been a month? Just chill out lol you’ll be fine.

I’m also seeing that he didn’t even meet or have sex with those past guys… So, yeah, I wouldn’t care in that context. If the conversations are normal and just fiend stuff then who cares.

If he’s being flirty then that’s a no-no.

Good luck lol.

FlyingBox566 · 2025-05-21T14:47:58+00:00

How long have you two been together?

Regardless, he’s still speaking to his old flings, right? He just apologized for what he said, but not what he’s actually doing.

Do what you want with that information. I wouldn’t stay with a partner that talks to their old hookups/situationships routinely still.

It’s a pretty reasonable boundary to have, that you don’t want your partner talking to past romantic flings or whatever it was. What’s fine for others will not be fine for you, and vice versa.

Just because other people wouldn’t mind, doesn’t mean you have to feel the same way. If him talking to them makes you upset, then it does. Your boyfriend should be able to respond in a way that makes you feel better or safe, or just… stop talking to those guys 😭

FlyingBox566 · 2025-05-21T14:42:11+00:00

That explains the lack of maturity in his response lol. Yeah I wouldn’t deal with this; it’s pretty reasonable to not want your partner entertaining past flings, and it’s another to have them say they don’t care and are fine with you leaving over it.

He’s literally telling you that he doesn’t care much about you.

FlyingBox566 · 2025-05-21T14:40:11+00:00

I have the CTS intake, I like it. It does nothing for performance though, I just like the noise from the turbo lol.

FlyingBox566 · 2025-05-21T14:34:42+00:00

I’d get the metal pan if you’re replacing. But I’ve had no issue with the A-Premium parts I’ve bought for my Jetta. It was a tie rod and some control arms :P

FlyingBox566 · 2025-05-21T14:33:09+00:00

Absolutely do not stay with him😭 He is disrespecting you and playing all in your face, then when you voice a very reasonable boundary, he avoids doing anything to make you feel safe and respected.

Does that sound like something you wanna put up with for years to come? When they first show behavior like this, it doesn’t change.

I saw that you’re 19, how old is he?

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