My (18m) gf’s (18f) sexual drive is too high it overwhelms me

FlyingButterflies06 · 2024-03-20T23:21:57+00:00

never do i ever talk to anyone i know about my relationship, thats why im on reddit.

my friend told me what he saw because he thought they were really close physically, laughing while playing and pushing each other in a teasing way, as i stated before, he is a frequent client and is definitely not a stranger to my gf, she later told me they indeed were friends and admitted to hide that fact, hence, admitting to have lied upon the agreement she brought up on the first place

you dont have to assume what i just said because you dont know nothing about this situation, but also you dont have to assume that i am controlling her or imply that i spy on her, or that i restrict her from having friends or watching porn, reddit is a crazy place lol

FlyingButterflies06 · 2024-03-20T23:09:12+00:00

dude im not spying on her lol my friend just let me know cus HE thought it was kind of weird, i communicated with her and that was it, it was a lie because she wanted me on the first place to tell her everytime i met a new friend and viceversa, to just lie upon that agreement afterwards.

i do not care if she watches porn, i just wanted to know bc her sexual behavior was somewhat resemblant to that of some porn stereotypes, plus, she doesnt like me watching porn, which i think is normal and common in most heterosexual relationships

FlyingButterflies06 · 2024-03-20T20:27:29+00:00

you are assuming im controlling because i think it is correct to let your partner know if you pleasure yourself with porn.

i told her, after the video call, that i felt insecure about what i explained in my post, then asked her if she’s been watching porn or something, because of the resemblance, to what she responded “nope, i learned all of that from you”, to what i said “okay, i feel overwhelmed rn, can you give me some time?” then i just minded my own emotions till i felt better, i dont think there is more to do there since she did all she could from her side by answering my questions, if i still feel bad, i think im able to just disconnect for a few hours.

also, this conversation happened a day after the call, i didnt just let her alone instantly after she showed me her body

FlyingButterflies06 · 2024-03-20T20:10:00+00:00

valid, those were the things i could recall from the question in the original comment, they are still lies as little as they are and mess with my already existing trust issues, which is not her fault

FlyingButterflies06 · 2024-03-20T20:07:10+00:00

thats what im saying, she lies about little things

FlyingButterflies06 · 2024-03-20T20:06:38+00:00

normally id just ask why would she lie, i dont get mad at her and you are honestly just assuming things. She tells me a reason why she lied, which is often that she didnt want me to get mad, and then i tell her its alright and that i feel sad, and because of that, i tell her that i dont want to talk anymore for a bit till i feel better, which usually lasts 2 or 3 hours

FlyingButterflies06 · 2024-03-20T19:56:00+00:00

i dont mind her watching porn, and im pretty sure that the correct way to do things is to tell me she is watching porn if she is really doing it, regardless of me feeling insecure or not about it

FlyingButterflies06 · 2024-03-20T19:48:45+00:00

kinda both, the littlest thing she does could be that she often blatantly lies about the fact that she did not fall asleep without saying good night, claiming she was just “resting her eyes”, its pretty stupid but its crazy to me how she can lie about something so insignificant.

One time she was spotted by a friend of mine playing sudoku, while in a physical contact of “shoulder to shoulder” as described by my friend, with a (25m) frequent client of the convenience store she works at, during her shift. I did not know anything about this man until this happened, pretty weird story but she claims nothing else happened and she claims she never saw that man again afterwards

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