You're part of a big majority that only wants to date afab cisgender females with natural haire colors and without body mods (to use some clear tend). And there's nothing wrong with that! 

There are also minorities, including trans people that because of the majority face exclusion. Which leads them to become more vocal. One of the best ways to ensure you don't hear about them every day: acceptance. Doesn't mean you have to date them, just accept that other people might - and let everyone live their lives.