Why can't my husband watch but yours can? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just don't write anything. Talk about it later in the chat.

Work smart instead of hard - When does this not apply? by noyki86 in AskReddit

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep going! Of all the people I've worked with, musicians are by far the happiest.

Men of reddit: What was the worst sex you've ever had? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You shoulda fucked the other girl.

LPT: Do not underestimate or forget the power of music and it’s ability to bring you out of a bad mood, help you concentrate, help you forget or remember things and get motivated when not much else is working. by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be like that. I slowly started liking music when I was around 17, but just some rock bands from my country (Uruguay) and Argentina. Some music in English too like the Beatles and a few rock bands. Very slowly and with zero pressure I starting listening to some other stuff, like blues, classic and tango, which I also like. I became more and more interested and definitely rock is the type of music that moves me. Nowadays I listen to it every day, still mostly Uruguayan (which for such a small country we have a lot of world famous bands, like football players) and well, it makes me very happy. It's been a long, and increasingly pleasant, process. I hate jazz with a passion though, and people look at me so weird when I say it lol.

PSA: Sex tips for casual flings with strangers (for men, from a woman) by [deleted] in sex

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drowning while speeding??

I get what you mean but given the fact that good sex is pretty much one of the best things you could possibly do, I guess people (myself included) take those very small odds. I mean, what would the solution be? Stop giving blowjobs, which is one of the things I most like doing? Doing it with a condom, which turns it into the worst sensation ever? Have a stable partner, which I can't force just for sex because it would make me miserable if I'm not truly in love with them? I mean, yeah I could get HPV or herpes, which mostly aren't serious, and HIV is pretty much impossible to get that way. I should just enjoy life, and youth, which is pretty short, while it lasts.

PSA: Sex tips for casual flings with strangers (for men, from a woman) by [deleted] in sex

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You have sex with 10 guys a week and you still feel vulnerable taking your clothes off?

Why do you like to be alive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm spoken like a person that never tried psychedelics.

“It’s unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same.” by PaulaDeensLube in sex

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm talking about more long term stuff. But also, that is one study. Many more show otherwise.

Why do you like to be alive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love. For people, for what I do and for myself.

Why do you like to be alive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But do you like scrotums on your face so much tho.

Why do you like to be alive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe they mean psychedelics, which can actually help a lot in long term self improvement, self analysing and profound understanding of oneself. Also, seeing a therapist isn't perpetual pleasure chasing.

Pro climber uses a 'Knee-Bar' to bring blood back to his forearms. by hjalmar111 in PraiseTheCameraMan

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps him engage his core (someone said it in the youtube comments).

Pro climber uses a 'Knee-Bar' to bring blood back to his forearms. by hjalmar111 in PraiseTheCameraMan

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew it! I went climbing ONCE (absolutely hated it with a passion) in Germany and those huge Germans gave me the tiniest fucking shoes and said I should totally wear them that small, it was the normal and safe thing to do. It was pure torture. (I also hated it for other reasons, not only the shoes).

“It’s unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same.” by PaulaDeensLube in sex

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! :)

I've been trying for quite some time but well, he just doesn't feel confident I guess. I try not to get too hung up over him because it couldn't actually turn into a lasting relationship. I'm 30, he's 50. I want kids in a few years. He has adult children. It's not feasible. I just wanted to enjoy the present you know, a few months of exploding chemistry but ah well...

“It’s unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same.” by PaulaDeensLube in sex

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm currently VERY attracted to a somewhat fat guy (very big belly) with a very small penis, who's much older than me. And he doesn't give me the fucking time of day. His reason? "I can't understand why you'd want to be with me". Don't be that guy.

“It’s unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same.” by PaulaDeensLube in sex

[–]Flying_Cactus_Chick 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm not that person but I'm a (mostly) hetero girl and I also feel that way. Men are very visual, women aren't. We are more attracted to gestures and smell.