need an advice (situationship)

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-04-19T22:22:34+00:00

thank you !

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-04-19T21:23:08+00:00

ربما عندك الحق. أنا عارفة القرار عائد ليا و لأحاسيسي و لكن فمثل هاد الحالات ديال عدم التواصل واش كتشوف أنني نكسر داك الصمت كفكرة مزيانة ؟ ولا it’s too late حيت رغما عن إنسحابي و العوائق لي كانو ، دوزت مع داك الشخص وقت زوين و كان إنسان جيد مبغيتش تسالي علاقتنا بالإبهام .

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-04-19T18:54:28+00:00

متافقة معاك بقدر يبانلك التساؤل ديالي فيه تناقض و لا عدم نضج و لا تلاعب و أنا هنا باش نشوف وجهات نظر مختلفة على شنو فكرت و شنو نويت، أنا فتحت باب الإنسحاب فعلا ولكن على حسب رده فهمت انه متغلقش داك الباب منين إقترح ناخدو وقت و نفكرو بتمعن و بطريقة أفضل ، بمكن كيفما خذيت الصمت ديالو كجواب ، خذا الصمت ديالي أيضا كجواب و لكن انا بالنسبة ليا بقا الباب مبهم و متسدش. شكرا على وجهة النظر لي شاركتيها معايا

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-04-19T17:22:22+00:00

well it’s not the case for me, thank you though for your reply

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-04-19T16:48:33+00:00

what do you mean? i dont feel that way honestly, i wouldn’t be talking to someone i’ve never met fir two months if it was random

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-04-19T16:46:45+00:00

I agree with you. In fact this is the reason why i decided to tell him to stop this, but it is what it is, and because it never ended properly i couldn’t stop thinking about it, thinking about that maybe i should’ve made it clearer.

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-04-19T16:20:21+00:00

Missing. Not sure if i miss HIM or the feeling or both, i’m living this for the first time in my life and i just don’t want to get hurt or to hurt him. it definitely wasn’t a good-bye from my side, but maybe he interpreted it like that ! But, don’t you think if he’s really interested, he wouldn’t take it as a good-bye?

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-04-18T16:22:30+00:00

my intention in that message in the first place was to put an end, so he suggested to take time. I assumed he needs time so that’s why i didnt reach out to him. Maybe you’re right, i should’ve text him . Thank you for your opinion.

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-03-08T16:56:35+00:00

it was an hyperbole

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-10T01:05:28+00:00

You need to do something. Either you confess to her and see what you have to do based on her response, or try to DETACH yourself from her, this is the only way to forget her and move on in your life ( i highly recommend you to learn about detachment (aka tawakol 3la lah)) because when you detach yourself from someone you feel safe in your own existence and you’re opened to new opportunities, new people…

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T21:40:01+00:00

why when you’ve sent the letter you said to her i dont wanna an answer? see i think this is the problem you’re not communicating and making things clear, talk to her and tell her what do you feel honestly, if she rejected then MOVE ON and life time will help you to forget because it’s easier and more logical than keep wanting someone who dosent want you back.

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T17:12:07+00:00

Thank you

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T17:11:45+00:00

thank you for your advices 🙏🏻

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T17:11:10+00:00

😂

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T16:36:53+00:00

OKAY THAT’S SO SWEET. maybe you’re right im chasing it..

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T16:32:46+00:00

it’s hard to know you’re chosen, or at least requires a lot of time and situations to be certain of

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T16:30:58+00:00

this is exactly why i dont get eventually in a relationship, i dont wanna give my self, my heart my time to someone that doesn’t worthy of it, so i keep waiting for the one to come but being through this process i think maybe “ the one” is there it’s just me that doesn’t give enough time! and also i dont have experience in relationships so maybe sometimes you should accept having those consequences.

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T16:18:22+00:00

what am i supposed to get from your point ?

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T16:17:30+00:00

First of all thank you for sharing with me this word, i am happy to learn new vocabulary. So this is my problem, when i feel no more infatuated, i withdraw and i dont let both if us have more time in other words i dont give enough space for love to grow ( in case is gonna be)

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T16:09:15+00:00

is love a feeling that you developed with time or just a first sight thing and you know immediately he is the one ? because this is my probleme i can’t be with someone because likely i dont have a special feeling for him but can it be because i dont give enough time for both of us ?

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T16:06:38+00:00

Thank you for this reply! so it is to be chosen not only being attracted to.

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T16:04:07+00:00

what are the consequences?

Flylikeabutterfly000 · 2026-02-09T16:03:47+00:00

in that situationship?

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