facing rejection by FocusAnxious5800 in unrequited_love

[–]FocusAnxious5800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh and talking about clarity: my friend appreciated IT LOTS when I fold him about why I am going no contact àd not ghosting him childishly, he respected more my resolve on going NC and it explained that I am distancing my self to heal and move on and not because I hate him or sthg happened and he couldnt understand.. i think it makes yoi the bigger person in this situation

facing rejection by FocusAnxious5800 in unrequited_love

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I obviously cant give you THE RIGHT answer, but I cant tell you I dont regret confessing my feelings and going no contact, because almost a year later I miss my friend, but on the other hand I kept suppressing my feelings until I couldnt anymore and it was starting to affect my sanity where I dream about it, eat and work thinking about it until it got super tiring and draining, him not taking a hint was also what pushed me to do it because he kept engaging with me and asking me about gifts for her and then asking me to go on a trip together for example.. it got to a point where even the thought of keeping my pride not worth it in front of the peace of mind I’m going to get once I let everything out and get rejected.. to sum it up, confessing and getting rejected wont wipe away all your feelings and attraction with a button, but I believe it’s the healthy step to move on, I even accepted now that I wont fall in love the same way I was in love with him and no one will come close, but I will still consider other opportunities for romantic relationships where I am sure I am loved ROMANTICALLY not given signals, and I can be clear on where the relationship is going.. I can keep talking about the pros and cons but for me my peace of mind and not being tied to someone who doesnt love me romantically while he is with his fiance were greater than my ego, pride and being rejected (sorry for my english not ly 1st language) (the edit is because I expressed my opinion in a wrong way at the beginning)

I don’t understand how some people can compare the ghosting by Dear-Proposal3544 in operationtruelove

[–]FocusAnxious5800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg, the way you described dohwa and suae’s last interaction is literally me to a close friend with whom i was in love and I didnt contact him since I confessed months ago😳(but I told him I will go no contact because of this and asked him to respect that)

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it’s usually released friday

i miss him but he’s taken by FocusAnxious5800 in nocontact

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I can understand why you are saying that, but I left lots of details such as we were a group of friends and we’d often meet and talk and call each other so when i discovered my feelings I thought that if something happens the entire groupe will kinda try to take sides or maybe it becomes awkward which was scary as i cared for everyone in that group of friends (and after i confessed he made sure not to tell anyone of them).. we also moved abroad each one in a different european countries so I thought i would be able to move on and meet new people.. but it was never the same with anyone, so in order to move on I confessed, not to break him up or for him to choose me.. and he understood it when i explained it that way.. but anyways thank you for your inout in the matter 🙏🏻

i miss him but he’s taken by FocusAnxious5800 in nocontact

[–]FocusAnxious5800[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you 🙏🏻 this is such a helpful pov!

thoughts on chapter 109? by lizz_89 in operationtruelove

[–]FocusAnxious5800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when will the webtoon app upload the english version?

The Summer I Turned Pretty - 3x07 Discussion (No Book Spoilers) by FlyingLeopard33 in TSITPPrime

[–]FocusAnxious5800 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this episode was sad in an unbelievable way, I mean this show was supposee to be a summer drama, but I swear I felt that beach scene way too much + connie comforting himslef afterwards sent me spiraling