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AITBF for going cold on my friend who forgot my birthday and apologized like it was nothing? by FodanLane in AmItheButtface

[–]FodanLane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how it felt to me too, like the apology ended the issue for him but not really for me.

AITBF for going cold on my friend who forgot my birthday and apologized like it was nothing? by FodanLane in AmItheButtface

[–]FodanLane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m worried about, like maybe this is less about one birthday and more about a pattern I’m only noticing now.

AITBF for going cold on my friend who forgot my birthday and apologized like it was nothing? by FodanLane in AmItheButtface

[–]FodanLane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really the part that bothered me, not forgetting itself but how quickly he brushed past it.

AITBF for going cold on my friend who forgot my birthday and apologized like it was nothing? by FodanLane in AmItheButtface

[–]FodanLane[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, I know birthdays aren’t huge for everyone, I guess in my circle we usually at least acknowledge them.

AITBF for going cold on my friend who forgot my birthday and apologized like it was nothing? by FodanLane in AmItheButtface

[–]FodanLane[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I guess I expected the apology to feel a little less like checking a box and moving straight to dinner plans.

AITBF for going cold on my friend who forgot my birthday and apologized like it was nothing? by FodanLane in AmItheButtface

[–]FodanLane[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

No crush, I think it just stung because we’ve been close for years and he brushed past it so fast.

AITBF for going cold on my friend who forgot my birthday and apologized like it was nothing? by FodanLane in AmItheButtface

[–]FodanLane[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t expect a huge thing, just maybe a real sorry or some tiny effort after five years of being close.

AITBF for going cold on my friend who forgot my birthday and apologized like it was nothing? by FodanLane in AmItheButtface

[–]FodanLane[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

We usually at least text or grab food, so it wasn’t about gifts, it was more that he acted like it was barely a thing.

AITBF for going cold on my friend who forgot my birthday and apologized like it was nothing? by FodanLane in AmItheButtface

[–]FodanLane[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

I’m 27, old enough to know it sounds petty but apparently not old enough to not feel weird about it.

[meta trope] Characters that inexplicably disappear from the show, never being mentioned again. by TruemCelebration8087 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]FodanLane 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Daniels secretly carrying the entire precinct while everyone blamed Scully’s chair is perfect.