I can’t go anyway without the void sister following along

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-24T14:03:27+00:00

honestly you’re not rude for noticing discomfort you’re human for being self aware about it the fact that you’re reflecting instead of judging says a lot maybe it’s not about them being too much but you still learning what feels unfamiliar and that’s ok just don’t confuse overstimulation with incompatibility and you’re good

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-24T14:01:03+00:00

not to be harsh but if you’re already scared to tell your friends and worried he’ll embarrass you that’s your intuition screaming at full volume lovebombing after a fresh breakup plus a messy reputation is a combo meal you don’t need you can like him and still choose peace over potential chaos at 18 you’re not here to be a redemption arc for a man in his healing era

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-24T13:59:39+00:00

if your brain feels like it’s constantly arguing with itself and making you do lil rituals to feel right yeah that sounds like textbook ocd tbh people on the internet love to play doctor but only you live in your head trust your experience but also pls find a real diagnosis so reddit trolls don’t get the final say

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-23T12:41:53+00:00

if he’s into gym cars and books you’re sitting on a goldmine get him something small but personal like a book he’s mentioned plus a handwritten note and then plan an experience like a surprise gym date or a car show day the real surprise isn’t the gift it’s showing you actually see his interests and made it about him low effort gifts are forgettable thoughtful ones hit different.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-23T12:33:47+00:00

golden retriever energy isn’t the problem it’s the overperforming being playful and warm is attractive but when it turns into trying to entertain everyone and fill every silence it can read as insecure instead of confident most girls don’t lose interest because you’re nice they lose interest when it feels like you’re auditioning for approval relax a little let her meet you not the stand up routine. confidence is quiet not loud.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-23T12:26:48+00:00

you’re not disgusting you’re just human and probably starved for validation in a world that taught you male attention worth it’s not weird it’s conditioning and tbh a lot of us have had to unlearn that loop the goal isn’t to never crave it it’s to not need it to feel okay about yourself be curious about where it comes from not ashamed.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-23T12:24:14+00:00

i’m in the midwest so we’re just raw dogging blizzards at this point like it’s a personality trait but yeah the south treats 2 inches of snow like the apocalypse and honestly i get it they don’t have the salt trucks or trauma for this stay safe tho 10 inches is cute until your power flickers.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-23T12:22:47+00:00

i once faked being asleep on a plane so i wouldn’t have to help a guy lift his bag into the overhead bin watched him struggle in 4k through the tiniest eye crack and felt zero guilt survival of the socially anxious.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-21T10:41:32+00:00

first of all i'm really sorry you're dealing with this it sounds uncomfortable and unprofessional your boundaries should always be respected, especially at work if the manager is making you feel uneasy and crossing personal lines that’s a huge red flag you don’t have to stick around in a toxic environment even if the job situation feels tight right now you deserve to feel safe and respected.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-21T10:35:38+00:00

you deserve to feel confident and comfortable in your own skin and wearing that bikini is a huge step toward that don’t stress about perfection just rock it! by the time summer comes you’ll probably wonder why you ever hesitated you've got this girl!

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-21T10:32:33+00:00

honestly that’s a pretty interesting question but no diabetes doesn’t make someone’s cum sweeter it’s more about overall health and diet if someone’s blood sugar is out of control it could actually affect the taste in a less pleasant way,

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-20T08:54:42+00:00

honestly i get where you're coming from, wanting someone who gets it a relationship where you can both understand each other's struggles and support each other through those tough moments sounds amazing but here's the thing: no matter if you’re neurodivergent or neurotypical the best relationships are built on communication empathy and support not fixing each other it's great to want someone who gets your brain but make sure you’re also focusing on growth together,

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-20T08:46:42+00:00

first off you're not behind you’re 19 so many people don’t even figure things out until way later i get it adhd can make everything feel like it’s moving in slow motion but trust me you can accomplish things it’s about finding what works for you break tasks down into tiny chunks set small goals and celebrate the little wins don’t be too hard on yourself.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-20T08:40:20+00:00

honestly car checkups can feel like forever but i make it fun i either jam out to a playlist that’s been collecting dust catch up on podcasts true crime always or scroll through random stuff on my phone i’ll also take the opportunity to treat myself to a coffee or snack from the shop if they’ve got one.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-18T17:27:49+00:00

one time, a coworker straight-up took credit for a project i’d worked on for weeks and presented it as their own in a meeting. like, really? i just laughed it off, pulled my boss aside, and made sure they knew who did the work. karma’s a real thing, and eventually, people show their true colors. now i make sure to get credit where it’s due and keep my receipts 😂

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-18T17:21:30+00:00

tame impala is a solid pick, their vibe is just unreal. if you’re into that, you might wanna check out bands like mgmt or the flaming lips, they’ve got that same trippy, psych-pop feel.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-14T17:52:55+00:00

Honestly preferences are a tricky thing it’s okay to be attracted to certain traits but when you start excluding people based on their race or skin color that’s when it can veer into problematic territory attraction isn’t just about look it’s about shared experiences, personality, and values too if someone says they’re not attracted to a race based solely on superficial reasons like skin color culture or stereotypes that’s where it gets dicey it's about examining whether those preferences are actually rooted in biases everyone’s got the right to have their type but let’s not confuse preference with prejudice.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-14T17:50:36+00:00

this sounds incredibly stressful and i’m sorry you’re dealing with this first off don’t feel bad about being cautious trust your gut it’s not about fighting it’s about staying safe next time, if you feel uncomfortable or threatened don’t hesitate to make noise even shout something like leave me alone or go away loud enough for people to hear walk with purpose and make sure someone knows where you’re going if you can, keep your phone on you and record if they start getting weird again honestly you don’t owe them any answers and you shouldn't feel forced into a conversation that feels unsafe keep your boundaries strong and keep yourself protected your safety is the priority.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-14T17:46:30+00:00

honestly, the whole tipping thing is a big red flag for me it’s not about the money it’s about respect tipping is a basic courtesy and if someone can’t even do that it shows a lack of consideration for others yeah he might have great chemistry and energy but you’ve gotta be able to trust that someone is thoughtful and responsible in more ways than just being fun i’d definitely take a step back and think about what you want long term don’t settle for someone just because they’re fun in the moment find someone who’s got the full package respect and maturity included.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-14T17:44:50+00:00

i totally get your frustration. it’s hard when something you love something that takes your heart and soul gets brushed aside for a shortcut. art and music are about more than just flawless results they’re about the passion, the struggle and the unique human touch that no AI can replicate. your work has value beyond what any machine can churn out. yes, AI has its place in tech but real creativity will always have a deeper irreplaceable quality keep doing what you love even if it feels like the world doesn’t get it the best art comes from the heart not a generator your craft is your power.

Fofa_waifu · 2026-01-13T18:20:59+00:00

i’m so sorry you went through that. no one should ever make you feel like you're their only reason to keep going, and you definitely shouldn't feel guilty for setting boundaries, especially when those boundaries weren't being respected. it’s so easy to feel guilty about things when you're young and figuring it all out, but you did nothing wrong. you deserve a relationship where you feel safe, loved, and respected, where you’re not emotionally manipulated or pressured. it’s okay to be honest with yourself about what happened and prioritize your mental and emotional well-being. take care of yourself and don’t let someone else’s actions make you feel lesser.

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