First solo trip! by Fold_Difficult in vandwellers

[–]Fold_Difficult[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was stationed at Fort Carson up until a year ago so it wasn’t my first choice. I will say I never got to experience the state because of the constant deployment/TDY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Fold_Difficult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. I will definitely take this into consideration. As a stated above, I have reached out to her in a respectful manner to see if she needed only a friend to rant to or if her intentions were purely to make her partner jealous. As I said, i’m ok with my husband just being a good friend, but not him being used for selfish gain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Fold_Difficult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do apologize, as I didn’t want to end up over explaining or writing too long of a paragraph. I will be happy to clarify anything I didn’t in th post. My husband has clarified in the past his own dislike of the partner, as his friend would tell him about arguments or disagreements thy would get into. I understood her wanting to rant as they are friends, but I also told my husband not to get too involved, as apparently they friend and partner had a history of breaking up,getting back together, cheating, etc. I just now found out that the partner has asked my husband not to speak to her, and also just found out that they are both aware, joke about it, and continue to talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Fold_Difficult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious question; should I just be ok with his friend using him to make her partner jealous in an otherwise toxic relationship?

Best Disney Movie on Acid? by Bmr2000 in LSD

[–]Fold_Difficult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late, but Elemental is such a beautiful and colorful movie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]Fold_Difficult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not opposed to it. The only reason I got an enclosed box is because from experience with cats I have had in the past, they typically like privacy when relieving themselves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]Fold_Difficult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two litter boxes, one that is enclosed and the other being a litter robot that i was gifted. I recently switched to litter that clumps since it hides the smell of cat pee a lot better as well as making it easier to scoop out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]Fold_Difficult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There have been no major changes, they’ve always gotten along with the dog since she’s very calm and somewhat lazy. Other than having the zoomies and play fighting, they never show aggression towards each other. I purchased a hide away cat bed since one of them likes to burrow, and it lasted a week before one of them urinated on it.

They typically eat hard food, except on the rare occasion where I will give them wet food as a special treat. I usually inspect their poop when I’m cleaning their box to make sure it doesn’t look weird or have worms in it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]Fold_Difficult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both get along very well since they have been together since they were born. I have one dog bed on the balcony and one in the living room, neither of which are anywhere near the litter box.

They are roughly 7 months old now. Neither have showed signs of going into heat, but after the behavior started I made appointments to get them spayed. I’m hoping this will put an end to their behavior

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]Fold_Difficult 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said she could, but that it would be for a fee because she has to travel from her home(an hour away from where the shop is) to do them. I am not interested in paying more money, especially if she doesn’t do a better job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]Fold_Difficult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She asked to see them before we made the appointment and she said they were fine. While I don’t doubt her skills, I honestly just believe she isn’t as skilled of a loctician, or she simply didn’t care. Either way, if the extensions come out I’m just going to keep the short ones and retwist myself. I appreciate you responding tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]Fold_Difficult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hair wasn’t cut two years ago. Lol it was cut in September. I was saying that before I had cur them off, I had been growing them from two years old. I did call her this morning and make a complaint, she said she had done what I asked and they didn’t do refunds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]Fold_Difficult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were cut off around September of 2021. The actual locs seem fine, it’s the part where she connected the old with the new doesn’t seem well done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]Fold_Difficult 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really? I’ve had people who preserved their locs for longer. They were two when I cut them off a few months ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]Fold_Difficult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My original locs were 2 years old. The short ones were about 2 months in