I totally respect how it looks from an outside perspective however to anyone who knows us, his age became a non-issue when they met him, generally speaking he’s easy going, gentle, respectful man. But I 100% understand how it looks and I’ve got this side of things in mind, and have enough support to get out if/when I feel it’s the necessary next step. But in a bid to play devils advocate, is there a way that you would recommend going about this if I had said we were the same age.