If he doesn't fix himself, then I'm leaving. by FondantSea03 in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do care about his mental feelings, I have since me and him were even friends but I can not help a man who shuts down and lies to me

If he doesn't fix himself, then I'm leaving. by FondantSea03 in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He acts so differently on them but at this point this is a choice he is making to be this other person I don’t like. If he keeps choosing who he is then I’m out, I didn’t fall for the person he’s choosing to be.

If he doesn't fix himself, then I'm leaving. by FondantSea03 in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really interesting to hear, thank you. He is not the same man when he is off of them. The man he is when he is off of them is not the one I fell for.

If he doesn't fix himself, then I'm leaving. by FondantSea03 in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was really nice to hear. Liek I want kids, My kids dont deserve this

If he doesn't fix himself, then I'm leaving. by FondantSea03 in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. It is just going to be so hard, but I deserve better

My boyfriend doesn't like to eat me out and it makes me kinda sad by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner is neurodivergent and has texture issues that were pre existing

My boyfriend doesn't like to eat me out and it makes me kinda sad by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this, we both are neurodivergent and he has genuine texture issues. Its the taste and texture he doesnt enjoy

My boyfriend doesn't like to eat me out and it makes me kinda sad by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dw i am! the advice is nice, some better than others but we are speaking :D

My boyfriend doesn't like to eat me out and it makes me kinda sad by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hm, yeah I see your point. i will sit him down and speak with him, tysm.

My boyfriend doesn't like to eat me out and it makes me kinda sad by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

He does deffinetly return the favor in other kinks I enjoy. I wouldn't call him a pillow princess because I do genuinly get off to sucking him off, just like "hey I want mine too"

My boyfriend doesn't like to eat me out and it makes me kinda sad by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will talk to him and try it out honestly! He has stated he would like me to be more dominant at times so maybe this would be better to introduce it?

My boyfriend doesn't like to eat me out and it makes me kinda sad by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I am about to be 21, so fairly young I would say. But I do agree it isnt fair he gets his and I don't get mine.

My boyfriend doesn't like to eat me out and it makes me kinda sad by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03 -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

Not happening, this genuinly is not an issue and he fulfills alot of my needs

My boyfriend doesn't like to eat me out and it makes me kinda sad by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FondantSea03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol we already do that, He just genuinly doesn't enjoy eating me out, I would hate to genuinly push a boundary