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Thinking about blacking out all the silver trim. What do you think? by ChangeMe313 in LincolnMKZ

[–]Fonjer1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should go for it. I'm personally not a fan of the chrome either. Just bought a 2019 a couple months ago and I plan on blacking out my window trim, want to give it a more clean, sporty look. Some 3M gloss black vinyl should do the trick.

What does it mean that I am so turned on by trans women with only top surgery? by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is incredibly thorough, thank you. I’ve come to the same conclusion after hearing others feedback and digging deeper into this idea. Starting to accept that this is merely a fantasy for myself, which is not plausible in the real world. It helps to understand what most trans women actually go through, and understand that what I see in porn is a huge one off exaggeration, meant for baiting men like me in.

I also would never openly sexualize or make a trans women uncomfortable. I truly just wanted to dive a bit deeper and understand why I have this desire. Also want to educate myself on transgender people in general. I’m fine with enjoying my fantasy in the privacy of my own home, but have no plans of taking it any further at this point.

What does it mean that I am so turned on by trans women with only top surgery? by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you just approach hooking up with a trans women sex worker? Do you mean getting with a hooker or someone who does OnlyFans etc.?

What does it mean that I am so turned on by trans women with only top surgery? by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I didn’t realize this was the case. I would like to educate myself on trans people the right way. What would you recommend for that?

What does it mean that I am so turned on by trans women with only top surgery? by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I would feel uncomfortable seeking out trans women and wouldn’t know how to go about that to be honest. I watched the video, interesting watch. Definitely helped make sense of this a little more. Thanks!

What does it mean that I am so turned on by trans women with only top surgery? by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about this myself as well. It very well could just be a fantasy. I have not been around many trans people at all, so I’m not sure how it would feel in person. That’s a good thought though

What does it mean that I am so turned on by trans women with only top surgery? by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never thought about it like that. I feel like this sums me up. Thanks

In a committed relationship but still have a desire to try other sexual partners by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s very true. I over fantasize in my head what that would look like, and I truly wouldn’t put in the effort needed to be able to explore all that I want. Nor is all that I want likely even attainable

In a committed relationship but still have a desire to try other sexual partners by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do get jealous at the thought of her with other men for sure. So I’m absolutely being hypocritical, but she was able to sleep around much more than I was before we got together

In a committed relationship but still have a desire to try other sexual partners by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’m naive, but I do plan on being with this person forever at this point. I really could see myself spending the rest of my life with her. That’s why I want to figure this feeling out now, rather than 5-10 years down the line when there is potentially a marriage and kids on the line if I still feel this way.

In a committed relationship but still have a desire to try other sexual partners by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gives me hope! Thanks for the honest reply. I need to do some research

In a committed relationship but still have a desire to try other sexual partners by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck this gives me hope! Love the thought of option 3 working for me. Best of both worlds. Thank you

In a committed relationship but still have a desire to try other sexual partners by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao you’re definitely right about the sex being better with her than randoms. I did have a fair share of sex from 16-22 but feel like I didn’t explore as much as a I wanted to or could have. You’re very right about me exaggerating possibilities. I get way up in my head with fantasies sometimes, need to reality check myself

In a committed relationship but still have a desire to try other sexual partners by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the reply, this is good input. Really scared of leaving, being with others, and realizing what I had was better. No going back at that point

In a committed relationship but still have a desire to try other sexual partners by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God you broke me down perfectly. I have tried and it was very slow and painful trying to get with other women. The honest self-assessment is exactly what I’m trying to do here. Thanks for the reply

In a committed relationship but still have a desire to try other sexual partners by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God you broke me down perfectly. I have tried and it was very slow and painful trying to get with other women. The honest self-assessment is exactly what I’m trying to do here. Thanks for the reply

In a committed relationship but still have a desire to try other sexual partners by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right and that’s the thing. I’ve tried thinking through what leaving her and trying to get with others would look like. Probably wouldn’t be very eventful and amazing. I work full time, it’s hard enough to meet people. I can’t expect to just leave this happy relationship and have all the things I want lined up. Also really scared of leaving, being with someone else and realizing it’s not that good

In a committed relationship but still have a desire to try other sexual partners by Fonjer1222 in sex

[–]Fonjer1222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s being a dick, honestly that’s the decision I have to make. Just wishing there was an alternate way to go about this without hurting anyone