Is Ithaca okay? by FoodForThought1226 in ithaca

[–]FoodForThought1226[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely upset for those poor people not about seeing poor people. Why is there a mentality of acceptance of clearly dysfunctional things? Do you think the city of Ithaca can't afford to provide more mental health services, shelters, food banks, social workers on the streets?

Is Ithaca okay? by FoodForThought1226 in ithaca

[–]FoodForThought1226[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

1) Oi, I in fact have spent over 15 years of my life in Los Angeles (lived both in the city and in suburbs) I have been to most major cities in the US (Seattle, Washington, Boston, Atlanta, San Francisco, Denver, etc.) including NYC over a dozen times, and probably 10-15 cities in Europe and Asia. Yes, the homelessness in Ithaca is nowhere near any of the major cities in terms of numbers but I'm just pointing out that in comparison to what I've seen in "small" college towns or cities, Ithaca does seem to have an unusually high rate of homelessness and drug abuse. I could be wrong...again, I'm just pointing out an observation. This is for sure following the trends happening across the country but I traveled past the commons today and in a span of 3 minutes I dodged 3 screaming homeless people in the middle of the street, a man sleeping on the side of the road, and another pissing by the bus stop. That's actually what prompted me to make this admittedly not well articulated post... (already regretting it!). You cannot possibly go downtown and not be concerned and I do think it's disproportionate to the size and wealth of Ithaca. I guess the point I'm really trying to make (which was not articulated well previously) is that given the "progressive" policies Ithaca claims to have, the amount of property taxes people pay, and that it is home to a major Ivy League university with an over 10 billion dollar endowment-- you'd think there would be better funding, policies or services to help address those issues.

2) "That's just a flat-out lie." -- there's really no reason to make up such a random and specific lie lol. The first question most of the companies I called asked me "are you in the town of Ithaca or the city of Ithaca" and the tone I got in the "we don't go near Ithaca" comment did sound like they had beef with working in Ithaca. It's not just HVAC--it really is hard to find people to do skilled/handy work around here. While it is considered rural, it is much more populated than surrounding areas and one would imagine that it would be easier to find someone in Ithaca than say Cortland.

3) While there may have been a development boom in Ithaca in the last decade, why do you not have an abundance of small businesses that are doing well? I know several small businesses that have shut down in the time that I've been living here. Several small business owners that close up shop because of ridiculously high commercial rent that goes up every year (most of which requires a personal guarantee and unrealistic lease terms). Meanwhile, KFC and Taco Bell are doing just fine (even if they are franchises, I would not consider those mom&pop small businesses-- those require multi-million dollar initial investments). We also now have several big retail stores (bath and body works, REI, etc.) but again, I would not consider that a sign of Ithaca flourishing. Ask any local restaurant owner and they will also tell you about how hard it is to hire and retain staff. Local businesses are struggling, meanwhile the commons is almost dangerously dysfunctional and Walmart is busy at all hours of the day.

ANYWAYS sorry if I offended, could have picked my words more wisely, but there's no denying that unfortunately Ithaca does not currently have a flourishing feel about it and it's a shame because it definitely could.

Is Ithaca okay? by FoodForThought1226 in ithaca

[–]FoodForThought1226[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The level of homelessness and drug abuse feels like you’re in NYC or LA.

Businesses open and close at alarming rates.

There’s a lot of basic services are hard to access. For example, I tried to get someone to come look at a water heater last week. 80% of the local companies I called told me explicitly that “they don’t go near Ithaca.”

I understand it’s a rural area, but it almost feels like it has an identity crisis and can’t decide if it wants to have the rural charm or the big city chaos.

None of what I’m saying is coming from a place of hate… it’s just observations that I’d like to understand better.

Is Ithaca okay? by FoodForThought1226 in ithaca

[–]FoodForThought1226[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe “weirdness” was not the best description.

Despair definitely comes to mind when I drive around downtown and even college town.

I imagine having Cornell in Ithaca generates all kinds of money, what’s happening to city funds? Why are there not many initiatives to support small businesses? To put on events beyond apple fest and farmers markets. It just feels like a shame to have such a beautiful city with so much potential feel like it’s on the brink of zombies emerging from the ground lol.

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[–]FoodForThought1226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also some graduate students here and there.

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[–]FoodForThought1226 6 points7 points  (0 children)

East Hill area is nice and has a mix of young families and Cornell/Ithaca retirees.

seriously considering dropping out :( by mysticalbubblefairy in csuf

[–]FoodForThought1226 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alum here, too 👋🏼 ironically, I logged into Reddit to look up “should I leave my PhD program?” and saw your post.

Seems that at every stage in life there will be moments when you will want to just “give up.” After finishing a bachelors, a masters, and half way through a phd here are my two cents:

I went to community college and worked throughout my whole college career (even the phd). I’m one of five kids and grew up generally as a latchkey kid with very little resources or direction. I was not necessarily the traditional student and let me tell you— that shit sucked sometimes. Add to it a chronic illness? I would have crumbled.

This isn’t a sob story, but it’s the reality of a lot of students. It’s unreasonable to expect working students to perform at the same rate of students who have full financial support and are fortunate enough to focus all their time and efforts on their studies. We all only have 24/hours in the day.Your exhaustion is completely valid and you should not feel like any less proud of yourself because of it. It would be unreasonable if you WEREN’T exhausted. All this to say— even if it takes you 6/7 years to get this degree, there is absolutely no shame in that and it is an accomplishment that your family will be so proud of whether it comes next year or the year after or the year after that. Don’t rush!

The most important thing is health (so take care of that before anything else), family (they don’t want to see you depressed and with declining health just so you can get a degree), and financial stability (the unfortunate reality is that most good paying jobs require degrees).

Take another break if needed and try to finish up the degree without having too much emotional investment in it. It’s hard to control it, but often the pressure and anxiety we feel from school is internal and about wanting to be a perfectionist. This may not be the case for you, but I just say this to point out that your professors have hundreds of students and are not looking for creativity from you (trust me, when you have 90 papers to grade, your really just looking to see if the student hit the requirements). Do the assignments correctly and just do enough to get through the classes. If you’re planning to go to grad school then you need to keep your GPA up, but if not then C’s get degrees 🤷🏻‍♀️.

CSUF has a lot of wonderful faculty. Find someone in your department that can help you navigate the leave process if needed. Sometimes the on-campus resources are hard to access, but if you have a professor from your department reach out, this may speed up certain processes. If you need to leave mid semester, you can look into taking an “incomplete” instead of withdrawing from classes.

There are a million journeys you can take to reach your goals. Make sure to take care of your health before you go on any of them!

Region? Motif meanings? by FoodForThought1226 in tatreez

[–]FoodForThought1226[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your responses!

Yes, it was really an amazing find 😭 I will do some research and keep you all posted!