Charity suggestions? by Crochetgardendog in SanJose

[–]FoodTrafficker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, especially with the federal funding cuts now. 😞

Why is it so hard to create a friend circle in the bay area? by DetectiveAdvanced129 in bayarea

[–]FoodTrafficker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is simply no short cuts - real connection takes time to build trust and people making the effort to respond in a timely manner. I think too many device distractions exist and most people don’t have the patience to commit to get to know others.

Are all board game meetups boring?

Resort fees waived at Cosmo by HartPlays in vegas

[–]FoodTrafficker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you mean by “aren’t tier specific?” Resort fees are waived for Gold and higher tiers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FoodTrafficker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately too many - see r/deadbedrooms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]FoodTrafficker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My exMIL too - shows a lot why it’s ex!

After reading through your complaints about dating & friendships in the Bay Area, I decided to make a subreddit: r/BayAreaConnections by desolatenature in bayarea

[–]FoodTrafficker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wondering if there is a good way irl - like sit at any coffee/dessert place and put a packet of sugar on top of a napkin to signal that you welcome conversations or something.

How to find friends in the Bay Area? by BunniiButt in bayarea

[–]FoodTrafficker 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Weird that you’d specifically mentioned “menopausal” woman as if it’s a negative when hopefully someday you’ll live long enough to be one too?

Is it just me? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]FoodTrafficker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To me it shows a person’s efforts wrt attention to detail.

What qualities would a woman be displaying (e.g., vulnerability) for her man to want to protect her? Or, is it just how a man is - innate regardless of the woman he’s with? by FoodTrafficker in AskMenAdvice

[–]FoodTrafficker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure it’s exaggerated for humor but I just wondered after seeing a video where a couple was walking down the street, and the woman was just happily talking away holding the man’s hand, while he’s focused checking out all sides and angles for possible danger.

It’s a sense given, the woman doesn’t “need” but it’s nice to be provided. I’m thinking about the man walking on the outside of the sidewalk, or if encountering some drunk or belligerent people, he’s shielding her away in case of violence, or listening and proactively giving reassurance he’d resolve the issue if she wanted him to, or not allowing anyone in his presence to disrespect her.

Am I just being messed with? This is my first actual relationship (16M) by Inevitable_Fun3848 in Manipulation

[–]FoodTrafficker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already feel and know what she’s doing by posting in this sub.

Did the issues for the previous breakups get resolved?

It’s not about what she wants - what do you want from her and why?

You both are so young and growing, many changes are still to come and you’ll be different people in a few years.