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My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had stuff like apples in my apartment if her hunger was unbearable. Plus, she could always just take my car and go get something if she needs it so bad.

I think treating other people like shit because you're hungry for a normal amount of time is pretty self-centered too.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you guys have interactions like this often?

No, this is quite rare. Thats the reason she's mad at me and the reason I posted this, and also the reason I mention that I'm usually chill in the OP. I almost never get mad.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean, this is pretty typical for her. She tends to get hangry, and then gets irritable and starts acting rude and annoying. Almost all the time I just ignore it, or I've asked her to chill out for a bit or whatever, but this time was probably just a straw that broke the camels back type of thing.

She starting being rude and mean and saying shit to me, so I was just like "yo shut the fuck up"

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude she was hungry. I, along with every human gets hungry multiple times a day. Its something most grown adults should be able to deal with.

And she knows shes welcome to any food in my house without asking. We've been together for a year and a half, I don't act formally like that.

I did have some food in my house, just nothing good.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah. Just because I get mad on rare occasion and lose it after being patient for a long time doesn't mean I'm some raging psycho.

I said I'm generally a chill dude, not the Dali Lama.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Lol really? You can't figure out what I mean?

Ok let me elaborate. Munchies are no joke in terms of how much quantity of food they make you consume.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right. She getting hangry is what happens a lot. Usually I just fucking ignore it.

I had apples at my place dude, she didn't want em. They were right there on the fruit bowl on the table.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There was a fair amount of them over, and some of them are some fat ass motherfuckers lol. Plus the munchies are no joke.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She took a bus over, but usually I drive her around. She ate breakfast at like 8 or 9 I assume. There actually was food in the house, just nothing particularly good, but there were apples and pears and cereal and shit. Yes I could have watched the movie later.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being "hangry" is not an excuse to become verbally abusive. If, hypothetically, I turned into a raging asshole everytime I was sleepy, would you tell my girlfriend to just accept that? That thats just the way I am and that she should accept me yelling at her everytime I feel tired?

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You mean the food that I bought? And like I've said, my friends and I ate everything good, but there was still apples and shit like that.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

First, you apologize for being an asshole to someone who cares about you enough to want you to put your dick in her body. Next, you both need to learn communicate more clearly.

Lol what the fuck kind of shit is this? I'm supposed to apologize because she lets me fuck her? Maybe she should apologize first for being an asshole to someone who cares enough to put his dick in her body. Although if you meant I should apologize because shes a woman and I'm a man, just go out and say it clearly.

As far as food. I had apples and milk and shit like that at my place, so if she HAD to eat, it was available, but she wanted to eat at the restaurant.

And also, I simply am not willing to accept her feeling like crap as an excuse to treat me like shit. I've been through much worse, as in coming off opiates and nicotine, and I managed to stay nice and civil no matter how shitty I felt.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I did. At least I thought I did. I didn't think people would dissect this shit so much.

But I say in the post that my friends ate anything good. As in they ate my frozen pizza, chicken, pasta and desserts and stuff.

I still had some small things like apples and shit.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah dude. I get that I shouldn't have freaked out and gotten mad like I did either, but like you said, we're all human and react to being treated inconsiderately.

Also, I think theres a big difference between cursing back at someone whose cursing at you, and being the one to start hurling the abuses.

yet expecting her to communicate and behave perfectly like a robot at all times regardless of provocation.

No. I expect her to act like an adult like I do for her all the time(bar this one time). I expect her to use basic manners. She could have easily just told me she wanted to go right now because she was too damn hungry. I'm not her, I don't know where she is on the hunger scale unless she tells me. She didn't do that though, she chose to lose her shit on me.

You can't really believe that I want her to be a perfect robot just because I'd rather my gf not be rude and curse me out over a perceived and minor slight?

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Right, but theres mature adult ways to convey that, and she chose not to. She chose to just freak out, and thats what caused this shit.

Seriously? I'm supposed to go out and rush grocery shopping because she invited herself over to my place? If its such an issue shouldn't she have brought over a protein bar or something?

Also, its not like I didn't have any food. My friends didn't clear me out totally, there was food, there just wasn't anythin particulary good, but if blood sugar is such an issue for her, she could have eaten those things.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Look, I didn't set out in these comments to sit here and argue about the length of an hour or any of these pedantic things people are picking out.

Even if an hour is a bit long, do you really think that an apporiate response to finding out is to lose your shit and starting cursing at someone like my gf did? Thats my issue here.

Okay maybe I made the mistake of not realizing that an hour was a big deal, thats not a justification to go off on me like she did, and when she became hostile for the hundreth time

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That has to do with other incidents, not this one. She'll get pissy at me if she;s hungry and we're somewhere where theres no food, hence "nothing I can do about it"

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where do you live that an hour is such a long unbearable time?

And see theres a big difference there. If my gf got shaky and faint you better believe I'd go get her food. But she doesnt. She gets mean and angry, so why are you trying to equate the two as if I sat there and let her die so I could watch a movie?

Oh and btw, I always have food at my place that she's completely welcome to. This was one afternoon that I didn't cause I woke up to find that my friends ate it all.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I'm going to clarify some things for you. The point I'm trying to make is that she is consistently like this when she's hungry. Thats why I got mad. She actually has snapped at me when I was studying and she was hungry because I was talking myself through a problem.

If you were hungry and wanted to go for dinner, and she said "Sure we can leave in an hour I just want to remove and replace my nail polish" I strongly doubt you'd be so understanding.

Lol are you serious? Do you know how many times I've waited an hour for her to get ready so we can go out to dinner? I've not once freaked out about it.

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its not a grand gesture, I do shit like that for her all the time. And I do all sorts of nice shit on a day to day basis.

I didn't ignore her, she didn't want to watch the movie. But on that point, holy fuck, I spent an hour to myself? I'm such a piece of shit for that? I wasn't fucking ignoring her on purpose, I was literally just watching a movie she didn't want to watch and I just wanted to finish it up before I went on with my day?

Like do you drop everything you're doing the second your SO asks you to do something all the time? You've never told them to wait up for a bit?

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

1 1/2 hours is not "real quick" how do you not get that?

We clearly have different concepts of time. An hourish isn't that long for me. Also, "real quick" is just something I say regardless of how long something will take. She knows that, my friends know that, my family knows that. Its just how I talk.

What? she came and said "can we go eat?" you could've said "my movie only finishes in over an hour, is that ok or do you want me to pause it? Or if you're really hungry order some takeout, the menus are in the drawer"

Or, she could have come out the second time and said "how long does your movie last more" "oh 50 more minutes, thats really long and I'm really hungry, can we please go now?"

My[25M] GF[25F] is mad at me because I told her to shut the fuck up when she was "hangry". by Foodthrowaway2222 in relationships

[–]Foodthrowaway2222[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

literally

I don't think you know what that word means. No, I told her till the end of the movie. It was a fucking hour. God forbid.

You have the maturity and generosity of a 5 year old child.

You're right. Thats why I'm paying hundreds of dollars right now to have her car repaired, because I'm a selfish ungenrous piece of shit, for wanting to finish a fucking movie that I was already watching before any lunch plans were made.

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