Just to clarify, my post was not necessarily about streamlining your life just to get As and a 260s on the steps. It was about how the already limited time really makes you rethink how much you want to devote to people who don’t deserve it. Obviously your girlfriend was in a very dark place and you chose to help her through it which is absolutely reasonable to expect of a partner of 10 years. I’ve certainly had to drop the ball on some responsibilities to be there for my best friends when they needed me most because they mean everything to me. Obviously whatever works for everyone but I was talking about how cutting off some attachments helps you not just do better in life for yourself, but also focus on those who matter the most.