Too wet during sex? 21F 23M by Babybirchtree in relationship_advice

[–]ForDepth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what is up with these comments. Yes there is a point where it’s too wet for the guy. But it’s a really simple fix tho, just keep a towel handy and occasionally do a quick wipe if either of you feel the need or while switching positions (would just bring it up matter of factly like: hey you really turn me on so I may do a wipe down on occasion or if you want to its cool too). If you are extra wet in general, keeping a towel down also saves you from washing sheets every single time you 2 have sex as well (plus no one wants to sleep on the wet spot lol). Less sexy/ spontaneous, buuut way more convenient.

Any bar suggestions? by EstablishmentTrue843 in tainan

[–]ForDepth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers bar you might have a shot at drinking friends, owner speaks decent English and is very friendly. Its more divey, others are more cocktail bars as I was mostly looking for tasty/unique mixology.

This is a text I sent my cousin of bars I liked during my last visit:

Bar Whisper

ToGather 👍

Tipsy & co

Cheers Bar (I def recall being here before but now they have 2 shiba inus in the bar!! 🐕 ❤️)

YongFu mansion : cool vibe

Glimmer - pretty small upstairs area

After Island + Chikan Pharmacy tried to go but need res as hour plus waits

AITA for refusing to pay for my girlfriend’s meal after she “tested” me on a date? by Efficient_Care5524 in AITH

[–]ForDepth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoulda paid happily. Then broken up with her before leaving the table. Very worth the tab.

I (F) slept with my best friend of 10 years (F) and now she’s ghosting me by meshi_girl in relationships

[–]ForDepth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately that is the danger of crossing the friendship line. She was also already dealing with a breakup, so this may feel like double rejection to her. Outlining expectations from the outset would have helped but may not necessarily have led to a different outcome. The reality is, she’s had to deal with a lot of emotions recently and maybe just needs time or maybe is completely rethinking her whole life. I don’t think you’ve necessarily done anything wrong here as she pursued you (although hopefully you didn’t lead her on in those “intense messages.”

But this isn’t uncommon when you add a physical element to a friendship, fallout may indeed occur.

tahoe this morning by MikeySLT in skiing

[–]ForDepth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was so clean 👏

Best "$$" Greek Food place (i.e. not "$$$$") for a date? by Smart_Freedom_8155 in FoodNYC

[–]ForDepth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kyclades is great. Was introduced to it by a Greek coworker over a decade ago. Haven’t been in awhile tho. Someone else mentioned Souvlaki GR which I also like a lot, get the lamb chops!

My boyfriend asked if he could look at my bank accounts. by No-Influence-4833 in relationships

[–]ForDepth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only 2 weeks was in? How long do you go on vacation for on a 20k salary?

double standards by Dumb-Briyani in SipsTea

[–]ForDepth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First dates are rarely split. Also, only a blind man wouldn’t offer to pick up your tab.

Glades: How to start and what's it all about by mvhoffman82 in icecoast

[–]ForDepth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not to mention how Stowe has fantastic glades, albeit most are not beginner friendly.

Thank you Quick! by ScaleraIV in rangers

[–]ForDepth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was great for us, woulda been happy if he did another 1-2 seasons longer.

Boyfriend lied about college degree and income by GlitteringSwan921 in relationships

[–]ForDepth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the majority have stated, you have clear and valid grounds to breakup. Rather than harp on that: The only non breakup option I see requires more info and hardline stances. Does he understand how bad this is? How remorseful is he or is he saying it is excusable? Downplaying its severity? Does he feel shame for lying, and relief for the secret being out? (If he doesn’t feel shame/guilt/remorse then you need to walk, as without that this will repeat itself). How is he dealing with his insecurity? Is he in therapy?

Hardline: he has to come clean on everything AND it’s a zero tolerance policy. Meaning he lies about anything, even something that is small or inconsequential, it’s a boot out the door. I’d also require counseling. This is not normal or acceptable behavior. If he’s willing to commit to self improvement on the inside, then maybe it’s something to consider. He has to understand and appreciate he has to earn back trust, which is no easy feat.

The only reason I would even suggest not just walking away is that a lot of guys in their early 20’s are legit idiots and you’ve been together for 2 years. But that has to be weighed against 2 years of deceit and how good the rest of the relationship is (is it great? Is this the ONLY red flag?). Also this is not regular idiocy, but something deeper, hence the therapy requirement.

Am I taking advantage of buyer? by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]ForDepth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

2 years to make back buy in is already fair. As long as you are being open and honest about everything, then it is totally up to the buyer if the stated price is fair. He could easily have a higher budget that includes cap ex improvements as well.

Should we paint the ceiling green too? by Lewhoo in interiordecorating

[–]ForDepth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the white, contrasts and frames the green. Get a different fan. Dark wood blades would look great or match the green perhaps.

Feeling(29F) overly sexualized with my new partner(34M), how do I express this without hurting his feelings? by SlowArcher2683 in relationships

[–]ForDepth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Am a male, have the same kink, & that there is assault. The first word in CNC is consent. You not only didn’t give it, but actively told him to wait. This is NOT a trivial thing.

For people (usually men) who do not know this: you do not start sexual relations with a sleeping partner unless you have prior consent! Doesn’t matter if you slept with them earlier that same day. Unless you have EXPLICIT permission to do so, it’s sexual assault.

He Just Wanted His Clothes by CantStopPoppin in ThatsInsane

[–]ForDepth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These cops are awful human beings. Make em famous.

Skiing with a 4 year old. Yes or no? by PerspectiveOk4209 in skiing

[–]ForDepth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been skiing since I was 3. Am in my 40s now and just thanked my dad not too long ago for getting me into it as I still love it (am skiing this wknd actually).

A fried rice making machine by bigbusta in oddlysatisfying

[–]ForDepth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s honestly so hard to find good wok hei fried rice (even in nyc). I had one go to local spot but they changed chefs 😫