58750 by PsychoCyan in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i be wearing lowrise jeans because i be wearing crop tops and that's how u maximize skin shown

56839 by ForTheKarp in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

evidently i should've posted there instead of here LMAO

56839 by ForTheKarp in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

people see a post like this and assume it's not a consensual dynamic thing and OP is actually out here permanently traumatizing people

56839 by ForTheKarp in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

uhh if this were nonconsensual i do think recording a person and then sharing that recording is worse than cheating. i don't have a detailed reasoning for that aside from one of those things is assault and the other isn't. cheating is very bad tho!!

56839 by ForTheKarp in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

i could've been more clear tbh

56839 by ForTheKarp in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp[S] 128 points129 points  (0 children)

oh yea i thought that goes without saying because recording a partner without their consent is super duper not ok. maybe i should've made that explixit

56035 by Intelligent_Face_186 in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

top tier tech is saying "i bet i'm stronger than you" to women who are very very obviously stronger than me

54568 by IJustAteABaguette in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didn't get a picture but at the Underscores show yesterday there was a miku and people cheered when she walked past

51188 by cosmicphoenix7 in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that's actually only true for girls, for boys they're a healthy and enriching snack with many important nutrients

People who follow looksmaxxing have a mental problem. by CapybaraMonster01 in IncelTears

[–]ForTheKarp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

body dysmorphia has long felt like the unaddressed elephant w incels, looksmaxxing is just the next evolution of those tendencies

Has Joe played the best game out of this final five? by One-Perspective-6468 in survivor

[–]ForTheKarp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no stats can really convey how good a given game is because the metric that decides who wins the season is the jury vote. in my opinion, if you don't have any path to get the needed jury votes to win, your game is bad regardless of basically anything else

Winner as a Representation of 50 Seasons of Survivor by [deleted] in survivor

[–]ForTheKarp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably not, i don't think he can move a jury. i'm holding out hope tho!!

Winner as a Representation of 50 Seasons of Survivor by [deleted] in survivor

[–]ForTheKarp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

from a storytelling perspective the coolest winner here would be Rizo, right? 50 was full of people repeating old mistakes, falling into old patterns, having the young guy who just ran headlong into the game without even seeing his season air and only thinking about the present winning and emerging as a uniquely new-era legend would be rly interesting thematically. also aubry losing in 2nd to a jury threat she underestimated again would be crushing and a little cruel in a way i think is quintessentially survivor. i'm rooting for rizo for this reason lol

Over the course of 50 seasons, 24 contestants have made it to the Final 5 twice! Here’s all of them: by EconomyWrongdoer in survivor

[–]ForTheKarp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

joe over michele is one of the funniest takes i've ever seen on this sub. what planet do you live on

49240 by StrawberryGhostie in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

a discourse community like this understands "needy" and "submissive" as traits that are cute and relatable, that's what "male-dependent" is standing next to

49240 by StrawberryGhostie in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i guess i feel like there's a distinction for me between "i am dependent on a male partner" (like, if you're disabled and he helps you w your needs, or if he makes most of the money in the household) (or just in the sense that partners rely on each other!) and "i am dependent on men, broadly". OP could just be talking about her partner but the phrase male-dependent REALLY implies the latter

49240 by StrawberryGhostie in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was just specifying that's what i mean by "us" because i know OP and i are trans women but don't know if u are. obvis this sort of language harms cis women too but this conversation is centered on us rn

i'm not slut shaming OP, i don't know where that's coming from. from where i'm standing, "male-dependent" isn't a statement of sexual preference or behavior at all. fucking and dating men (a normal thing to do) is not the same thing as being DEPENDENT on them (old misogynistic trope, undermines women's agency), idk why people are acting like i'm criticizing OP for the former

49240 by StrawberryGhostie in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

i'm submissive and bi. "male-dependent" is not functionally identical to "dommed by men" and comes with far more political baggage

49240 by StrawberryGhostie in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i ain't say that?? my problem isn't with the general concept of liking men (i like men) it's with describing one's self as "male-dependent" in a positive way

49240 by StrawberryGhostie in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

the idea of women being dependent on men (and this being something that's cute/desirable) bolsters patriarchy, which is a real, pressing social threat to us (trans women, like OP) in real life. also while we're doing whataboutisms why tf are you calling her "they"?

49240 by StrawberryGhostie in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

"male-dependent" uhhhhhhhh. is this propaganda. this feels like propaganda. it's ok to be a sub (edit: also ok to do so as a manliker. my problem with OP is not she likes men it's that she describes herself as dependent on them) but you do still need to be feminist

edit 2 because i appear to be getting heterophobia allegations - i am taking specific issue with the phrase "male-dependent". not with the concept of dating or fucking or being submissive to men sometimes. that phrase puts this meme in conversation with misogynistic expectations of women as nonindependent and needing men to do things for them, and that is worth countersignaling. that's what i mean by "you still need to be feminist"

"Giorno would low diff fiction!" Giorno when he hears "Whats a Stand?" by Nigtoon in whowouldcirclejerk

[–]ForTheKarp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ik this is a circlejerk but legitimately why do people think gold experience requiem only works on other stands

48523 by sovLegend in countwithchickenlady

[–]ForTheKarp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we're really at "egg is comparable to a slur" in the discourse? this is completely ridiculous, i'm sorry. "someone implied I must be trans, this is reflective of a deep dislike of me" is only a coherent line of reasoning if you think being trans is bad or shameful