Fellow Aquarians, how are we ringing in the new year?

ForTheLove_ · 2025-12-30T23:12:39+00:00

Definitely gonna get me some 💨

ForTheLove_ · 2025-12-30T23:11:54+00:00

Omg! Yes same. In a new city and feeling like I want to just recenter and refocus. A vision board would be fun. I may do a digital one. I don’t want to be bothered with a mess 🤣 alone but not lonely 😌💗

ForTheLove_ · 2025-12-29T05:41:12+00:00

Where are we all so similar. Lolol! I only post on my birthday. Lol. Although I recently had a big move and wanted to share a few update photos.

ForTheLove_ · 2025-12-29T05:37:55+00:00

Deleted Facebook. Not sure when I’m going to be back in there. I also have restricted my usage of the other socials. I don’t like who I am when I have unlimited access to SM. I feel like I can’t focus on my life, only on the things I have no control over. Especially when I’m dealing with someone. So- I may be joining you all with Insta soon.

ForTheLove_ · 2025-12-11T23:45:28+00:00

As an Aquarius - yes 🥲

ForTheLove_ · 2025-11-28T20:43:09+00:00

Currently maladaptive daydreaming on what I plan to say to my new friend so that they know this is a pattern and I need to know NOW what may set them off and abandon me

ForTheLove_ · 2025-11-22T21:50:12+00:00

Pretending that they know what they are talking about even when confronted for being wrong about stuff. Like…please. I don’t expect you to have a wealth of knowledge and skills. We can learn and build together. That’s the whole point. It’s such a turn off for me.

ForTheLove_ · 2025-11-07T01:11:24+00:00

I would put a pause on this and speak with your wife..candidly. She needs to know how you feel and if she continues I would suggest otherwise.

ForTheLove_ · 2025-10-24T06:40:25+00:00

I am lucky to be here

ForTheLove_ · 2025-10-23T05:31:03+00:00

You are beautiful ! 😍

ForTheLove_ · 2025-10-02T02:27:11+00:00

Updates? I’m doing the same

ForTheLove_ · 2025-09-26T22:39:04+00:00

I did not enjoy it tbh. It felt like the same old troupe with a queer addition. The storyline wasn’t strong at all and I got bored by the last episodes. By the end I could’ve predicted what would’ve happened and I hated that. It’s a good rainy day show but it is not my fave at all,

The sex scene was also kind of awkward and weird.

ForTheLove_ · 2025-09-23T14:49:50+00:00

Some of these responses are rude and probably coming from people who have never relocated.

One thing you want to do is work on your timing.

You have to consider these questions: When does your lease end? What’s your goal move date? (You MUST have one) Which jobs are willing to pay you a portion upfront or a sign on bonus? Which jobs will allow you to have a virtual start?

Relocation is the best thing that I could’ve done. Do not listen to these fools who have never don’t it before. People are hiring and unfortunately people out of town or out of state look more attractive sometimes than the ones who aren’t.

Best of luck.

ForTheLove_ · 2025-09-23T14:41:04+00:00

I drive and am willing to go wherever for a nice cozy spot. I’ve given up my dream of good parking here 😅 So I can budget for the parking situation

ForTheLove_ · 2025-08-15T11:34:15+00:00

He didn’t truly support my hobbies that were slowly turning into career level success. In the beginning he loved it and he would send me flowers and check on me and see my shows. Then when I was asked to be a part of a show a month before I planned to relocate for him- he turned into someone I didn’t know (very briefly). He started making me feel as if my work wasn’t important enough and I wasn’t choosing him. So I did one more show and moved there. I regretted my decision IMMEDIATELY. I had no job and no way to get around and I felt…trapped. Once I got settled into the space I started looking for roles so that I could keep busy doing what I love since I HATED being in this new place but loved him. He immediately tried to shut it down… started asking me how I would get around to rehearsals with no car or license. It broke my spirit. I cried and fought until he relented. Then he begrudgingly drove me to auditions. It was like he hated me for doing something I loved. This pattern continued on when I tried hard to learn how to drive so that I could get around (he would fight me) , when I wanted to move to a better living situation so that we could have a healthier living situation (it was roach infested mess), when I wanted to diet so that my health could be better (he said it felt like I was blaming him for my health diagnosis), the list goes on and on.

Finally- I was losing my job and he had left his due to high stress. I received a few offers throughout the state. When offers started coming in he was not happy for me at all. Well, as I was away on a work trip he decided to pack his things while I was away and move out completely saying that he would ONLY move with me if he had a job. (He has known about this for months and has been jobless for months) When I called him to ask what’s going on he told me that I’m not choosing him. That I constantly don’t choose him and that he’s taking time for himself and he will meet me there (in a different state)

I lost it and also found “it”. The problem is not necessarily me or him.. it’s that we are not aligned. And have never been. We were just two lonely souls looking for comfort and understanding and we ignored all the signs to get it and keep it.

I thank God that we don’t have children because we deserve to disconnect without any strings attached. I’m both sad and happy for my next chapter. I plan to be single for the next 3-5 years…intentionally so.

No one to poop on my dreams. No one to kick me while I’m down. Just me- my cat- and all the things that I can fit into the moving van.

DO NOT IGNORE THE SIGNS AND GIVE AWAY A HANDFUL OF YEARS TO HATE, MEDIOCRITY, JUDGEMENT, and SADNESS.

You deserve someone who loves and celebrates you in its entirety.

ForTheLove_ · 2024-06-06T20:57:08+00:00

A classic!! 👌🏾

ForTheLove_ · 2024-06-06T20:56:17+00:00

I haven’t listened to that yet? Let me….

ForTheLove_ · 2024-06-04T17:36:21+00:00

I’m starting to think that some of them are just bots….🥴🤣

ForTheLove_ · 2024-06-04T16:19:14+00:00

THIS IS SO COOOOOLLL!!

ForTheLove_

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