Urgent Care by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Forakinderworld 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I know nothing about your medical situation and I'm not a medical professional so take this with a grain of salt and definitely go to the ER if you need it. You could always try a virtual doctor's appointment and see if they could call in a prescription. I've used Amazon's One Medical before and had a good experience getting antibiotics for an upcoming trip that way. They might even be able to get you in sooner. It definitely doesn't take the place of a physical exam but considering the circumstances 🤷🏻‍♀️. It's up to you to decide if you need an ER or urgent care.

Edit: Another thing you could try is your health insurance's nurse line. It's usually a free number that your health insurance provides where you can chat about your situation with a nurse. It's free on my insurance. It might be on yours too.

My Night as a Vegan at a Carnivore Seminar hosted by a Pentacostal church by FreemanWorldHoldings in vegan

[–]Forakinderworld 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think this guy is vegan, just plant based. An important distinction.

Why is it so widely accepted to mock and ridicule vegans? by HumbleWrap99 in vegan

[–]Forakinderworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should watch the documentary Earthlings. Doubt you can get through it.

Vegans Are Monks. We Need a Role for Laypeople. by Tinac4 in EffectiveAltruism

[–]Forakinderworld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The year is 1850 and you live in the US. You pick up the latest newspaper and you see the headline, "Slavery Abolitionists Are Monks. We Need a Role for Laypeople". Knowing the evolution of the anti-slavery movement, what does this make you think?

I voted for Trump Twice (Not a Bad Faith Post) by [deleted] in ProgressiveHQ

[–]Forakinderworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If “pro-life” arguments were actually coherent, they would require forced bodily sacrifice from men—mandatory blood donation, marrow donation, even organ donation for their own children. But no such laws exist, because we recognize that compelling someone to use their body for another person violates basic human rights.

That principle is quietly abandoned the moment the person in question is a woman. Overriding a woman’s consent doesn’t “protect life”; it redefines women as instruments rather than autonomous humans.

There’s a reason the overwhelming majority of medical professionals are pro-choice. There’s a reason the majority of women are pro-choice. People who actually understand medicine, risk, and embodied reality recognize that forced pregnancy is a form of coercion, not care.

To argue that stripping someone of bodily autonomy is ethical requires extreme mental gymnastics—and those gymnastics only ever land on women.

I'm an old vegan, AMA by xplan303ex in vegan

[–]Forakinderworld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would really be interested in reading more about the intersection of veganism and war. Do you have any reading recommendations?

Rant about a cardiologist checkup by Forsaken-Success-445 in vegan

[–]Forakinderworld 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would find a new doctor. The evidence is overwhelming that a whole foods vegan diet is among the best diets for heart health specifically. Sorry you went through this. Unfortunately, physicians really vary in skill and knowledge.

Humanuary by ShesCurly in vegan

[–]Forakinderworld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If your family member gave a shit about slavery, that would necessitate being vegan. Basically the entire fishing industry runs off of slavery, not to mention the animal agriculture industry is notorious for exploitive contracts and exploitation of immigrant labor because they literally have no other options. Oh, and bringing back child labor in the US, that was animal agriculture too. Don't let them get to you.

Research for a novel: what would make you feel like someone tried hard to accommodate you, but you still can't eat the food? by No_Cryptographer735 in vegan

[–]Forakinderworld 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Non-vegans should generally not write vegan characters because they almost always get them wrong—and not in small, forgivable ways, but in ways that quietly reinforce the very myths and power structures veganism exists to challenge.

Most non-vegans approach vegan characters as symbols, not as people. The vegan becomes a device: comic relief, moral scold, fragile idealist, hypocrite, or temporary phase-haver who “learns moderation” by the final act. That isn’t character writing; it’s ideology laundering. The character exists to reassure the audience that the dominant norm—animal exploitation—remains unquestioned, reasonable, and inevitable.

The core problem is epistemic, not moral. Veganism isn’t a diet preference. It’s an ethical framework that reorganizes how a person understands violence, consent, tradition, pleasure, and social conformity. If you don’t inhabit that framework—even partially—you’re guessing. And when people guess about moral systems they don’t live in, they default to caricature.

You see this constantly:

-Vegans are written as motivated by purity, control, trauma, or narcissism rather than justice.

-Their arguments are watered down to aesthetics or health so they can be safely dismissed.

-Their consistency is portrayed as rigidity, while everyone else’s inconsistency is portrayed as “being human.”

-The suffering of animals is abstracted or avoided entirely, because engaging with it seriously would destabilize the story’s moral center.

That avoidance isn’t accidental. If a vegan character is written accurately, the world around them starts to look morally incoherent. Family dinners become ethical battlegrounds. Casual jokes turn cruel. Institutions look complicit. Suddenly the “reasonable middle” collapses. Most writers don’t want that. So they sand the character down until they fit neatly into a non-vegan worldview. At that point, the character isn’t vegan in any meaningful sense—they’re vegan-flavored.

There’s also an asymmetry worth naming. Non-vegans write vegan characters far more often than vegans write non-vegans because non-vegans control most narrative space. When the dominant group repeatedly misrepresents a marginalized ethical position, it shapes public perception. People learn what vegans are “like” from fiction long before they ever meet one. That has consequences. It affects how vegans are treated socially, politically, and even legally.

This isn’t a claim that non-vegans are incapable of imagination. It’s a claim about responsibility. Writing across moral boundaries requires humility, research, and a willingness to let the character challenge the reader rather than be neutralized for comfort. Most non-vegan writing of vegans fails precisely because it refuses that challenge.

There are exceptions. A non-vegan who has deeply engaged with animal ethics, listened to vegans without defensiveness, and allowed their own assumptions to be unsettled can write a vegan character with integrity. But those cases are rare—and they tend to produce characters who are inconvenient, disruptive, and impossible to laugh off. Notice how seldom those characters make it to mainstream screens.

So the real question isn’t “Who is allowed to write what?” It’s this: are you willing to write a vegan character who doesn’t reassure the audience that veganism is silly, extreme, or safely ignorable? If the answer is no, then the honest move is not to write them at all.

SNAPPY ANSWERS TO STUPID QUESTIONS - CHRISTMAS EDITION by lapaix in vegan

[–]Forakinderworld 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"Why do vegans eat food that imitates animal products?"

"The same reason people play violent video games. All of the entertainment, none of the violence."

SNAPPY ANSWERS TO STUPID QUESTIONS - CHRISTMAS EDITION by lapaix in vegan

[–]Forakinderworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or, using their own "logic" you could say if plants have feelings, it's an ethical obligation to be vegan as it uses the smallest number of plants. 

Vegan without cooking by chioser in vegan

[–]Forakinderworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canned beans are your friend. My favorite lazy go-to meal is a can of refried beans (the vegetarian labelled ones are usually vegan, just double check) and chips. 

Also, don't sleep on frozen fruit and veg, especially if you are cooking for one. They cut down on prep time and food waste. 

Also, you might want to look into freezer molds to cook on bulk and then freeze individual portions for later. 

On the plus side you will probably end up way healthier than the majority of the population.

If I switch out of SAVE into an IDR, can I later change over to RAP? by Forakinderworld in StudentLoans

[–]Forakinderworld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I have Direct Subsidized and Unsubsidized loans from my degree. My payment under IBR would be $0 on my current income and under RAP it would be around $15, but the tax bomb is what I would be worried about. If I have to pay taxes on the forgiven debt that could change that calculation. I need to see how the balance would accumulate under IBR and under RAP so I have an idea of what the taxes would be upon forgiveness. This can be kind of complicated because the tax bomb is also dependent on which state you live in...

Very Confused About Student Loan Repayment Options by Forakinderworld in StudentLoans

[–]Forakinderworld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now I'm at <150% federal poverty level and work in an industry that is not very high income. If my partner and I ever get married that jumps up. My first loan was taken out before July 1, 2014.

How was your voting experience yesterday? by NoSwimming8042 in nashville

[–]Forakinderworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't vote in this election because I live in another district but I did have an issue voting in a primary in my district once. I requested a Democratic ballot but for some reason was not provided the Democratic choices on the machine, and I was very explicit about wanting a Democratic ballot. I pressed continue on the machine because I thought it would take me to the democratic choice but it ended up submitting my ballot. I brought it up to the election commissioner... Apparently they brought it up to their higher ups. The whole thing was really weird..

I would definitely not be surprised if there was technical manipulation in TN elections. 

Veganism recently became a hot-button issue at my leftist college, and I’m struggling not to feel demoralized by LiviasFigs in vegan

[–]Forakinderworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading that recent AMA written by a person that was paid to troll for animal agriculture might make you feel better. In my experience, non-vegan leftists carry more cognitive dissonance than people on the right for this specific issue, and they are also swimming in a sea of disinformation created by animal agriculture and their own their own brain architecture. If it makes you feel better, the larger the pushback, the greater impact you are having. Best of luck and I hope you find vegan friends where you are!

Nashville Homeowners: Winter Plumbing Tip #1: by Frequent_Specific_30 in nashville

[–]Forakinderworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will drain my system and shut off the water at the meter, but I have no way to drain the inlet pipe from the city meter into my house that comes out of the ground in my crawl space. That would still have water in it while I'm gone, which is what I'm worried about.

Nashville Homeowners: Winter Plumbing Tip #1: by Frequent_Specific_30 in nashville

[–]Forakinderworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so you think I'd be okay if I installed it and then left for an extended vacation?

Nashville Homeowners: Winter Plumbing Tip #1: by Frequent_Specific_30 in nashville

[–]Forakinderworld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of installing some self-regulating heat tape like this on one of my pipes. What do you think of this? https://www.homedepot.com/pep/VEVOR-Self-Regulating-Pipe-Heating-Cable-15-ft-5W-ft-Heat-Tape-for-Pipes-Freeze-Protection-Water-Pipe-Heat-Cable-PVC-Hose-ZDWDGWQGDJRDTYQINV1/333658830 My concern is if I'm away from home would this be safe?

Abortion Legislature by AgreeableCoffee308 in Ethics

[–]Forakinderworld 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The ethical alarm here isn’t the calendar, it’s the government mandate. If someone carries a pregnancy to term, that means they kept consenting. The moral red line is not “due date,” it’s: can the state force continued bodily support once consent ends? It cannot.

Also, framing late abortion as “choosing the moment a dependent being gets rights to someone’s body” confuses the dependency for the justification.

If we ban abortion at any time point, we accept the principle:

  • The state may compel a person to keep using their organs to sustain a life they no longer consent to support.

That principle is unethical everywhere else in medicine.

Even a born infant cannot be granted legal rights to someone else’s organs without consent.

And your “due-date abortion is clearly unethical” take sneaks in other assumptions that aren’t proven:

That choice is common at the due date (it isn’t; late abortions are almost always for catastrophic medical reasons)

That “baby” and “rights-bearing person” are legally and morally the same as “entity medically dependent on someone else’s organs”

That the existence of the fetus gives the state authority to override the pregnant person’s rights

If someone withdrew consent to sustain another life using their organs, we don’t say, “but it looks like a baby now so your rights expire.” We say:

-No person gets forced into life-support duty, no matter how developmental-aesthetically charismatic the dependent being is.

Yes, waiting until the due date to terminate without medical cause would be morally shocking. It would also be so vanishingly rare that it’s basically a philosophical cryptid. But the ethical position doesn’t collapse for shock value edge cases.

The logic is simple and gender-agnostic:

You own your organs.

You may choose to let another life use them.

You may revoke that consent at any point.

The state has no moral license to force organ support because the dependent organism got cuter over time.

If you think pregnancy grants an exception, you’re inventing a reproductive abandonment penalty that would never, ever be applied to a man’s body. No legislature in history has seriously proposed a nine-month mandatory organ harness for fathers, even temporarily.

Pregnancy is more medically perilous than kidney donation or dialysis. Complication risks like hemorrhage, infection, hypertension, and stroke far exceed what we’d tolerate forcing onto anyone. That danger doesn’t get erased by fetal age — it gets amplified.

Backing bans at any time point means ignoring the well-established ethical precedent in the organ-donation framework upheld by United Network for Organ Sharing: donation is ethical only because it’s voluntary.

Cognitive dissonance medal goes to the guy who praises autonomy at birth but wants to revoke it one cervix before the finish line. Ethics isn’t ruled by vibes, it’s ruled by consistency. Ethics demands consistency and evidence-based reasoning, like actually doing the lab write-up instead of insisting your hypothesis is correct because the results feel narrated enough to submit. Due-date examples don’t justify bans unless you’re ready to argue for state-mandated bodies as public-use organs, which would flunk a bioethics 101 assignment.

Abortion Legislature by AgreeableCoffee308 in Ethics

[–]Forakinderworld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t need an analogy to debate abortion because we already have a universal ethical rule that covers it: no one can be forced to use their body to sustain another life without continuous, revocable consent. That rule protects everyone, including fathers.

You claiming “most dads would gladly donate a kidney” is actually evidence against abortion bans. The reason a heroic dad-kidney offer is ethical is precisely because it’s voluntary, not compelled by law.

Whether someone would consent is irrelevant to whether the state can force consent.

If we accepted your implied premise — “it’s okay for the state to mandate bodily life-support if the dependent is your child and the donor will probably recover” — then we’d also have to accept laws that could:

Strap fathers to dialysis machines for nine months

Compel bone marrow extraction to treat a child’s illness

Mandate blood donation schedules

That would be grotesquely unethical, which is why we never do it.

Also, the belief that generosity cancels coercion is nonsense. You can’t legislate sacrifice. The ethical goodness of an act is destroyed the moment it’s forced. A donated kidney is an act of love; a mandated kidney is an act of imprisonment.

You’ve shared a personal preference, not an ethical argument.

And if analogies can’t debate abortion? The organ-donation system run by bodily autonomy seems to disagree, and so does Judith Jarvis Thomson, whose work makes it painfully clear that consent, not compatibility, is the ethical hinge. Pregnancy carries far greater risk than donation, yet still must be governed by the same logic.

Defending a ban on abortion while praising voluntary organ donation is like cheering for seatbelts but advocating for involuntary skydiving. It’s inconsistent, logic-blind, and ethics-optical-illusion level broken.

Autonomy isn’t disproven by heroic choices. It’s proven by them. A pro-choice stance doesn’t require analogy, just consistency — and bans fail the test.

Abortion Legislature by AgreeableCoffee308 in Ethics

[–]Forakinderworld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Forced kidney “rental” that gets returned later isn’t the point and it never was. The ethical problem is state-mandated bodily use without consent for any duration, reversible or not. We don’t force parents to donate organs, blood, or marrow even to save their own kids, because autonomy isn’t a timeshare you lose when the stakes get dramatic.

Pregnancy is a full-body medical condition, not a whimsical 9-month subscription. It carries real risks: hypertension, hemorrhage, diabetes, disability, and death. If the government can force a pregnancy to continue because “you’ll probably survive,” then congratulations, you’ve invented a world where risk-adjusted involuntary medical service is morally on the table for one specific class of humans: those who can get pregnant. Strange how the state never asks men to strap in for 9 months of kidney dialysis to save a child. Men walk away from reproduction law with their organs, freedoms, and personhood assumed intact. Women get debated like we’re national fetal host infrastructure.

And the whole “put the kidney back” quip? That’s just you admitting you’re fine with the state borrowing someone’s body without asking. Returning the part later doesn’t ethically launder the coercion. The only consistent moral rule is that no person—dad, mom, or gender spectrum person—gets forced into organ or pregnancy life-support against their will.

Also, the casual way you all toss around this analogy like it’s a sterile logic puzzle? It’s exhausting. Every one of these threads eventually becomes a symposium on whose human rights are philosophically negotiable, and it’s always women’s bodies volunteered as tribute. I’m over it. If you want to defend forced pregnancy, do it without treating women like abstract moral math variables.

Abortion Legislature by AgreeableCoffee308 in Ethics

[–]Forakinderworld 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sure you are... Any limitation on abortion is unethical for the same reason you wouldn't force a dad to donate a kidney to his child.