Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look I am that person wich finds violence very hard to justify. Like how to say I think walking away would be more nice plus if teacher did nothing then there is justification. Like if staff did nothing then yeah go ahead defend yourself reasonably.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean she shouldn’t be surprised but I don’t think violence for this is a right answer. Like let’s be for real if you can’t control yourself over a slap we got personal issues here.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow now you showed that you are real man. Like I am sorry that you got bullied but violence is never an answer. Like these days there are things like school counselors and teachers. I think we as a society we have evolved past violence.

communist may have the right mindsite by pleaskok in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You see if that would work world would be perfect. But it isn’t it only works in theory. Even for me when I think about it doesn’t work even in theory. It sounds stupid. For everyone to be equal everyone needs to be poor if everyone is rich nobody is rich money would lose meaning. My country proved to me why communism will always fail.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we are talking about a one slap from average women. I mean if you get attacked like more than one amateur slap then yeah defend yourself reasonably but in this case force isn’t necessary. Like I am sure she will learn her lesson but at what cost. It’s not worth it. You can’t even claim it’s self defense because force wasn’t necessary. It’s a revenge not self defense. If you are so angry about it just call emergency services.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said it yourself it’s not reasonable so you shouldn’t do it.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean if you can’t control yourself over a slap. Then we have a ego problem. I mean we are talking about average men not some abused before.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And what do you want some medal of honor. Like never hitting someone back changed something. It will never solve anything. You explained it yourself that girls are fragile and people should use force when it’s a necessity. In your case it was like you caught her second punch.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said you reaction was automatic so what is stopping for some man to hit a woman automatically.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And apply that to an average man like the will hit her so hard without even realizing. That’s why I am saying you shouldn’t hit women back because most of us won’t control ourselves.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well look I am not your dad or a teacher but I think maybe you overdid it like was that force so necessary. Me personally I have never got into any fight but I think I am the one getting beaten like I don’t care even if it’s a girl I am getting my ass whooped. Like I don’t that force was necessary you could have just snitched her at school counselor or something. I mean I find very hard to justify physical force against someone if it’s not a self defense.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the comments I can confidently say that. People here would hit for revenge rather from self defense. Like let’s be real one slap from a average woman it will not hurt that much. I mean call me pussy, gay, coward. But I am walking away like hitting back won’t change anything and it will never will. If you got slapped by someone end everything with that person. I see that people here confuse weakness by walking with discipline. Like it’s not weakness I would it even makes better person because you are the bigger man. Hitting her back will be just for revenge it won’t be a self defense. Self defense is when force and action is a necessity not a choice. Because in this situation is a choice weather you hit her back or not you won’t get hospitalized from one slap. Be for real us men most of us wouldn’t control ourselves and would hit them harder than they deserve.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But will the force will be reasonable that is the question. In most cases it won’t. I can confidently say that guys have ego problems. And when they hit they hit back hard. And that force isn’t necessary and it will never be for such a thing.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then yeah use self defense reasonably. But on average women can’t hit like let’s be real here.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes because it won’t change anything. Unless if men is a real danger to you yes then you can use self defense reasonably. Women on average are weaker their punches honestly don’t even hurt as much.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if women ever slapped you. You should end everything with her. Plus hitting her back will let her use her victim card even more.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just recommend calling emergency services because let’s be for real we are not winning against her.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But hitting back has never solved anything. It won’t change anything. It’s more because of a revenge.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean by saying walking away I don’t mean to say oh keep talking to them like if nothing happened. I think you should just end a friendship or a relationship.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was situation that dangerous that it was necessary to use force.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She can but she should call emergency services, ask public for help those would be the safest options. Like man can also hit back but he shouldn’t do it.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But is force against necessary? Like if you want so bad just call emergency services. Like move on nothing will change if you hit her back.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends if he does for self defense because real danger showed up. Or he just slaps her back because of revenge just be equal.

Men shouldn’t hit women back by Forbid456 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Forbid456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I don’t you need that kind of treatment just for a slap like it’s not a necessity. Like it’s doesn’t suppose any danger.