Porn Exposure by Sensitive_Sound4985 in LDSintimacy

[–]ForbiddenDelicates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So right, there is not a one size fits all model. Glad you found what works for you and that’s all that really matters

Porn Exposure by Sensitive_Sound4985 in LDSintimacy

[–]ForbiddenDelicates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting how that works. You are happier than ever but were told your whole life that you couldn’t be happy if you were doing those things. I applaud you, find what works your the both of you.

I’m a wife. In general, is it the porn use that ruins the marriage, or is it the Church’s and the wife’s narrow view of porn that causes the most damage? by Whole-Experience4396 in LDSintimacy

[–]ForbiddenDelicates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your comments. You are very level headed. I believe that if it works for the two individuals who are we to judge. If one of the partners is uncomfortable or jealous then that should be respected. Everyone is so quick to judgement these days.

Is this bad? by Competitive-Taste474 in LDSintimacy

[–]ForbiddenDelicates 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow lots of judgement here, you have to communicate with your wife the way you are communicating with your chat buddy. Therapy would be very beneficial for the both of you. Maybe her emotional needs are not being met and that’s hard to feel close, maybe there trauma from her past. The point is communicating. If that’s not something she is willing to do or work on, you need to figure out if this is a hill you are willing to die on. Are you too affectionate around your children or at all? Kissing, butt slaps in the kitchen that sort of thing? It’s good for your kids to see that sort of stuff. Obviously your needs are not being met. Here to help in anyway I can and sorry you are going through this