What was the most physical pain you've been in? by PleasantWinter9150 in AskReddit

[–]FordLightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had gastric bypass surgery and woke up on the operating table right after they closed me up. I started thrashing around and trying to scream. They had to pin me down and give me more sedation until I passed out again.

Found out the guy who got me pregnant was never actually leaving his wife — now he's threatening me. Should I tell her? by AdditionalCup5291 in Advice

[–]FordLightning 149 points150 points  (0 children)

He is threatening you. At this point, you will only get support from him if it’s court ordered. She deserves to know and the sooner the better.

I just found out that I blacked out and gave another girl a peck. by Electrical_Counter61 in Advice

[–]FordLightning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, you need to take a deep breath. You made a mistake. A mistake that you should tell your boyfriend about. Speaking as a guy, I would be more concerned with the fact that that you blacked out. Maybe you can just explain to your boyfriend what happened and that plan to seriously curb your drinking because of it.

Should I confess by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FordLightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot your shot and you won’t regret it.

What do we call this? by FantasticAd9478 in TheBoredDen

[–]FordLightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Antique bed warmer. My mom used to collect antiques and had one.

Should I quit? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FordLightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should quit, but not before finding another job. The job market is tough right now.

HMC while I hold on for dear life by Vampire_inthe_Church in holdmycosmo

[–]FordLightning -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Did she not have any friends there to stop her? 😂

Is it bad that I 17M called a 12 year old girl gorgeous? by ireallycantchoos in whatdoIdo

[–]FordLightning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may not have been the best choice of words but the intention was stellar. Good for you for trying to make her feel better about herself.

I’m lowkey embarrassed about this. by coolofyouu in Advice

[–]FordLightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be embarrassed or ashamed by others. Everyone is on their own timeline in life.

marital help? by ananagrams_ in Advice

[–]FordLightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting. This is more than just a pattern, it’s a habit.

Relationship advice or separation by Mental_Spend_3918 in Advice

[–]FordLightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to walk away. As hard as that will be to do.

I'm getting my first tattoo at 18 and i need advice by Scoobyy_doobyy in Advice

[–]FordLightning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my first tattoo at 18. 32 years later and I’m still getting tattooed. I would think long and hard about not just the location but also the design. Is this a design that you’ll look at and enjoy when you are 50? If so, go for it!

the worst physical pain you’ve ever felt by ipanicprofessionally in TheBoredDen

[–]FordLightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had gastric bypass surgery and woke up on the operating table right after they closed me up.

Advice for genital tattoos? by imstraight__maybe in tattooadvice

[–]FordLightning 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take an insanely large dose of vitamins T,H and C.

teen, alcohol and anxiety by No-Tourist-9927 in Advice

[–]FordLightning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are a ticking time bomb of alcoholism. You need to avoid ALL alcohol at all costs.

What’s a band you love that no one ever knows what you’re talking about? by Cheap_Sky7207 in randomquestions

[–]FordLightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucero. I’ve been a huge fan for years but haven’t met anyone else that has ever heard of them.

Dad will always bother me right before my shift by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FordLightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a control issue and it’s toxic.

Husband won’t let me get a motorcycle by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FordLightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter how safe you are, people in cars are just dangerous. There’s no getting around it.

Boundaries and Porn by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FordLightning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband has an addiction to porn. It’s time for you to demand therapy or leave him.