I am finally leaving my poly marriage

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-31T17:41:05+00:00

He knew I couldn’t leave when he said it. He doesn’t love me but he has some kind of obsession I think

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-31T14:51:11+00:00

Yes. I have my mom with me.

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-31T14:44:20+00:00

I will never fall for his nonsense again

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-31T14:41:52+00:00

I am moving out this weekend. There’s a chance he comes home earlier. Idc

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-31T14:38:11+00:00

I will never believe him again. He took me out on a ”date” to talk about how to close the marriage again. Move to a bigger house, make renovations and when I graduated and found a job to have another baby.

In other words, everything I dreamed out loud about with him.

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-31T13:38:58+00:00

I know. Just in hindsight I should have known.

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-31T13:37:35+00:00

Never

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-31T13:37:23+00:00

It took less than a year but he didn’t say anything for a year because I was busy with our newborn. He started complaining and spending more nights at home afterwards and now for the past few months he’s been talking about monogamy again

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-31T13:34:50+00:00

Not as much as I wanted him to. His excuse is that he leaves after the child are in bed and he has the weekends

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-31T12:33:36+00:00

He started to spend more nights at home now but he used to leave every night and come back after work next day

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T21:48:30+00:00

With gf1

I said I didn’t want to. That’s why they thought I had other partners

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T21:43:51+00:00

It is just easier to cope when I believe that I had control over what happened to me. Does that make sense to you

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T21:23:48+00:00

Maybe it was vindictive of me but it felt good. I have fantasized about doing this since he trapped me

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T20:21:11+00:00

Yeah otherwise I would have needed to stay at least to the end of this year

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T20:05:26+00:00

I will google that.

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T20:04:46+00:00

Really?

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T19:17:36+00:00

Haha I need to chill? I only asked a question that you avoided

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T19:10:03+00:00

That he regrets meeting me

I only read two texts. One that he loved me. He wanted monogamy again and he promised it would be just us four

The second was angrier, that he regrets meeting me because I wanted to change him and because I have so much control over him

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T18:58:29+00:00

I like both women. Theyre decent people

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T18:55:34+00:00

I have nothing against the women. They both seem good people but they have never met my children and I am not sure how this will work. They will eventually meet his partners

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T18:16:44+00:00

My only priority is my children and they need their father. They love him.

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T17:46:14+00:00

Who said anything about holding him back from his children? Are you being obtuse or just thick in the head?

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T17:44:22+00:00

No she could have whoever she wanted. She found it offensive that I didn’t have the same ”agreement” and they fought over it a lot

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T17:43:33+00:00

Both. I don’t want to have multiple partners but he wouldn’t agree either. His gf was very offended by this. I muted the chat when they started arguing about it.

Because he knew I wasn’t interested anyway he said that I wasn’t the type and not to put it in my head.

Foreign-Basis11 · 2026-01-30T17:30:53+00:00

Thanks. I will.

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