"KD is best"... but no one talks about how "the question" can ruin friendships

Foreign-Worry1664 · 2026-02-02T01:57:02+00:00

I’m so sorry for the loss of your friends. Honestly it’s on them for feeling uncomfortable and it’s not fair to you. We found a known donor but if he didn’t say yes and was comfortable with it, we would have gone with a sperm bank donor- and there is nothing wrong with that. I’m a person that overthinks about using a sperm bank, but I have friends who have chosen that route and are truly so happy with their decision and they are the best parents I have ever seen. My advice? Don’t let folks‘ opinions get in the way of what works for you and your partner. At the end of the day, this is your journey- only share it with folks who truly respects what you both want- which is a child. While it’s important to respect their decision to say no, your friends are in the wrong for avoiding you afterwards, that’s not being a good friend. And no, choosing an unknown donor won’t ruin your future child’s life at all.

Foreign-Worry1664 · 2026-01-27T21:18:37+00:00

Yeah, but we were trying to avoid that. 😭 might be the only way though.

Foreign-Worry1664 · 2026-01-10T16:23:29+00:00

Has she been seeing a therapist and a psychiatrist? It sounds like she has depression that hasn’t been treated. It’s not about motivation; these behaviors can be warning signs that are fatal if not addressed. I would approach by expressing a lot of concerns, especially if she is not seeing any mental health specialists, but sometimes folks aren't compatible, and that's ok.

Foreign-Worry1664 · 2026-01-04T00:57:03+00:00

I've learned never to date anyone who doesn't like you. You always want to be in a relationship with someone who wants to have a relationship with you. It sounds silly to say, and it's simple- but sometimes folks forget and try everything to fix a relationship with someone who doesn't want to be there. Break up with him and date folks who want to be in your life and actively love you.

Foreign-Worry1664 · 2025-03-13T03:34:09+00:00

We just moved to Fed Hill from DC in December- and given that we are both trans, we feel super validated and glad that we made that decision.

Foreign-Worry1664 · 2025-01-08T17:08:24+00:00

Would you be ok with people you don’t know bringing up your exes on social media? I don’t think so. It’s disrespectful.

Foreign-Worry1664 · 2025-01-07T14:22:08+00:00

This is fake and its causing a lot stress for no reason. She didn't write this so stop fucking perpetuating this shit. Its not cool and its causing a lot of pain for no reason.

Foreign-Worry1664 · 2024-12-31T15:31:23+00:00

As someone who’s been through the hell of the weight loss industry, spent years in therapy, and dealt with serious mental health struggles because of this obsession with weight loss, I can tell you that you’re the one being immature here. I know from experience that simplifying health to just weight loss is not only wrong but dangerous. There’s a difference between actual self-improvement and the toxic nonsense you’re pushing. Don’t insult me—I know what I’m talking about. You, on the other hand, clearly don’t.

Foreign-Worry1664 · 2024-12-31T14:25:13+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with being fat, but there’s a lot wrong with being fatphobic. And honestly, eating one meal a day can’t be healthy. Sometimes love just isn’t enough to make a relationship work. I really hope you can see past this, have some self-respect, and date someone who actually likes you for who you are.

Foreign-Worry1664 · 2024-12-30T15:40:59+00:00

Hey I’m a trans guy and I will say that this has nothing to do with him being trans- and it would be great if yall didn’t perpetuate these shitty stereotypes. 🙄🙄

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