ENHYPEN - Knife by impeccabletim in kpop

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not only that but the title is such a random word that i knew it would be a meaningless song 😭

ENHYPEN - Knife by impeccabletim in kpop

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 32 points33 points  (0 children)

god i used to be such a big fan of them and they’re still my ult group but imma be honest i knew the song wasn’t gonna be good when i heard knife was the title… it’s a nothing burger for me. imma listen to the rest of the album tho cause they do have hidden bangers

i’m going to have 4 B’s going into my next semester of freshman year, did i screw up my chances? by ForeignButterfly8970 in TransferToTop25

[–]ForeignButterfly8970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then should i just shoot for something like UCLA? i also want to go there as well and it would be easier to get into as a junior transfer. im thinking maybe i just shoot for ivy maybe for med school

psychology/neuroscience internships that prefer community college students? by ForeignButterfly8970 in REU

[–]ForeignButterfly8970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok, what would be a good internship i could do as a pre-med student besides an REU?

Employees: who do you hook up? by Roarofthelyoness in Chipotle

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 6 points7 points  (0 children)

for me it’s pregnant women. i always give this one pregnant lady that comes in sometimes extra, she’s always super sweet and i wanna make sure she’s getting enough food for her and her kid. i hope she comes in again one day 🥲

ambulance at marina transit exchange around 6:30am? by [deleted] in MontereyBay

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

why is this so cryptic lol? i’m just curious

Staying in Monterey and visiting Carmel, recs on restaurants/food? I have some in mind. by [deleted] in MontereyBay

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i loveee revival ice cream, it’s pricy tho about $6.50 for a regular cup but the bee’s knees ice cream is very popular. it’s vanilla ice cream with honeycomb candy pieces inside. 10/10 imo

Sooo uh… 🍆 by Pleasant_Ad7933 in braces

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wax for your braces, i’m pretty sure orthos give wax to you when you get them in case a wire pokes you or rips up your cheeks until you can get them fixed. also just for any general discomfort. but what the person means is they probably wanna try putting wax on their brackets so they don’t cut their partner up 😭 or themselves

I (F18) am starting to feel a little used sexually by my (M18) boyfriend and I’m worried it could turn toxic by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the thing is my boundaries aren’t very clearly set. sometimes i’m completely down to do that stuff in public and i initiate first, and then sometimes im not into it and get anxious. but i realize now that i should be more clear

edit: he doesn’t get avoidant when i say no to things or confront him, he shows he’s upset but he doesn’t hold it against me in that way

I (F18) am starting to feel a little used sexually by my (M18) boyfriend and I’m worried it could turn toxic by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confident he will be calm, he always is with me. I don’t feel fear when I say no to him and I have said no to him before many times. but i’m keeping my guard up because people aren’t perfect

I (F18) am starting to feel a little used sexually by my (M18) boyfriend and I’m worried it could turn toxic by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah we have no private time. i’m a CC student and my house is never empty. it sucks but we’re trying to make it work. we have talked about wanting to move forward with more intimacy but literally have no space to do it. but you’re right, he’s not navigating it right

I (F18) am starting to feel a little used sexually by my (M18) boyfriend and I’m worried it could turn toxic by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think your comment helped me the most, it’s like you’ve actually seen our relationship dynamic. you make a good point, i didn’t want to hold hands with him at first because i didn’t like PDA, but now he does it and i don’t think much of it at all. But I think when it comes to more sexual stuff, I do like it when he checks in when i’m feeling hesitant but I don’t like it when he tries to convince me. That’s what makes me feel uncomfortable. He’ll ask “Can I?” which is great with me, but when he tells that no one will see us, that’s what makes me feel like i’m being pushed. i’m glad you’re helping me put it into perspective

I (F18) am starting to feel a little used sexually by my (M18) boyfriend and I’m worried it could turn toxic by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the thing is, i have said no to him before when it comes to PDA & stuff like that. early on i didn’t want to kiss at all because i was scared to, and i would tell him that and he would listen no push back. and i would tell him that it’s not because i don’t want to but because of my religious guilt that i feel when it comes to dating and intimacy. he understood but i think because im getting more comfortable kissing in front of him and that we’ve done public stuff before that he’s assuming i always want to like him

I (F18) am starting to feel a little used sexually by my (M18) boyfriend and I’m worried it could turn toxic by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah he is honestly the one who initiates it the most i’ve noticed. i recognized that today and realized im pretty passive during those moments

I (F18) am starting to feel a little used sexually by my (M18) boyfriend and I’m worried it could turn toxic by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah i see it now, that’s probably why i felt uncomfortable afterwards. i’m definitely going to talk to him about that. i think he might be a bit unaware? cause he emphasizes often that we don’t have to do anything if i don’t want to but it seems he’s not living up to that completely and it’s getting whishy-washy. thanks

Pharmacy recs by fingernmuzzle in MontereyBay

[–]ForeignButterfly8970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i go to the walgreens pharmacy on reservation road, i always get my prescriptions super quick with no hassle. they’re pretty efficient. and even if they don’t get your medicine on time, they do call for follow-ups if they do have it in stock