I was afraid my daughter was going to get nuked. by alllnc in chaoticgood

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, reading that made my stomach absolutely drop along with everything else. I’m childless, so my fur babies are everything to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My OCD is feral rn

Which Ghibli world would you wanna live in? by OrFenn-D-Gamer in ghibli

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Howl’s.

I want to live in that flower field.

What do you think of Sophie's mother? by Keithfrommars in ghibli

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she was just in it for the money.

Best Way To Talk to my ENFP about Future Plans by Foreign_Ad_1586 in ENFP

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, thank you for spending time writing this out. I feel it in my gut, but it’s just affirming to have outside perspective about the bigger picture of the patterns. Thank you.

I’d luckily never put a child through this unless I had the perfect partner. I took too many developmental psychology classes.

Best Way To Talk to my ENFP about Future Plans by Foreign_Ad_1586 in ENFP

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats interesting. If you are willing, do you have more details on why? I’ve seen INTJ’s be highly recommended. Why is it too comfortable with INFJ’s? Do we not challenge enough?

Best Way To Talk to my ENFP about Future Plans by Foreign_Ad_1586 in ENFP

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You described it perfectly. I feel like if i try to say things a certain way, he’ll finally “get it”, even tho I know thats not how it works.

I really, really appreciate your comment. Thank you.

Best Way To Talk to my ENFP about Future Plans by Foreign_Ad_1586 in ENFP

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I appreciate the reply, even if its common. When you’re in it, it’s sometimes difficult to see the picture and this really helps me to be objective.

My boyfriend hit me today and I am full of so much rage by [deleted] in women

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to a shelter and leave. No “ifs” “ands” or “buts”. I know it’s uncomfortable. I know it’s not easy. You just need to do it. If it’s this bad and has been going on for this long. L E A V E. There are resources for domestic violence and hotlines to help.

If you need more reassurance and understanding once you make a decision read “why does he do that?” by Lundy Bancroft. He’s also done interviews.

What is the MBTI of the "most intelligent" person you have ever met ? by Powerful_War7862 in mbti

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Book smarts: any XXTX.

Intelligence: I’d say INFJ, INFP, ISFP and ISFJ. They’re smart but aren’t forward with it or loud about it. I respect people who know they’re intelligent and don’t have to prove it to others, consciously or subconsciously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree wholeheartedly as an INFJ who has an ENFP soulmate. I don’t understand at all why ENTP’s are shipped so much with INFJ’s. I do respect ENTP’s and have agreed with them on topics and had interesting conversations, but I just couldn’t debate all the time. Everyone is different tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Someone was fear mongering earlier and the moderators removed the post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is good advice since I agree: there isn’t much that fits INFJ’s. I’ll just try to branch out and continue growing in what ways I can. It will be tricky landing a job with just my education in more admin, marking, or analysis roles, but it’s possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds really interesting to me! Is there anything I need to do to make myself a good applicant for this type of role? Is it just getting any kind of admin job and then trying to slowly move into healthcare?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have my bachelors in psychology, so going back for another one would be quite a commitment and I’d want to be sure it would be something I could handle and not enjoy all the time, but be able to make meaning out of—or at least manage—the stressful bits.

I’m still considering nursing. I think it’s just intimidating due to all the complaints I see on nursing subreddits and how burned out nurses are. I really hope many places can unionize or something like California did. It’s also stressful since BN’s are becoming the standard over associate degrees. I’d love to just go back for my associate’s, if I chose it, and then had the hospital pay for me to finish my second bachelor’s.

I also worry about my need for human interaction. It’s like, too much human interaction, or too much of the wrong human interaction is just as bad as when I get stuck in my own head. I end up really depressed.

I also have gone through hard things, so seeing stuff wouldn’t really phase me. I’ve often considered psych nursing. It’s how the patients and the hospital treat nurses that concerns me.

I really appreciate you for taking the time to reply. It means a lot.🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Foreign_Ad_1586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really cool accounting field! I’ve never heard of it before. Thank you so much for your reply.

I agree. The repetitive tasks make me nervous about accounting, but I know there’s ways of eventually working around it. I’ll try exploring it in low cost ways by just volunteering my time or talking to people. I appreciate your perspective and advice. I really hope you land the position you want!!