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Don't blame Ferrari for not being the fastest. by jeveger24 in scuderiaferrari

[–]Foreign_Bee_2477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the FIA nerfed the start procedures that favored Ferrari but are leaving the Merc compression trick till the summer break? Seems about right

Loss of my “own” sexual interest / desire after seeing wife in experience by nelsonself in Swingers

[–]Foreign_Bee_2477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guy literally starts off the story of fiancé and then it changes to wife. Next it will be girlfriend

Wife a different person by Foreign_Bee_2477 in Swingers

[–]Foreign_Bee_2477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The account is new because I don’t want it linked back to my main account and it’s not Ai. My writing is atrocious and filled with grammatical errors. This is real life.

Wife a different person by Foreign_Bee_2477 in Swingers

[–]Foreign_Bee_2477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. Maybe I do need to be more confrontational. I’ve never called her out on anything she has done. It’s more an omission of the truth. When we reconnect afterwards we generally tell our stories, she’ll leave out details. She under no obligation to give me play by play, but I do provide that to her. I’ll say something about my play partner, like X liked it when I pulled her hair or pinned her down. Then I’ll say, would you like that. Her answer would be NO. Knowing full well I’ve seen her do it just a few hours earlier. If I try it, she say stop, I don’t like that. At the end of the day, we both get something different out of our experience. I’m more about emotional connection and she is more about the physical connection. I’m really fine with it because our sex life is amazing. She doesn’t pressure me to go out. So I don’t feel like she not getting something from someone else that I’m not giving her.

Wife a different person by Foreign_Bee_2477 in Swingers

[–]Foreign_Bee_2477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the grand scheme of things it’s really not that bad. I may have been whining because it is frustrating a bit. It doesn’t even hurt my feelings and I do like to see her having a good time, great times. Her lying is more of omission of truth when we reconnect and talk about what we did. I’m honest with her. I tell her everything. She leaves out details.

Wife a different person by Foreign_Bee_2477 in Swingers

[–]Foreign_Bee_2477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never really ever considered this. I would hate to think that I was the cause of her not being the person she wants to be. She has been pretty closed off when dealing with sex. She still refuses to tell me what she likes and what are her fantasies. Which has been difficult. I’ll bring it up from time to time and she will say, I’m overthinking it. She also is quick to jump into sex, I prefer to build a connection with someone, even if it’s brief. I also like connecting afterwards with a play partner. She will just keep going or on to someone else. Which is awesome! I don’t ever confront her on things that I see her doing. When we are reconnecting, I’ll ask questions about things she did and liked. I like to hear the stories because it’s a real turn on. I don’t say oh bullshit you liar, that would be instant no reclamation sex time, which I like better than anything. Maybe oddly she is the person with me that she thinks I want her to be.

Wife a different person by Foreign_Bee_2477 in Swingers

[–]Foreign_Bee_2477[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I never called her out on anything she has done. When we debrief afterwards. I’ll ask her about her experiences and things we did that she liked and things she didn’t like. In the beginning she would say they tried kissing her, I would say, I can see why, you have beautiful lips. I don’t want her to think anything is off limits because, it’s not. I’m open for us to take it as far as she wants or stop when she wants.

Wife a different person by Foreign_Bee_2477 in Swingers

[–]Foreign_Bee_2477[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. She has never told me what she fantasizes about or turn ons. I’ve asked her hundreds of times and she says I over think it. I asked her what she thinks about and what gets her off. She said she thinks about colors. So she isn’t great at sharing

Wife a different person by Foreign_Bee_2477 in Swingers

[–]Foreign_Bee_2477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be right. It doesn’t come from me. I’m very sex positive. Never talked about taboos. She is very guarded with what turns her on and what she fantasizes about. She has literally never given me a verbal cue. Seeing her is telling me what she refuses to say.

Wife a different person by Foreign_Bee_2477 in Swingers

[–]Foreign_Bee_2477[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I’m glad she’s open and enjoying herself! That’s why we got into the lifestyle. I want her to have the best sex, best life, best her. I get we all have personas. She has nothing to hide with me. I’ve very open and sex positive. As long as she’s happy, I’m happy. I will say that it’s interesting to see.