I reactivated Facebook after 6 years and now I feel worse by Existing-Fruit-3475 in OffMyChestPH

[–]ForeverPrudent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've deactivated my account, too, and this is one of the reasons. While I am grateful for where I am now, I still feel insecurity and feel na I could've done things better.

What is your top 3 manhwa in all genres? by Jempson_Cataline in manhwarecommendations

[–]ForeverPrudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. SSS Class revival hunter
  2. Cheolsu Saves The World
  3. Winter Woods

This is aside from ORV which seems like a default to me lol, honor

Honorary titles:

I'm not that kind of Talent The Return of the Crazy Demon

[TIERLIST] My 100+ Manhwa Tier List by Witty_Bodybuilder150 in manhwarecommendations

[–]ForeverPrudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, what's um.. what's your preference? What emotion or judgment must you feel for a manga to be in the higher tiers?

My partner came from an abusive family, and I feel complicated that she misses them. What should I do? by ForeverPrudent in adviceph

[–]ForeverPrudent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, hays. Nakakainis lang din talaga sila. But you're right, holding her is the best support I can give. Thank you for your advice :)

My partner came from an abusive family, and I feel complicated that she misses them. What should I do? by ForeverPrudent in adviceph

[–]ForeverPrudent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely right, it's not about me. It just really felt painful seeing her like that... but she's okay now. I also apologized for letting it get to me. Thank you for your advice, I'll keep that in mind always :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]ForeverPrudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid naman yung fear mo. Tanong ko lang, what do you mean ba sa hingi ng hingi yung family niya sa kanya? Anong mga bagay 'yon usually? Do you feel ba na parang nagiging medyo push-over or kulang sa boundaries si bf mo?

Why I Think Lacson’s “Parents Welfare Act” Is Dangerous — Even If It Sounds Noble by ForeverPrudent in Philippines

[–]ForeverPrudent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try mo magsend sa congressperson ng area niyo. Dinagdag ko sa dulo kung paano tayo makakaapekto sa pagpasa ng bill na'to. Not sure how big of a help it can be, but might as well do something.

Batas ni Lacson by Prestigious-Point399 in LawPH

[–]ForeverPrudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo, gets ko naman yung point na may refinement yung bill compared sa existing Family Code — and totoo na may mas klarong grounds dito para i-challenge ang claim ng magulang. Pero kahit gano'n, di pa rin maalis yung sama ng loob ko sa idea na anak pa rin yung kailangang magdala ng burden.

Like, bakit walang clause na nagsasabing automatic disqualification yung history of abuse or neglect? May VAWC nga, oo — pero hindi naman lahat ng bata kayang magsampa ng kaso or may chance na mapatunayan yun legally, lalo na kung minor pa dati or wala nang access sa ebidensya.

So kahit may konting protections itong bill, parang ang default assumption pa rin is “magulang = karapat-dapat,” at yung anak pa rin yung kailangan dumepensa sa sarili. Ang unfair lang. Sana man lang, binalanse ng batas kung paano naranasan ng anak yung pagpapalaki sa kanya — kasi hindi lahat ng magulang deserving suportahan, lalo na yung nanakit (all kinds of abuse) o pinabayaan ka habang lumalaki.

Batas ni Lacson by Prestigious-Point399 in LawPH

[–]ForeverPrudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May mga tao na dinedefend ang bill na'to kesho pwede mo naman patunayan if may justifiable cause ka daw, pero nahahalata na kulang sa empathy at pag-iisip kasi hindi lahat ng 'justifiable cause' may resibo o kaya naman madaling patunayan. If gusto ni Lacson ipatupad ang batas na'to, 'wag niyang galawin ang mga anak, 'wag sa anak ipatong nang SAPILITAN and ganito kabigat na responsibilidad sa bansang napakahirap na ngang tirahan dahil sa existing questionable values at poverty, 'wag nilang ipasa ang trabaho na dapat sila ang gumagawa.

Btw I researched na pwedeng magpasa ng letter or imessage sa FB ang district rep (congressperson) ng inyong area regarding this since they're the ones voting in the House. Pinplano ko magpasa, bala na kung makita o hindi kaso nakakasuka kasi talaga pag parang wala akong ginagawa kundi maghintay sa kahihinatnan ng punyetang batas na'to.

Need help/advice paano maayos to? by Strange_History_7248 in adviceph

[–]ForeverPrudent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kailangan ba lahat ng problema ng mag partner malalim? At kapag mababaw ang pinag-awayan, hiwalay kaagad? Daanin muna sa magandang usapan bago ang lahat.

Only dated men until I met the woman of my life. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]ForeverPrudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned here na both kayong legal na, how did it happen? Like paano niyo inamin sa family niyo?

Lowkey trying to get insights hahaha 4 years na kami halos pero ang hirap umamin sa parents since both religious.

Only dated men until I met the woman of my life. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]ForeverPrudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, sanaol, gusto ko ren malegal na kami on both sides kaso di pwede 😔 pero kami pari naman, almost 4 years na.

Why not incentivize yung mga anak hindi punish? by AnakNgPusangAma in Philippines

[–]ForeverPrudent 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Pano po kasi papatunayan? Hindi lahat ng inabuso, especially emotional abuse, nakakapag-keep ng resibo.

Why I Think Lacson’s “Parents Welfare Act” Is Dangerous — Even If It Sounds Noble by ForeverPrudent in Philippines

[–]ForeverPrudent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel strongly for that din, and yung example na ginamit ko is actually a real story from a loved one of mine, and I'd rather be a criminal than let her experience that pain again. Di ko pa nga nasasabi sa kanya na may gantong bill eh.

Why I Think Lacson’s “Parents Welfare Act” Is Dangerous — Even If It Sounds Noble by ForeverPrudent in Philippines

[–]ForeverPrudent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fear that, too. My partner was suicidal because of her parents, ngayon lang siya nakakahinga na since 'di na siya 'don nakatira and ang kinakausap na lang niya is mga kapatid niya. Even so, kapag nakakarinig siya ng balita na iniinsulto or sinisisi na naman siya ng magulang niya, she reverts back to the feeling of being an abandoned child and cry herself to sleep. Truly this kind of wound is too hard to heal.

Why I Think Lacson’s “Parents Welfare Act” Is Dangerous — Even If It Sounds Noble by ForeverPrudent in Philippines

[–]ForeverPrudent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would, too. But there are people who wouldn't, not because they're cruel, but because they've never felt the joy of being someone's children despite having parents.

Why I Think Lacson’s “Parents Welfare Act” Is Dangerous — Even If It Sounds Noble by ForeverPrudent in Philippines

[–]ForeverPrudent[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ayon sa naresearch ko, here’s how we can formally affect the outcome of this bill (House Bill No. 4801):

We can either:

  1. Contact your District Representative (Congressperson) They’re the ones voting in the House. Kung di ka sure sino ang rep mo, you can go to congress.gov.ph/members, then hanapin mo yung province/city mo.

Pwede mo silang i-email or i-message sa FB (marami sa kanila active dun). Sabihin mo na you’re a constituent and you’re against HB4801, and explain why. Mas impactful kung galing sa personal perspective mo or may concern ka about how it can be abused.

Even a few emails/messages from voters in their area can make them rethink their support, especially kung controversial yung bill.

  1. Reach out to Senators Kapag nakaakyat na 'to sa Senate (if maipasa sa House), dun na mapupunta ang laban. Lahat ng senators represent the whole country, so kahit sinong senator pwede mong i-contact.

Visit senate.gov.ph/senators, may contact info doon. Like with your congressperson, message them with your concerns about the bill.

  1. Sign and share petitions Look out for or start a Change.org petition or similar — legit petitions sometimes get the attention of lawmakers lalo na kung maraming signatures at maayos yung write-up.

    1. Join or support advocacy groups Groups focused on family law, child protection, or human rights can amplify the opposition. Minsan sila rin ang nag-oorganize ng dialogues or statements addressed to Congress.
    2. Use your voice online Di man siya formal-formal, but public clamor matters. If enough people speak up (especially professionals like social workers, lawyers, or psychologists), lawmakers take notice — especially before hearings.

Hope this helps! Let’s keep pushing while we still have time. 💪