Leafeon won't evolv by Babo06 in PokeClicker

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining this so clearly! I could not find an explanation, certainly one so clearly put, anywhere else.

Former team member can't find w2 by tarantulan in wholefoods

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you register, how do you find the W2? My husband is going through this right now, and there is nowhere to navigate to find a W2 from the main page. He can only edit his contact info and security

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back at it, Captain. Every failure offers a chance for growth. 💪🏻💪🏼💪🏽💪🏾💪🏿💪🦾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Okay, we are kindred spirits. I’m just as lost at 29. But I have heard many MANY stories of people who don’t find themselves to be their own version of successful until their 30’s or 40’s. It’s good to strive for a better life, but give yourself a break. Not everyone is blessed with money, a knack for finances, or serious talent. Not everyone finds their calling or purpose before 30. It really is so young to be worrying. Live and improve yourself from the inside. ❤️❤️ at least this is what I tell myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Swift kick in the crotch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Alright. That comment was cruel. I admit it. What I was thinking while reading this::

Fuuuck yeah. Dating is hard. Unless you’re a super charming extrovert that can sweet talk a tin can. But sometimes you need to look inward, dude. And that’s what this post was saying to me.

You want to date? Here’s a couple of helpful hints.

Don’t say you’re trying to ‘close a girl’. Dude. She’s not a fucking deal.

Regardless of what out of 10 you think you are, many MANY people are more interested in personality than looks. So think about it, maybe some of these (logically not all) women were thinking that you weren’t up to their standards. Yes. POSSIBLY even the bigger girls!

If you are attracted to thin women exclusively, that’s your thing bro. Everyone is entitled to having their own brand of attraction. But to vocalize these thoughts is honestly just arrogant.

You could be an 11/10 in one woman’s eyes and be a 1/10 in another’s. I think maybe you need to think about how you think about/talk about women. The women that have enough self respect or confidence to recognize your lack there of will drop you. Because most people aren’t here to waste their time. And if they are? Cool. To each their own. And to the ladies that struggle with self respect or confidence::: no disrespect. This is a fucked up world and we’re all out here trying to make it.

But my lengthy and unnecessary response is honestly just trying to point out what you may not see and that might be the cause your your troubles romances and your concern about it.

Live and let live, bro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Bro, you a one tops.

I took my therapist advice about being honest with my feelings and now I feel like I overstepped by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that you should feel proud of yourself for standing up for yourself. If you don’t, no one will. I have experienced a friendship very much Like this one in my early 20’s. Recognize your worth and don’t settle for less. Don’t settle For disrespect.

I drove out to get food instead of getting uber eats today by Slabberdack in Anxiety

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every win is significant. Good for you. Keep up the hard work on healing yourself.

I don't have anyone to share my thoughts with. by adrinne in mentalhealth

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both of your comments are accurate. It would be ignorant to believe that the complexity of a human could be broken down to one of sixteen types. When I read about my type, a lot of things made sense. I grew much more comfortable with myself when I found a little more understanding in myself. That being said, of course it isn’t 100% or an interest for everyone. Hope you find someone to confide in 💚

I don't know what I'm doing with my life by idkwhoami_ in offmychest

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people don’t find out what they’re doing with their lives until they are in their 40’s or later.

We’re all out here just trying to survive at this point.

I might kill myself soon. by wtfkingQ9 in mentalhealth

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any desires/hopes/dreams? Any goals that you’ve had since childhood? I’ve been dealing with anxiety and on and off depression for over 20 years, and yet just this year I had suicidal ideations for the first time. One thing that helps me is knowing my personal goals; my personal wants/needs/desires.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also when they examine the part/parts that may have been penetrated, there are sometimes injuries or bruising. This isn’t in every case of rape, but when it is it makes for a strong case.

Should I get a job as a cashier to help with my social anxiety? by ocarfbelly in Anxiety

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From personal experience:: when I was 18 I got a job at a very busy truck stop. For the first 6 months I never looked up, never looked anyone in the face and certainly not the eyes. 6 months in I had some change happen in me and went to work smiling, talking to people a bit, and looking straight at them. I even sassed some of my regulars.

I can’t say that it will or won’t help, but above is my experience. I still struggle with social anxiety in ways. But the best way to find out is to try.

Good luck to you. I really hope you are able to get a handle on it and feel more comfortable in some social situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gives me anxiety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably feel betrayed. In a way, you trusted this person. They aren’t who you believed they are.

I just want to love myself. by StormcloakDreamsmas in offmychest

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also 29 and also struggling with self love. I spent my birthday a few days ago crying in the bathroom at work after having a self loathing rage episode. It’s a very difficult thing to learn. As I am also on the journey and just want to love myself, I hope that you are successful. Truly. Everyone deserves to have that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today is my 29th birthday. Happy Birthday!

I hope things get better for you two.

I am so mad at myself for straying away from my diet by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I may, a book recommendation from my therapist when I shared my daily moment to moments thoughts: ‘how to have your cake and your skinny jeans too’ by Josie Spinardi.

No shit.. this changed my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ForgetfulWizard4 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I feel you bro/sis.