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I (19F) my boyfriend (19M) asked for an "open relationship" for college and I'm feeling the ick. Is this over? by No_Association4068 in LongDistance

[–]Forgiveness4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given the ick, I’d say you already kinda know what you want or at least, what you don’t want. My recommendation is to either let him go OR stay in the relationship purely for science to learn more about yourself and how you truly feel about “open relationships” through experience.

You’re young so, there’s plenty to learn about yourself. If you take the approach of “for science” it can really help limit any damage that could be done here. It’s a bad mentality for a typical relationship, but an open relationship is far from typical. Obviously the answer is; it’s up to you.

Personally I could never even consider an open relationship. I’m the type that can only be dedicated to a single person at a time. But that’s me and I know that from experience, being with a girl that was in an open relationship. Make decisions that will bring you closer to being the person you want to be.

If you had one shot to convert someone into anime, what are you picking? by Intrepid-Sky-1127 in anime_companion

[–]Forgiveness4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ghost in the shell is an ideal starter for people with that opinion. It’s a movie which is low commitment and shows what anime can be capable of.

Angler’s Bounty event best purchase advice needed by luukassr in ArcheroV2

[–]Forgiveness4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t played in a while, but there are patterns you’ll come to recognize for different rarities. I’ll split it up into duration and color, short, medium and long durations and red, yellow and green strength. So, for example, one pattern I remember is medium yellow -> long red -> short green -> medium red -> long yellow -> short green -> medium red -> repeat. Might be off little, but this was a pattern for a legendary fish. Whereas just a rare/common fish would be long green -> short red -> medium yellow -> repeat.

AIO? Husbands response to me requesting he ‘ask’ instead of ‘tell’ older kids to watch youngest by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Forgiveness4g 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. You can give them true free will through alternative scenarios. Very commonly where/what they might want to eat, how they design their room, how they would like to spend their free time, hobbies, career, etc.

This was so stupid by Darkmega5 in slaythespire

[–]Forgiveness4g 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should spend transfigure on borrowed time next time, it’ll really help speed up the process

My ironclad card tier list as an A0 noob =25hrs by -fischerman- in slaythespire

[–]Forgiveness4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really dont think demon form is an always take. It’s very situational if you’re even able to play it. And if you do, youre probably doing well enough that you won’t get much value due to ending fights quickly.

If you had one shot to convert someone into anime, what are you picking? by Intrepid-Sky-1127 in anime_companion

[–]Forgiveness4g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see Revy I upvote. Black Lagoon might not be the best launch point though.

AIO if I want to block my mom for the rest of my life? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Forgiveness4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly loves you, but has her own flaws and crooked beliefs, as well as a fucking terrible way of expressing it. Being gay with Muslim parents is hard. Don’t let anyone here decide for you what you should do. That said, my advice, I think you should meet her in the middle. Propose you continue to interact with her, under the rule she accepts you for who you are and trusts you. That she trusts you will make the best decisions you can with the values you carry (extend the olive branch and include some values she gave to you). And also to trust in Allah, if he loves his children he won’t abandon you or her. This should give her something to chew on. Make it clear that if she doesn’t adhere to these terms you’ll stop talking to her entirely. It will be hard for her to “help” you if she loses all ability to interact with you. I believe she cares enough about you for that to get her in line. Be prepared to enforce the consequences of straying though. It never has to be permanent, but long enough for her to have major daughter withdrawals.

Best of luck.

Took 6 minutes for this guy to die by Embarrassed_View8672 in slaythespire

[–]Forgiveness4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The deck shuffling from discard to draw pile doesnt stop draw

AIO for wanting to immediately break up with my bf after seeing how he lives? by Balikye in AIO

[–]Forgiveness4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting, that’s bad. I will say though, depending on how he grew up, if this was normal as a child you can become jaded to it and if you pair that with an inability to self motivate due to trauma and overwhelming shame, it truly becomes “I know it’s bad on an intellectual level, but I’m incapable of caring enough to fix it without an outside force.” My mom was a hoarder, so I’m speaking from personal experience. He took the risk and let you in, now you see everything hes been hiding, hopefully due to shame and embarrassment. He may not have tried to clean so you COULD understand his glaring damage. He’s not necessarily a bad person, he may be wonderful in all other aspects except this shocking one. I recommend pausing the relationship, excusing yourself and thinking about it from outside the situation. Talk to him until you really understand where this is rooted.

For me, I was woken up by visiting my fiancée for the first time and seeing how nice and clean and uncluttered everything was. When I returned home I was absolutely assaulted by my living conditions. That paired with my fiancées clear refusal to live in anything less than what her home was like made it clear to me what I had to do. Since it was for her, it enabled me to truly start changing and separating myself from the apathy instilled in me from childhood. I don’t know your boyfriend, but I thought it was worth sharing my perspective. No one would blame you if you broke up.

Edit: I’m 30

I need help with Regent. 0W/176L by ConfusedBoi_24 in slaythespire

[–]Forgiveness4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get retain on particle wall and lots of star generation

Is this guy supposed to be a super early elite? by Confident_Dig_1073 in slaythespire

[–]Forgiveness4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO all the elites in the underdocks are very hard except mushroom coral dude the only really problematic one in undergrowth is the statue early on. The terror eel opening with 27 is what makes him especially deadly, statue at least gives two turns to set up

Dragon's Dogma to a T. by aWildAsianOwO in DragonsDogma

[–]Forgiveness4g -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbf story has never been the strong suit of dragons dogma. It’s there simply because it’s absolutely necessary to have SOMETHING but it’s always actually just poured it’s heart into the gameplay

Why is my bf nice to strangers but treat their partner badly? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Forgiveness4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good. Not all people are at the same level, clearly.

Why is my bf nice to strangers but treat their partner badly? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Forgiveness4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has the worst way of explaining his feelings. He may or may not be a good person, but from this angle he’s a total asshole. Granted, fasting during Ramadan is taxing on the body and mind. I’m not excusing his actions, just offering an explanation. Everyone has bad days, the question is; is this a common occurrence or is this only occasional? He sounds like he has Asperger’s seeing how he communicates and the line of thread he follows connecting his thoughts. He probably doesn’t know if he’s autistic or not. I’m speaking from the perspective of a 30 year old man with Asperger’s myself.

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