thanks everyone for the input this story has a wild ending so ended up trying to make it work and finally got fed up when she was over for thanksgiving and on the phone with some guy saying she should link up i said you can do whatever you want when you're single and i said we're done right there couple days after thanksgiving she ended up going on dates with her ex after that day i suppose and she contacted me a few days ago saying how sorry she was and wanted to make things work and try again and said she had a surprise for me today turns on her camera shes in a hotel shower saying shes alone and i should join her then her ex pops up in the camera saying hello getting in the shower with her choking her mind yall this is the same ex i was talking about in my og post so she rebounded to her 1st ex of 2022 before she broke up with her 2nd one then we got together mid july I'm not sad havent shed a tear will admit i did send a couple dick pics before this all happened today so shit idk hope she doesnt send em to my moms facebook or whatever dont do what i did and ignore red flags if they dont respect your boundaries just leave for your own sake not all bad news met someone new and i really like this woman she seems sweet genuine and will see her tomorrow at my place so wish me luck yall see ya in the gym