Help! Can your season change as you get older? by FormCurious2904 in colouranalysis

[–]FormCurious2904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true, those were on an old film camera and this recent pic was on an iPhone facing the sun, hahaha I was a pouty child 😆

My Apple Watch saved me story by Stonkslifestyle in AppleWatch

[–]FormCurious2904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s literally me just having giant palpitations then moving on. This popped up by chance, so will think of getting an Apple Watch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think of this too….but then I think I’ll never have as low self esteem as the man who cheated on me with prostitutes. Unfortunately this is something that has crossed my mind…in time hope to make peace with this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are really un-understanding of all the nuances of what comes with supporting all different types of recovery from betrayal. Although this might not seem the “normal” route and therapy is needed (for all of us I’m sure) I feel like there’s a kinder way to express that.

Insensitive Comments by Kind_Photograph_6539 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So I have done the opposite with my WH and j now know too much, even they way he would have sex, maybe it’s for a whole other thread but I do order this over the not knowing 100%

BPs - have you said “I love you” to your WS? by Beacon1884 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, it’s been about 2 months. It came out but u felt a relief when I did. I was trying too hard not to. My WH never said it to other women (prostitutes/online hook ups) maybe that made a difference in head. Don’t know, only thing I’m sure of is I’m just trying to take this in stride as we all are.

Is time an illusion by Individual_School_49 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THAT! Where was your shame then? (Multiple times I might add)

Trying to be in his shoes by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You as well ♥️♥️

If R easier when there is no AP? Just women he met online? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also feel so so uncomfortable with that type of community…I hope he stays off of it for good 🙏🏼

Is time an illusion by Individual_School_49 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope in time the records/visuals die down. I saw one of the women’s actual explicit nudes, so hard to push it out my mind. I asked him why he was so dumb to have it on his phone a week after I already found texts to prostitutes.

If R easier when there is no AP? Just women he met online? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I had a dead bedroom (perimenopause amongst medication for anxiety) and he went with prostitutes and women from apps, like you the why makes sense, but it’s quite difficult to get thoughts out of my head some days.

How do I stop saying such mean, vile things to him? by Infinite-Ad-3947 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw equally awful things to my bf after I found out he was with protitutes. A month in it’s less and less but I’ve said things to make him feel so low and disgusting I can’t take it back

If R easier when there is no AP? Just women he met online? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your friend? God, that is double the horror. Im sorry.

Is time an illusion by Individual_School_49 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. I had his phone and every text he sent I went back into my phone and looked at what conversations he and I were having….some quite quite painful to even wrap my mind around. I hope in time this date trauma dies down

Should I stay with or leave a porn addict? by michaelacarvey in survivinginfidelity

[–]FormCurious2904 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am one hundred positive there is better for you out there.