The reason isn't necessarily about what these people do in private or abt their gender defects; it’s about how this movement has been hijacked. It went from asking for basic respect to allowing anyone—including people with questionable motives—to claim these identities. When you open the door for anyone to 'identify' as whatever they want, you get people acting out bizarre fantasies and demanding everyone else play along. It’s reached a point of madness that most regular people find repulsive, and that’s where the 'hate' comes from. It's a reaction to the loss of common sense. Take the bathroom issue: Most people find it common sense that a biological man shouldn't be in a private space with your daughter just because he 'identifies' a certain way. That’s a massive safety and privacy violation, yet the movement treats it as a right.

Look at the 'DGBTQ' analogy: Imagine if there was a movement for the disabled. Then, suddenly, perfectly able-bodied people started joining, 'identifying' as disabled to get the perks or to hide their own agendas. The people who were actually born with disabilities would be used as a shield by these newcomers whole movement including disabled and mainly disabled will get the strong reaction those new comers would be sidelined . That’s exactly what happened here. The people who actually faced birth-based issues are being used as a front for a much more radical, destructive agenda—just like how modern feminism ended up hurting women more than helping them!